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This is not too particular, how can there be so many superstitious statements, this is just a superstitious statement, there is no basis, these can be left alone, the key is to celebrate the birth of a newborn after childbirth, can not be celebrated with meat, do not engage in too extravagance, all with meat to celebrate the birthday, should be celebrated with a vegetarian banquet, do not celebrate with meat, with meat banquet to celebrate the birthday is not good for children, a birthday celebration to let so many creatures be killed, this is to increase the child's sinful karma, the child has a life of fame, wealth and blessings, Because of this killing, the fame and wealth were damaged, and the blessings were damaged, but they also formed a grudge against these living beings.
It says: "If you give birth to yourself, be careful not to kill them, take all the umami to supply the mother, and gather the family members widely, drink alcohol and eat meat, and sing and play strings, so that the children and mothers will not be happy." Why.
When it is a labor disaster, there are countless evil spirits and spirits, and they want to eat blood. It's the spirit of the land that I have ordered to live in the early days. Protect the children and mothers, so that they can be happy and gain benefits.
If so, when they see that they are happy, they will make blessings together and give them to the land. Turned into killing, gathering dependents. Therefore, when celebrating, do not kill, killing is not good for the child, but let him form a grudge against these creatures, so this will be a blessing for the child, so you should hold a vegetarian banquet should not hold a meat feast, if you feel that it is not good to entertain people with meat, then relatives and family members should be vegetarian, if you think that relatives are vegetarian and do not think it is good, then your family is vegetarian, and after doing it, chant sutras and Buddha dedication to these creatures.
Set up a tablet inside the temple.
As for those superstitious sayings, the taboo of superstition can be ignored, and there is no need to listen to these statements, you can do it unintentionally, it is really taboo, and you should also recite the "Dizang Sutra" and the holy name of the Dizang, the "Dizang Sutra" says: "If in the future life, Yan Futi."
Inner, Shari, Brahman.
The elderly, laymen, all people, and people of different races, new births, male or female, recite this incredible scripture in the morning for seven days, and even chant the name of the Bodhisattva, ten thousand times. It is a newborn child, and if there is a bad retribution, he will be liberated, happy and easy to raise, and his life will increase. If it is a person who inherits the blessing of the living, it will increase happiness and lifespan, so you should recite the holy name of the Tibetan Tibetan and the "Dizang Sutra" to the child, which is good for him, and you should also recite the holy name of Guanyin and the "Pumen Pin", so those superstitious sayings can not be exquisite, the real taboo is how you do it, you do it well or not, these can be done, you do not do well and taboo these are useless, in the end there is still no benefit, so you don't need to ask superstitious statements, you do these things is the correct solution.
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The superstitious claim that the mother's family cannot accompany the birth is unscientific.
There may be a variety of reasons why the mother's family cannot accompany the birth, such as the family's financial situation, the health status of the family members, the relationship between family members, and so on.
In short, it is a superstitious saying that the mother's family cannot give birth, there is no scientific basis, we should believe in science, respect science, respect nature, respect life, respect human beings, and respect our own destiny.
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Now all a child, what are so many superstitious sayings?
Girls, daughters-in-law, giving birth to children, relatives can reach, and everything that is convenient for them should be in place, let's work together, and the mother and child are safe, and the blessing of the first time.
What is the saying that you can't go?
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The ancients did not say that there was a word for paternity, and they thought that a man would be unlucky when he entered the delivery room. Now it is possible to take lead with paternity, but most of the paternity is the husband or mother-in-law, and the mother cannot accompany the birth. Why can't my mother accompany the birth, and what are the superstitious sayings or laws that the mother's family can't accompany the birth?
In fact, the mother can accompany the birth, and the fact that the mother cannot accompany the birth is just a custom and superstition. There are still a lot of superstitious sayings about the mother's family not being able to accompany the birth, such as the mother-in-law's mother-in-law's health, or the mother-in-law's mother's accompaniment, the production process will not go well, and there is also a kind of saying that the mother's family can't see the daughter's blood, otherwise it will be unlucky.
Regarding the paternity of the mother's family, different places pay attention to it, and some places just can't let the mother-in-law enter the delivery room, but you can wait outside the delivery room. In some places, when the daughter gives birth, the mother-in-law cannot even go outside the delivery room, so she can only wait for the daughter to come home after giving birth and then take care of it. Now girls are the babies of their parents, and their mothers will basically wait outside the delivery room during childbirth, but they are very little accompanied by them in the delivery room.
There is no scientific basis for the mother not to accompany the delivery, but there are mothers and other mothers waiting outside the delivery room, which can greatly ensure the safety of the mother and avoid accidents. It doesn't matter if the mother enters the delivery room to accompany the delivery, at this time it is mainly to give psychological encouragement to the mother. Therefore, there is no need to scruple about mother-in-law paternity.
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1.The mother's family is more at ease when the mother is outside.
Giving birth to a child is not a trivial matter, it is related to the life safety of the child and the expectant mother, after all, the in-laws have no blood relationship with themselves, even if they are all outside to accompany the birth, the mother has no sense of security. But the mother's family is different, they are the closest people to them, and they were conceived from their mother's womb, so when they think that their mother once suffered the pain of childbirth, the mother has more courage in her heart. If you are at ease, the delivery will go more smoothly.
2.If there is an abnormality in the surgery, a signature is required.
We all hope that the operation will be completed smoothly, but each woman's physique is different, and the situation of the fetus is not controlled. Although there are not many things like Yulin mothers, for the safety of their daughters, the mother's family must accompany the delivery outside, at least so that the mother can rest assured.
3.New mothers need care after leaving the delivery room.
The new mother will not come out immediately after giving birth, and the newborn baby will be held out immediately, some in-laws will rush over to see the child, and there is no one outside the delivery room after the new mother comes out, which makes the mother very sad and disappointed. In order to avoid such a bleak scene, the expectant mother should invite her mother's family to sit in the formation.
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This is the best mother-in-law's family, the mother-in-law's family is also there, and then this one is waiting with you.
I think this is relatively normal, after all, it is my own relatives, and I will definitely be more biased, since you choose to marry her. Then bear with it a little more, if she is really excessive, you can tell him that you help your family, I understand, but I also hope that you will consider our small family, I think many women should be able to listen to it, many problems between husband and wife need to be communicated, if you can't tolerate the day, just communicate well.
You can call the police, it doesn't matter if it's your mother's family, anyone who knows can call the police, this is no longer a family dispute, this is a criminal case, as long as the police are called, even if the family forgives, it's useless, the public prosecution will file a lawsuit, if you just hit a few times, it may be determined to be domestic violence, but using a knife is beyond the scope of domestic violence, and it is directly the crime of intentional wounding.
There is no need to go to the first and second phases, and in some places, the customs of the third phase and the fifth phase can be gone, which is the last solemn memorial ceremony for the deceased old man.
I think this score situation is discussed, if he just sends money to his parents, it is a matter of course, everyone should support their own parents. And he has found a job, he is married, his parents have nothing to rely on, and it is normal for you to send him money. Not only do you send money, but you also have to give your parents some care in terms of life. >>>More
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