Can human nature be changed, can human performance be changed?

I also said this kind of temper, it's hard to change, I also tried to change, but it doesn't seem to have any effect, I think it may be that I haven't encountered extreme things, because the change is instantaneous, just like a person who is stingy by nature, one day suddenly hit by a car, he was lucky to survive, and since then he has become not stingy, because he really understands a truth: money is something outside the body, you can't bring it in life, and you can't take it with you when you die.

What you said is completely correct, there must be a limit to a good temper, you have to know it in your heart, let yourself be more extroverted, take your time, this is a long-term process! Can't wait! It takes perseverance to succeed!

You can't change it, you can only hide it and ...... with a mask

I also have this problem, and now that I think about it, no person with any personality can be perfect, the key is how we treat it. Attitude is everything......Be yourself first, and then see people and ghosts! Let's do it together.

I'm a very easy-going person with a similar personality to you. I've thought about changing, but I've never succeeded. I would like to send you a sentence: the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change.

Yes, because we are in a huge space that is changing all the time.

It depends on who you get along with.

I can change. The essence of human nature has two aspects in terms of daily language: in a narrow sense, it refers to the essential psychological attributes of human beings, that is, the part of the attributes that distinguish human beings from other animals; In a broad sense, it refers to the general psychological attributes of human beings, including the part of psychological attributes that humans and other animals share.

Philosophical definition. Although Marxism acknowledges the existence of human nature, it denies the existence of universal and abstract human nature, and believes that only by proceeding from the social and class nature of human beings can we arrive at a correct interpretation of human nature, and thus asserts that there is no supra-class human nature in class society.

The proletariat has one humanity and the bourgeoisie has another, and these two human natures are irreconcilable and can only be resolved through struggle.

The so-called human nature can be seen everywhere in our lives. Some friends we have gradually gotten along with for a long time, and we still think they are very good, but some friends have caused harm in our hearts. Follow the author to explore the bottomless laws of human nature1. Milgram obeys the experiment.

Psychologist Milgram once conducted an obedience experiment and found that most people would hurt innocent strangers under the instructions and orders of authority.

Before the experiment began, Milgram surveyed his colleagues and students around him, asking everyone how many would succumb to authority in the experiment and choose to "kill" a stranger with high voltage.

The perception is that no more than 10% of people will do this, but the results of the experiment are surprising, even if the stranger exaggerated the screams and begs for mercy in the experiment, 65% of the people will still insist on the electric shock, until they are told by the fake university teacher that the experiment is complete.

2. Zimbardo Prison Experiment.

Psychology Zimbardo once did a prison experiment and proved that the environment can gradually change a person's personality, and the situation can immediately change a person's behavior.

A well-mannered and humble person may turn into a brutal, ** "beast" in some situations.

In the Zimbardo prison experiment, the prisoners and the guards were originally students who had no illegal behavior and were mentally healthy, but in the process of playing, the jailers began to become tyrannical, and they began to abuse the prisoners, torturing them in all kinds of brutal and dirty ways.

The leader of the experiment was also immersed in this, unaware of what was wrong, until a visiting doctor was shocked to see the inhumane abuse of the prisoner, and the leader came to his senses and terminated the experiment.

This experiment shows that there are no absolutely good people in the world, and there are no absolute evil people.

When a person is in a well-ordered environment, the evil component will be hidden, but when a person is in an extreme or unrestricted situation, the evil in the body is easy to be aroused. Man is an animal, so he has an animal nature; People are human beings, so there is also humanity in them. Therefore, goodness is not the whole of human nature, and in the same way, neither is evil.

The world of the highest good is heaven, and the existence of the most evil is hell, and the living cannot see this, which means that between heaven and hell, there must be a third state of intertwining good and evil, that is, the human world.

The same is true of human nature, so don't test it lightly if you don't have to, because most of the time, we choose to be a good person, not just our nature.

Summary. Dear, it is indeed very rare for people to change themselves, there is a saying that the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, and the character is so difficult to change, not to mention the human nature of people<>

What can't be changed is called human nature, understand, ask for answers.

Dear, it is indeed very rare for people to change themselves, there is a saying that the country is easy to change, the nature is difficult to change, and the character is so difficult to change, not to mention the human nature of people<>

I want to ask the teacher, my husband was drinking with his friend outside, and I just said that my friend is not a good person, he will bring you badly, and then my husband replied to me, just fucking jokes, it can't be changed called human nature, do you know what this means? Ask the teacher for an answer.

But this does not mean that human nature cannot be changed, because the biggest difference between us and animals is that people will use education to limit the weaknesses or shortcomings in human nature, which is more conducive to the long-term survival <> of individuals and groups

Dear, my husband told you this, which means: Your husband thinks that his humanity is good, and he will not be taken bad because of a friend, so he wants you to know that he will not be taken bad, so you can rest assured<>

Dear, why are you so worried? You can talk to the teacher in detail and help you analyze it<>

Hehe! Thank you, teacher, for understanding.

You can learn all about Jump's technology, but the key driver for Jump is who we want to become.

Internet connectivity has brought about changes at the bottom of modern society.

Open, focused, sluggish, funny, simple, kind, irritating.

Face the world, be open and focused, and get into the system.

Towards oneself, sluggish and funny, intelligent and detached.

Towards others, simple, kind, and irritating.

Open and focused] Nine Laws:

1. When you see people, you often praise them with joy.

2. Find the source of knowledge in your own field and share it.

3. Don't worship anyone casually. Once worshipped, with Him at the top, your system is closed again.

4. No longer think that what you don't like and can't understand is stupid.

5. Beware of God's perspective theories that "everything makes sense".

6. Be tolerant of people who are not as good as you, because you have not grasped the truth.

7. Set aside 10%-30% of your time for areas that you don't understand and don't know how to touch.

8. Stand on a higher perspective and discover and focus on what makes you unique.

9. Focus on your big problems in life.

Sluggish and funny] Seven Laws.

1. Indifference to unimportant things.

2. Hold back the first reaction and wait for the second response.

3. Don't chase hot spots, and other points emerge.

4. Seek the overall optimal solution and make judgments in a long period.

5. Diversify, regularly do something unreliable, interesting and useless.

6. Success is a small probability event, find your own infinite game.

7. Let go of anxiety and don't let go of curiosity.

Summary. Question 1: Why are successful people anti-humanA:

1. Of course, success does not mean making more money, there are many dimensions of success, but in other dimensions, successful people still have to be anti-human, such as love, family, and friendship. When you first fell in love, you must have wanted to get as close as possible to each other, and you couldn't wait to hit 10 ** a day and send 100 messages, but after a while, love was consumed by you.

Real change is anti-human.

Question 1: Why are successful people anti-humanAnswer: 1. Of course, success does not mean making more money, there are many dimensions of success, but in other dimensions, successful people still have to be anti-human, such as love, family, and friendship.

When you first fell in love, you must have wanted to get as close as possible to each other, and you couldn't wait to hit 10 ** a day and send 100 messages, but after a while, love was consumed by you.

Can you add, I don't quite understand it.

Question 2: The real strong are all masters of anti-human natureAnswer: If you look at human nature as a book, then this book on human nature is the most interesting book, and it is also a book that you can't read and see through in your life.

The complexity of human nature is far from being something that can be explained in words at one moment, it is changing all the time. Because of the existence of human nature, and because everyone treats human nature differently.

The country is easy to change, is the nature really difficult to change?

Yes, it's hard.

Of course, this is only for adults, the focus is on "difficult", although it is difficult, it is still possible to face the difficulties, and it is still possible to change your personality.

It's just that the reason why a person wants to change his personality is nothing more than that he feels that this character is not good, but there are two sides to everything, no character is completely good and no character is completely bad, see the two sides of the character, find a balance, maybe it will be better than you to change him.

The critical period for the formation of a person's character is in childhood, and gradually forming stable character traits in adolescence, and the personality in adulthood will not change much, that is to say, when you reach adulthood, you are not satisfied with your character, and it is a very difficult process to change your personality, and you need to insist on the right way.

And in this process, because of the change of personality, he will experience a lot of bad emotions and psychological distress, causing a lot of pain.

This is a process of intentional change.

In our daily life, our personality is in a stable state, there will not be much ups and downs and changes, for example, an introvert will not suddenly become an extrovert, if there is, then something must have happened to him.

Our character is like the relationship between a stream and the sea, if we don't deal with it deliberately, no matter what the intermediate process is, we will end up in the same way, and eventually flow into the sea. If the stream is to go to another place without flowing into the sea, the effort is obviously predictable.

If we want to change our personality, what can we do to do it?

1. Establish goals.

Under a certain goal, people will mobilize all forces to achieve this goal, but this goal should be achievable and reasonable for you.

2. Enhance self-awareness.

If you only see the bad side of your personality, it means that you don't know enough about yourself. It is necessary to see both the good and bad sides of one's character, have a clear understanding of one's own character flaws, and the more strict oneself is, the greater the determination to transform oneself and the more executive power it is.

3. Today's work is done today.

Since you want to change, don't procrastinate, don't wait for the end of this silver section to finish and then start to implement the plan, you will have a while after you are busy, and things will not be finished.

Moreover, it is said that you are too busy and have no time, but in fact, you know that you want to change, but you have been postponing your actions, which is actually strengthening your original character.

4. Persistence. This is crucial in your process of changing, and changing a bad personality trait requires perseverance. It's a tough process, but it's easy to get used to because it's become a habit like brushing your teeth and washing your face.

Change is a process, and your personality is changing, whether you want it or not.

Human beings are social animals, and they will inevitably come into contact with people, deal with all kinds of things, be infected by all kinds of people, and will have the experience of self-cultivation, interpersonal relationships, and concepts, so you will have different changes in different environments.