What should I do, do I want to continue to be together

I don't know how old you are, I read what you wrote, I want to criticize you first, I want you to think about it carefully, do you still have a fantasy of love? Still fantasize about the appearance of some handsome guys? Your unfocused love has no value at all, because love itself is something that can't be touched or seen, but it is more of a value beyond the actual thing, maybe you have a little difficulty understanding, but it's okay I'll analyze it with you slowly!

What are you doing with him for? Is it your brother who introduced you, so you accept it by the way? Or do you like how he is?

In short, how much do you love him? If you're with him right now purely to keep your brother from losing face or anything else, then there's no value and meaning in being with him....Seriously, unloved love is a painful feeling, and there is no sweetness to it! It's to criticize him again, he restricts you so much that he doesn't believe you, although you deceived him, he should give you a chance!

Isn't that like parents taking care of their children? Besides, this kind of love itself is problematic, so sooner or later they will break up, because everyone in love is equal, and there is no one who cares about it! (What do you think of my explanation, and if there is anything you disagree with or feel inappropriate, please advise!) ）

You tell him: If you can't hold back your heart, don't say that you are spoiled.

That would only be counterproductive.

This is also outrageous, it restricts personal freedom, you are a person, not a cat or a dog!!

I don't know.

However, I advise you to stay with him anyway!

If you separate, maybe you'll regret it.

Because, people only know how to cherish when they lose.

If you want to go with the flow, you should be with each other in your most natural state of mind and state. If you're unhappy about a lot of things, you really don't want to be together, maybe it's happier to be friends.

I'll give you the answer, you don't actually love him, and you may not be able to reach the realm of liking, if you want to force it, I can only say that you actually just feel a little bit about him, and then add a little bit of the reason for my brother's introduction, this is not love you, don't because he loves you, and then you lied to him so you have feelings to compensate for and associate with him, what's the point of being together like this, and I think you are always restricted in life, you have to be cautious about everything, and even the time to go home is stipulated, do you really like this? It's better to think about it, don't waste time on emotionless feelings

It's tiring to be with a man with a careful eye.

Who you are with is your own business, and if you are reluctant to be together for the sake of being together, you will not be happy.

If you love him, you will continue to be with him, and if you don't love him, there is no need to stay.

Emotional things are for two people, and a lifetime is still very long, you have to think about it clearly.