30 didn t talk about friends who don t want to get married, is it tong xing lian?

It's irrelevant, I've never been in love again, but I'm not interested in the same ** around me. Your cousin is just too influenced by his family, which makes him distrust marriage, love, and affection. Think about it from another perspective, a person has lived with low self-esteem since he was a child and is always blamed by others, then no matter what he does, he will be surrounded by low self-esteem and despair, and he will distrust or even hate the people around him.

Instead of questioning your cousin, suggest that your cousin's parents improve their attitude. Let your cousin have more contact with his friends, so that his personality becomes more cheerful, and everything will naturally get better. I used to be very similar to your cousin, very withdrawn and pessimistic, but in the years since I left home to study, I have made a lot of friends and become optimistic, and my family has been secretly saying that I have changed a lot recently.

So friends are good psychological medicine.

I don't think there is a necessary connection between being 32 years old and not being married or not. It is also that he is, so it is normal that he does not want to get married, it is a possibility. The other is like you said, because of domestic violence, you have a withdrawn personality and don't want to have a girlfriend.

Either way, it's a very painful thing for your cousin, and I think that as a relative and friend, you should have the greatest understanding and proper enlightenment, which is very understanding.

It's not gay, it shouldn't be gay, maybe it's a person who has nothing to ask for love, because of autism, he was scolded by his parents since he was a child, so he has a little inferiority, he feels that he is not worthy of being loved by others, and he also has a kind of hatred in his heart, hating his parents and wanting to take revenge on them. Anyway, I think it's because his parents didn't educate him well, how hurtful those sarcastic words are about him, how can you say that, what should not give birth to him, let him die, such parents are human beings, there is such a way to educate children, so your cousin should have an indifferent attitude now, it doesn't matter if there is love or not, it doesn't matter if ...... is loved

Autism may also have depression.

Someone needs to help him enlighten his heart and slowly heal himself.

As you say! There may be psychological problems! You can see a psychiatrist. Most of them are influenced by their parents, which has a shadow on his psyche.

Poor man, he really should have a wife who loves him well, and he is afraid that marriage has nothing to do with homosexuality, and it should be called love and marriage phobia.

You should take him to a psychiatrist His personality will be very detrimental to his life and work, he has never been in love in his 30s, and he doesn't want to get married, not necessarily Tong Xinglian, he has a psychological disorder, and if the obstacle is removed, it will be fine, everyone has psychological problems, but some people are serious and some people are clear, it is very normal to see a psychiatrist, it is like doing a physical examination, don't put too much pressure on him.

He shouldn't be, because from your description, he doesn't show that kind of signs, it should be a psychological problem, a psychological shadow, you can let him consult a psychiatrist, but when you advise him to go, friends or relatives should never treat him as a patient, or think he is ......People with this kind of personality need respect a lot. Otherwise, it will be counterproductive.

Your cousin's house is not in good condition! Your cousin has a special focus on face for the opposite sex! He has no self-confidence, he is afraid of losing face, he wants to find a wife when he has a career and money, as long as he has money, he feels confident, and there is 1 possibility that there is really a problem with his brain!

The whole family has a problem, and you see what you said, parents will want their son to die, and there should be a possibility.

He's not gay, he's a twisted personality.

No. Growing up in such a family environment can easily lead to a sense of fear of family.

From the family background, he didn't live happily, he was lonely and fragile inside, didn't he? He was afraid of getting hurt, and he didn't dare to face it.

It's very wrong for parents to do this!! You have to care more about him, you are a very good person, he will find someone who really cares about him, he will live well, he must learn to understand what he thinks in his heart. I wish you all happiness!

Haven't you heard of celibacy?

[Reasons why girls don't want to get married] 1. You can fall in love forever: love to hate, cry and laugh 2. Fear of extramarital affairs: fear that vows will become lies, and beauty will become hurt 3

The responsibility becomes heavier, and the education of children is a big project4, I like to be free and unrestrained: a person is free, and no one scolds me for being stupid and says that I am not virtuous 5. Premarital phobia: I can't finish housework, and my relatives have become complicated.

No problem, I'm just used to living alone, and so am I, but I'm a man.

I don't think it's possible that we haven't found an opportunity yet.

Maybe it's the fear of marriage, maybe he's not interested in men, maybe, he hasn't met the man who is waiting for him

Why don't you fall in love and don't get married, you are sick, everyone will always have different ideas at different stages, this is someone else's freedom, except for his parents, no one else can care.

I don't want to fall in love at the age of 30, I don't want to get married, and now that society is very common, there is no problem, and there are many reasons for this:

With the development of social economy, there has been a great change in thinking, and it is no longer the idea of a small family in the past;

Nowadays, people are more open-minded, and some people come to find the other half in line with the principle of preferring shortage to abundance;

Nowadays, people are less inclusive, and they will break up if they have a little contradiction, and some people would rather choose to be single than want to be hurt.

It may be unmarried, thinking that it is good to live alone, and it is too troublesome to fall in love and get married, or it may be that the vision is relatively high and has been picking and choosing, so he is still unmarried.

Maybe I've met, talked, and been hurt emotionally, so I don't want to get married, and after saying that once I get married, I'm not free, and I'm going to be trapped in life.

What's wrong with being single, it's free. I'm single and I'm happy. It's the parents who are unhappy.

That's right, it definitely won't hurt.

Brother, you haven't met the other half of your life yet, it's not easy to get married, it's okay, take your time.

31 have never been in love, what is the reason for your resistance and fear of marriage. But your heart still longs for you to have a boyfriend, falling in love and getting married are a process of life, accept your inner thoughts calmly, and find your own happiness.

My suggestion is to find a boyfriend and marry. In this way, two people can help each other together. Later, when you are sick or old, you will have a place to help each other.

Marriage is the embodiment of human civilization, and it is also a necessary itinerary for a family to inherit their connections. There are many women who have been psychologically harmed by you in a certain period of time, and they will have a disgust for love, which will lead to the phenomenon that some will not marry for life, and some will marry hastily at an older age, in fact, you still want to marry an excellent man, but you are just frightened by some unhappy marriages and families.

You could not be more wrong!!

Age is not a problem, it is a big problem if you don't want to fall in love very much!! People need to be emotionally cared for, even though they may have an extremely independent will and character.

As long as you have fantasized about having an intimate opposite sex, it means that your psychological and physical needs are the same as ordinary people, and you are by no means an alternative group, but you have a strong sense of risk prevention in your view of marriage and love.

No matter what you went through growing up, there will definitely be someone in this world who will love you to the extreme, and of course, you may love him to the extreme.

Getting married and having children, enjoying love, and enjoying family life is the path that life should take. Otherwise, why do you fantasize about having an ideal boyfriend? Of course, if you don't want to fall in love, you don't want to get married for the rest of your life, it's your freedom.

A person's life choices are determined by the context in which they live, the formation of their worldview, and the influence of their environment. Your subconscious desire to have an ideal boyfriend is your heart, and there are still traditional thoughts. I hope you think about whether you want to follow the traditional path or follow the path you envisioned, so as not to regret it when you get old.

Men should get married, women should get married, get married and have children, this is the continuation of life, don't fall in love, don't get married, this is a personal choice and right, but all people don't fall in love, don't get married, don't have children, the country's population will grow negative, and it will grow old slowly, whether it is a small family or a country, if you want to progress, if you want to develop, you still have to have people, and you must have talents, rely on people's wisdom and wisdom to study more and better scientific research and technology, which is the progress of mankind and the development of scientific research history. I wonder what it would be like if there were no people on Earth?

Everyone has their own ideals. Individuals have their own way of life. Modern society is an inclusive and open society. Your dreams will come true.

But the key factor here is that the boyfriend you want is someone who agrees with and respects your ideas.

Now singleness. The Dink Family. Homosexual.

All of them have been recognized by everyone. Some countries or regions even legislate to allow gay marriage. This was unthinkable before.

Feudal society stifled human individuality and differences. Men should get married, and women should get married. There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great.

People don't have a choice. But times are different now. The choice of the individual is respected by all sectors of society.

On the premise of not violating the law, you can live as you want.

I sincerely hope that you can find your favorite boyfriend and live your ideal life.

I'm 28 years old and recently I suddenly feel uninterested in women and even a little averse to getting married.

Feeling like you may have relationship problems Having experienced two relationships.

The first relationship was young and ignorant and had no money.

The second relationship has everything it should have, and I have the ability to make money, saying that I don't like it, and it took 3 years for each relationship.

I feel tired, especially lately, and I feel pretty good alone.

You don't have to think about the future for whom.

Just take care of yourself.

It's a bit lonely, but it's not bad.

Must gay interested in men, sexual orientation is basically stereotyped and it's hard to correct it back.

The son is thirty years old, and he is not interested in talking about his girlfriend, but is in a hurry, annoying, what is the problem.

Let it be, and when it gets to this point, it's too late to discipline.

Are you sure he's not interested in women? If it were true, it could be ......

Maybe it's the right one.

Me too, I'm almost 25, and I haven't talked about it, so I don't know if I haven't met someone I like.