The loneliness of growing up, the more you grow, the more lonely you become

Updated on psychology 2024-06-26
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Tsk, you know what loneliness is, it seems that you are really growing.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because we have all grown up lonely, we like the taste of loneliness. Because we are lonely with each other, we learn to smile hard. A box of retro-looking, open and greeted with antique, finely made chocolate, whether in loneliness, allow to suck its mellow essence, you seem to be like it immediately melted in the lonely years.

    Also, a small note wrapped in brown paper on the table when I got up early in the morning: Mom will be back soon. Because of a few words, I can wait for her on the threshold for a day, the longing in my eyes, the loneliness in my heart.

    Sometimes, when I can't bear the loneliness, tears will fall one by one, slap on my sleeves, and become a large piece of wet cloth. I am a person who seems sunny on the outside but lonely on the inside, I am afraid of loneliness, but I am enjoying loneliness, enjoying the comfort and serenity that loneliness brings me, why not? Because the blooming flowers tell me:

    Because of loneliness, there is no earthly hustle and bustle, so it will not be affected by the world, and it will bloom so luxuriantly and purely. Why can't we enjoy this loneliness? Let yourself better improve yourself in loneliness, or open your heart and fall in love with the faint loneliness of growing up.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Life can't be as good as you think, but it's not as bad as you think it is. I think that people are more fragile and strong than I can imagine. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears at a single sentence, and sometimes, I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No, I'll tell you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. What does it mean to be lonely and make people grow.

    Compare it to the loneliness of the great man in Walden.

    After experiencing a lot, my heart has become numb, and I am more and more afraid of the feeling of being alone, especially when I am idle, I can't find a job, I have no one to share the elaborate food, no one understands and has nowhere to tell about the bitterness in my heart, and I can only carry the problem by myself and no one to share it.

    It is said that loneliness makes people grow. But the price of growth is unbearable.

    Loneliness makes people grow, loneliness makes me understand?

    What does it mean to be lonely to make people grow, compared to the loneliness of the great men in Walden. After experiencing a lot, my heart has become numb, and I am more and more afraid of the feeling of being alone, especially when I am idle, I can't find a job, I can't find a job, I don't share the elaborate food, I have no one to understand and have nowhere to tell about the depression and emptiness in my heart, and when I encounter problems, I can only carry them by myself and no one to share them, and when I encounter problems, I say that loneliness makes people grow. But the price of growth is unbearable.

    Now that the novelty of the two of you has passed, you feel bored and have no topic. It's obviously a couple, just like being single, and there's no purpose at all, and it's just a numb response every day.

    Because the problem he is facing now is divorce. Then the child's mother left the child at home, and there was no one to take it. Every day, one person buries the dust and takes care of the children's daily life.

    He didn't understand. He and I can't be together at the moment. If there was no response today, I said that he didn't say a word of greeting.

    That's right, so when you encounter a lot of troubles. I feel like I'm living it all by myself. You two aren't in a relationship yet, are you?

    He didn't even greet him today, Zheng La may have encountered more things and was more upset, so he didn't want to send his temper to you and to you, so he ignored the congregation for the time being. Wait for a while. If you have established a relationship with him, you can help him take the child, after all, the boys are careless, they are running, and the child finds it troublesome.

    There are also other times when the work is more stressful. The mood will be more irritable.

    Now the relationship is determined. But his marriage was not settled. He told me to give him time. Say I'm his hope and motivation right now.

    That's right, before he still respects his grandson and doesn't completely realize the trouble of marriage, he can't put all his heart on you, he can only be distracted and ignore you, in his heart, as long as the divorce is over, he can have a bright chain with your new life, so you are his hope and motivation.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. Because of loneliness, you have more time to grow. When you feel lonely, you should not look for anything because of loneliness, it requires your patience, and this painful process can bring you to maturity.

    Loneliness makes people grow, loneliness makes me understand?

    Because of loneliness, you have more time to grow. When you feel lonely, you shouldn't look for anything because of loneliness, it requires your patience, and this painful process can make you mature and reascension.

    What does that mean?

    What he means is that he is alone, he is alone, he is happy, Daheng has grown up, he doesn't want you to restrain him, but how can I shoot the imitation bridge, I feel that his attitude towards you is not very good.

    Because the problem he is facing now is divorce. Then the child's mother left the child at home, and there was no one to take it. Every day, one person buries the dust and takes care of the children's daily life.

    He didn't understand. He and I can't be together at the moment. If there was no response today, I said that he didn't say a word of greeting.

    It's also possible that he takes the child, he doesn't know why he is a little annoyed, so it shouldn't be a day when he doesn't even have time to send a greeting!

    I don't know what he thinks.

    His statement is that he likes to be alone.

    If you like someone, don't say every day that I'm busy and ignore him.

    Yes, I really like someone, how can I resist not contacting him.

    I don't know. Maybe he's in a bad mood right now. Possible.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The loneliness we are experiencing, we call it confusion. Those loneliness that go through is what we call growth. - Liu Tong, "Your Loneliness, Although Defeated, You Are Still Glorious".

    I insist on it every day, but I seem to never see the distance, and I am working hard every day, but I am still the same as before.

    So, I began to be confused, began to hesitate, and hesitated whether to continue this lonely and long endless journey.

    Whose youth is not confused, in fact, you and I are the same.

    It's right for you to feel confused, at least you still have illusions about the future, and it's right for you to feel lonely, because your loneliness is still glorious despite defeat.

    Those who have experienced loneliness are called growth, and those who are experiencing loneliness are called confusion. Growing up is the unexpected arrival of confusion and loneliness again and again.

    No one will always be smooth, may you live in harmony with loneliness, coexist with confusion and friendship, with confusion, with loneliness, embark on this vast journey called life.

    Every day, what you have to do is to work hard, to persevere, to be strong, to choose the path you choose, and to finish it with pride no matter what, because you don't know how many sneering eyes are on the way behind you, ready to be on call.

    Learn to get along with yourself and move forward silently step by step, because, along the way, the only one who can accompany you is the fragile and determined self.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Growing up means growing up, it means being sensible, it means growing taller, it means thinking maturely, and it means ......

    That's when I'm still young, I just have my own thinking about the world, I have my own ideas, I naturally have a lot of questions, and I often ask some questions to my parents, and at that time, my parents may answer seriously and patiently, or they may prevaricate; You'll know it when you grow up. So, at that time, I guess what I thought about every day was to grow up quickly.

    Kindergarten, simple and happy, is learning to play every day, and does not understand some truths. Elementary school is older than before, but it was still naïve at that time, and everyone was still simple, so there was nothing left. Junior high school, grown up, is a big child, teenagers, however, many people also have more eyes, by your side, under the banner of friends, in fact, Liang Leak, is to win your trust, help him do that evil thing, when he is in trouble, he will push you out, let you replace him, when you are in trouble, he will immediately change his face and do not know you.

    This is junior high school, this is growing up.

    I often see friends writing in their own signatures or spaces, etc.: I will never trust my friends again. I don't have any friends, those, just mine. Schoolmate.

    Seeing this, especially if you get along well with yourself and treat her as a friend, your heart will definitely hurt, but in fact, as long as you get used to it, you won't feel anything. When the heart is broken a lot, it will be numb and insensible, so I am also infected as a hedgehog, full of thorns, afraid of being pulled out, and afraid of being pricked by others, so there is only one way, to curl up Sun Zhaji into a ball by himself.

    The older you get, the more lonely you get, the more you grow up, the more lonely you get, the more you grow up, the more boring you get, the more you grow up, the more ridiculous you get, the more you grow up, the more pathetic you get.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the process of growing up, there will always be times when you deviate, you may fly into the misunderstanding, and you need to make an emergency landing at this time.

    Life has changed, too much has been lost, only lonely and lonely company, no warblers singing and dancing, birds singing and flowers.

    From the noisy streets to the hidden mountains and forests, it is a spiritual transformation, the pain of the golden cicada's shelling, and the reborn phoenix nirvana.

    Endure the loneliness, you will grow, low and praying, you can only fall into deeper darkness, you should have woken up, but Cha type is always dreaming.

    Pat the dust off your body and move forward fearlessly!

    When people move forward, they need to lighten their burdens, travel lightly, put down the things they shouldn't bring, and throw away the garbage.

    People, only by daring to face the bleak life, can they go smoothly, don't bow their heads, no longer be nostalgic, and believe that the scenery ahead is unique, which is the highest reward for you who are lonely and moving forward.

    Change your shortcomings, hold the steering wheel in your hands, no longer deviate, fly through misunderstandings, and say bravely in the past, go all the way, all the way forward!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A person's world is a bit bleak, and a person's loneliness is a little pathetic. Flowers bloom and fall, time flies, and a person grows up, with pain and bitterness. Time records the sad age of innocence, and slowly passes away......

    Inscription. The sky outside the window was gloomy, revealing a cold breath and looking hazy. Tears slid silently down my cheeks, feeling the wetness and warmth of the tears on the back of my hand, accompanied by a slight pain.

    I always cry inexplicably, I can't say why, and I feel so helpless. There are always wet traces where the tears have been spilled, and there is an unknown powerlessness.

    I always say that I can smell a kind of tranquility and seclusion, hear the melancholy of loneliness and the ethereal of loneliness, feel the poignancy of tranquility, and taste the prostration of confusion. Under the lonely soul, there will be a sad and desolate life, still confused, the future, still far away, and you can't see the direction ahead.

    Accustomed to deep thought, accustomed to silence. I admit that deep reflection is just an escape, a reason to be numb to loneliness. Silence is also only a mask under sentimentality.

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