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The former is strong, the latter is soft. The former understands the sophistication of human feelings, and the latter is born in happiness and does not know blessings. The former is optimistic and cheerful, while the latter is depressed.
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Wrong, wrong, wrong!! Adversity creates two kinds of people: capable and incompetent!
Good times create two kinds of people: capable and incompetent!
Most of the working people live in adversity, and we often see that the children of poor families are in charge of the family early. Those are nothing more than propaganda about the so-called communist transition.
You must know that the so-called early masters are only a few, and those "early masters" are just children, no one knows what will happen when they grow up!
When life is good, it is natural for the next generation to continue to live well, of course people don't care, when it's not good, that's the abnormality, and that's the value of people knowing.
What is growth! I think it's just a difference in the evolution of mentality.
Isn't that exactly what one kind of rice raises a hundred kinds of people?
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As the saying goes"The children of poor families are in charge of the family at an early age"I believe that most of the children who have come from adversity.
They are all more tolerant than the children in the mirror, (only partially, of course) because of what they have suffered.
There must be more setbacks.
But sometimes I lose confidence and feel inferior because of this, both of which I think are more common.
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The environment makes different personalities. Be strong in the face of adversity. Prosperity is weak.
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Xiao Kedong, what you said is too absolute!
Environment, is the cause.
Please correct one's attitude and do not score it.
What is the matter with external and internal factors, you dare to say that you are more powerful than Li Ao and Liu Luoguo before you have learned philosophy well!
Send you a word, load!
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It depends on the guidance of parents, family background does not represent a person's character, parents are the first teachers.
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Everyone needs a platform for development, and facts tell us that smooth sailing is not the most favorable environment for growth, but we must admit that in good times, we can get more opportunities.
1. The environment is important for growth.
A bad family environment will not only make children say goodbye to happy times prematurely, but also make them often in a psychological state of tension, worry, confusion, etc., and even lead to their boredom with learning, learning difficulties, and declining grades, which will then lead to a series of problems in children's values and outlook on life. A large number of family education practices show that a bad family environment is easy to cause children to have various deviations in their learning and life development.
Second, the disadvantages of adversity.
In times of adversity, there is often more than a single disaster, and the negative pressure inside and outside is extremely great, which can be said to be in a dilemma, persecution is unbearable, and some people even think of dying, which is a moment of hesitation, confusion, suffering, struggle, escape, impatience, and despair. In fact, in times of adversity, most of the pressure comes from the heart, such as: delusions, errors in judgment, and emotional reactions and rational struggles that are unwilling to change, but the actual situation is not necessarily so bad, as long as you stand firm, sober your head, regulate your emotions properly, and maintain a certain degree of ability, it is not difficult to find a solution.
3. Good times are conducive to growth.
In good times, the body and mind can develop better. If a person is born in a poor and remote place, his family is hungry, he is struggling on the poverty line, and he does not even have the possibility of education, can he grow up better in such adversity? Obviously, the most basic requirements cannot be met, how can we talk about the content of physical and mental development?
Only in good times can we get better development. Good times are more conducive to people's success, and the pressure of people in good times will be much less than that of adversity, which can effectively reduce the adverse effects of objective factors on individual growth, so that people can ensure that they can concentrate and devote themselves to the efforts that are conducive to their growth. <
Although good times and bad times are the inevitable life situations that people face in the process of growing up, comparatively speaking, good times are more conducive to people's growth.
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In fact, in contrast, I think that good times are more conducive to growth, because children who grow up in good times will definitely have special self-confidence, and children in adversity are likely to have special low self-esteem.
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Adversity is definitely more conducive to growth, because adversity can make a person have a better attitude, which is good for people's growth.
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Personally, I think that those who grow up in adversity are more self-motivated, more mature, more tolerant, and have stronger self-care skills.
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In fact, in most cases, it is still adversity, which makes it easier for a person to grow, and it is necessary to face setbacks to be able to know that he is insufficient.
Growth is to become mature after having a certain amount of experience in psychology, thinking about problems will not be simplified, the so-called "adversity makes people grow" is to experience, with experience so become mature.
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