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The child is the child, the child is still young, but you have grown up, look at the child with an objective and developmental perspective, whether the child can stand in the future, not just look at these can be decided, if she can already stand now, it can't be called a child, character can be cultivated and shaped, now qualitative, say can't stand, is it too early, and then your daughter is still young, you can guide and exercise her well, whether you can stand in the future, depends on how you guide.
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Communicate with him well, ask him clearly, prescribe the right medicine, and think from his point of view. Take your time, don't ask him too much at once, let him adapt slowly, gradually cultivate his courage, don't be in a hurry, if you are in a hurry, I am afraid it will get worse and worse.
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This is a normal behavior of small children. It is recommended that you read more books on children's psychology. Don't take the so-called politeness that adults think your child should be used as a judgment of whether your child's character is good or bad.
A child's good character is closely related to the parent's education. Teaching by example is important! It's important to encourage education!
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Evaluation advantages 1. Enthusiastic and cheerful personality, friendly to others, honest and modest. Diligent, conscientious and responsible, able to bear hardships and stand hard work, conscientious and patient. Affinity.
Approachable and good at communicating.
2. Cheerful personality, uprightness, honesty and stability. Work conscientiously and steadfastly, with a sense of responsibility.
Strong and good at independent thinking.
Analyze the problem and solve the problem. Have a strong sense of collective honor, strong social adaptability, and good team spirit.
Able to bear hardships and stand hard work, willing to try various challenges.
3. Strong self-learning ability, good at thinking, hard-working, and good communication skills.
Good at getting along with others, full of team spirit, love sports.
Evaluation disadvantages 1, the work is more rigid, sometimes easy to be more honest with people.
2. I want to learn any knowledge or major, but I don't learn anything.
3. It is easy to put forward different opinions, which leads to often offending people.
4. Not very good at too much communication, especially with strangers There is a certain degree of difficulty.
5. The work is urgent, and the accuracy is sometimes insufficient.
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Warm and cheerful personality, friendly to others, honest and humble for others. Diligent work, conscientious and responsible, able to bear hardships and stand hard work, conscientious, and patient. Affable, approachable, and good at communicating with people.
2. Cheerful personality, uprightness, honesty and friendliness.
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1. Good and harmonious family atmosphere.
The impact of a good family environment on the healthy growth of children is self-evident. If a child grows up in the midst of parental quarrels, such a family environment will have a psychological shadow on the child from an early age.
2. Parents should give their children a sense of security.
Bao Min Zheng Naibao has physiological needs that need to be paid attention to in infancy and early childhood, that is, to meet their own sense of security.
3. Cultivate children's good character in daily study and life.
Let the child understand that he must put in the effort in order to achieve good results in the process of learning, and let him become a habit of enlightenment.
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First, it is necessary to soothe the child's feelings.
As parents, the first thing we should do is not to reprimand our children, but to reduce their psychological burden. When a child is bullied, he must be aggrieved, irritable, and uneasy, and at this time, as a parent, he should stand in the child's perspective, first understand the child, comfort the child, and listen to the child with all his heart, so that the child who is late will feel warm at this time, so as to reduce the inner hurt and insecurity.
Second, it is necessary to ask the reason and understand the truth.
Once your child's mood has stabilized, ask your child about the reason for the incident. If a child is being bullied, it is important for you as a parent to understand what is going on. After understanding the cause and effect of the incident, analyze the cause of the incident with the child to see if it was because of a joke or if he was actually being bullied.
Third, it is not the child's fault, but firmly stand on the child's side.
If you really receive bullying, then clearly tell your child that it is wrong to bully others, and that you will fight back if you are bullied. If you can't solve it yourself, ask for help. If your parents, or your teacher, or your uncle, are around, you have to ask for help.
Let your children know that they must tell their parents if they are bullied outside, and that they should not be allowed to be bullied. Tell your child that parents are always the strongest support for their children.
Fourth, cultivate children's sense of rights.
Children are still young, and many things do not know what the right thing is. When children are bullied, many people are afraid of others who are better than them, and they do not dare to resist and give in. This is because the child does not yet have a sense of rights.
Parents should cultivate their children's sense of rights, so that they should not be tolerant all the time, but should have the courage to resist. Parents should educate their children that when they are bullied, it is most important to protect themselves and to have a sense of self-protection.
Fifth, analyze the root causes.
If you are always being bullied, then you need to see if there is something wrong with the way your child interacts. If it is, parents should give their children the methods and skills to make friends to improve their children's ability to make friends.
Sixth, let children be physically fit.
To let children have a healthy body, we should be willing to let them know how to endure hardships, and do not blindly spoil children, so that children can develop the bad habit of being lazy and lazy. Parents can set an example and train like their children, run and play badminton, or go to games to strengthen their physique. This will also prevent the child from being bullied to a certain extent.
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My sister is still young, my sister lets my sister play first" "She is still young and ignorant, you have to let her go" This is a phenomenon that often occurs in families, especially when there are many children. There is no problem with this sentence, but when it is used in reality, it is necessary to analyze and judge whether it is necessary to make the big one small according to the situation. If the big child has to let the small one, there will be an older child who wants to play on the swing outside, but there are already other children on the swing, she will wait for the child to come down and then go up, but when she sits on it not long ago, there is an adult who takes the child younger than her, pushes the big child down, saying that the younger sister is so small, the sister lets the younger sister play for a while, if the parents don't stop it, to guide the older child, it will make the older child feel that I should indeed let the little one, and the younger sister is right, I was wrong.
This creates a flaw in character.
It's like one day, when your child meets an older brother or sister than him, and the older child has an object in his hand that he likes but doesn't have for himself, and he wants to try to ask for that item, but the older child refuses to give it to him, how will your child feel? In the child's mind, he may think: I want to let the little child, and I want to let the big child, so what do I don't need to let go?
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1. Cultivate her ability to think independently, have her own ideas when she encounters things, rather than following the crowd, and have her own judgment when she meets people, rather than easily listening to them.
2. If you slowly cultivate her comprehensive and correct sex education, physiological knowledge, sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy, etc., many things can not be done, but you can't not know, the more you know, the more you can face it (people are always full of fear of unknown things) to face it.
3, to accompany her ability to love herself and love others, many people grew up in a lack of love environment, and when they grow up, they may be easily coaxed by others' boos, which is a very dangerous thing, I hope that she will grow up in a loving environment, and slowly learn to love herself and others.
4. Cultivate her awareness of safety scumbags, teach her safety knowledge, and usually read more news to learn a lot of things, after all, there is nothing new under the sun, and the news that happened yesterday can happen around us tomorrow. Safety knowledge can come to Zhihu to learn, and it is very good to have related problems.
5. Maintain a certain frequency of contact with her, no matter how old she is in the eyes of her parents, she is a child, she can only let go occasionally, understand the relevant information of her friends, colleagues, and boyfriends, don't know anything about it, you can also check for her, and try to stay away from people who feel dangerous, or give relevant advice.
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I've always felt that the strange elf girl is actually very strong inside! Because they are self-confident in themselves. In my outlook on life and values, I have always believed that women's financial, spiritual, and emotional independence are important.
Many girls may not understand this, or they may experience too little, or they may fall out of love too few times and simply do not realize it. After experiencing a lot, I naturally know that apart from my own strength and becoming my own haven, I can't rely on anything for a lifetime.
The smart and aura girl is carefree on the surface and confident on the inside. There are also many girls who come from good backgrounds, and their parents shelter her from the wind and rain. And then there is the girl who is really pure in heart and hasn't experienced many ups and downs.
Whether it is a son or a daughter, in addition to the influence of genes, the acquired education and family environment play a vital role in the development of personality. It is not so much that girls are more like fathers, but that children are greatly influenced by their parents and family environment. Before children have formed their own stable three views, they must imitate their parents when they speak and do things, resulting in some children's personalities being very similar to their parents.
But the people and things behind the school's education and into society!
It also has an impact on a person's three views and personality, which also leads to some people having some changes in their personality after a few years of studying and working, even contrary to their parents. There is no difference between good and bad personalities. In the process of growing up, in the face of different people and things, constantly revise yourself, form your own three views, become mentally independent, become an adult in the true sense, be responsible for your own life, and assume your own responsibilities is the most important thing.
Emotionally avoidant. Such a girl may be born from a family or be hurt in her interactions, but not necessarily with avoidant attachment. They cherish the relationship between people, so they are very attentive.
They don't get easy access to a person, but after getting in touch with the person on a deeper level, they keep in touch with him.
At first you will think that she is very easy to get along with. Later, you will find that she is always silently observing others, but not close. This is because she needs time to get to know someone, and when she confirms that a person is worth dating, she will be good to the other person and cherish the relationship.
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You should develop a very generous, very sensible, and decisive character. That's great.
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Girls should still develop an independent and confident character, because no one in society will sympathize with you because you are a girl, so you should still protect yourself.
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Girls should develop an atmospheric, and general character, but also should be more mature, and should also experience some things, and should also be more brave and decisive.
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Girls should be cultivated into an atmospheric character, they must be tolerant, don't worry too much about some things, and just look at it themselves.
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Develop a calm and atmospheric character, such a girl is very easy to arouse the favor of others, and can also leave a good impression on others.
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Girls should develop an atmospheric, assertive and unafraid character, such girls will not suffer when they enter the society, and the road of life is relatively smooth.
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A girl should develop a generous and straightforward personality, because in this way she will be very independent in the future, and she will be very good in the future.
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Develop a generous character, because generous girls are more liked.
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Hello, the cultivation of sex education is very important in young children. In modern society, mothers spend a lot of time with their children, and fathers often lack education, resulting in children being greatly affected by their mother's personality in the process of growing up, such as small speech, movement and so on. Character education must be carried out for children to lay a firm foundation for their future growth and avoid sexual orientation problems.
First of all, the gender is known before the age of 3, and before the child is 3 years old, by letting them gradually know the parts of their body, know whether they are a boy or a girl, and know the father. The difference between mom and dad is that the boy often has short hair, has a beard, has an Adam's apple, and likes sports. Mom is a girl, with long hair and dresses.
Recognize the difference between the signs of men's and women's toilets in the outdoor toilet, and let children understand their own roles at this stage.
Secondly, as the child grows up, give the child clothes, toys, and activity types to guide. Boys prepare more toys such as guns, cars, balls, etc., and girls prepare dolls, play houses and other toys. Deepen your role through the interaction of toys.
Boys should focus on boys' parenting styles, and girls should focus on girls' parenting styles.
Third, in life, it is necessary to instill some masculinity according to the gender of the child, be strong, do not cry when you fall, and the girl can take care of others and be a good helper for mothers.
Finally, gender cultivation runs through every point in the child's growth, and the influence of parents in the family is subtle, so it is necessary to give them normal guidance to avoid gender misalignment.
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