To what extent can an older brother spoil his younger sister?

It's a very happy feeling to have an older brother who dotes on me.

Such an older brother can bring a lot of joy to himself. It just so happens that I also have such an older brother. My brother was really nice to me when I was younger.

Because of the big age gap between my brother and me, when my brother was in junior high school, I hadn't started school yet. At that time, when my brother went to school in other places, he would buy me good things when he saw them.

I remember when I was a child, the family conditions were more difficult, so my parents bought me shoes of that kind of cloth shoes, and we rarely saw that kind of popular shoes in the small town.

Later, when his brother was in high school, he went to school in the provincial capital. He buys me good things whenever he sees them in the provincial capital. I remember the most memorable time when he bought me a pair of leather shoes when I was in high school.

He bought these leather shoes with his usual savingsPocket moneyBuy.

And when I was a child, I often played with my brotherAnd when my brother and his friends go out together, he will also take me along。Looking back, I think the happiest time was when I was a kid running after my brother.

Such an older brother is an idol in the eyes of his sister. My brother dotes on me and stands up for me when I am bullied. And when I'm unhappy, he will try to coax me.

And when I begged my mom and dad to buy me something, and my mom and dad didn't agree, my brother would buy it for me. Now that I'm older, sometimes I don't have living expenses, so I ask my brother for it, and my brother will still give it to me.

And during the New Year's holidays, my brother will also send me some red envelopes. In my mind, my brother is my idol. Although we have our own lives when we grow up, this brother-sister relationship will not changeI am very happy to have such an older brother

It is a very happy experience, because of my brother's tolerance and forbearance, I can be pampered and proud, very relaxed, very willful, and full of happiness.

is very happy and satisfied, with my brother carrying everything for me, my pressure will be much less.

It is a very unforgettable experience, with the love and companionship of my brother, I feel that I have come this way, especially happy and unforgettable.

As older brothers and sisters, of course, don't blindly let younger brothers and sisters go. Both the older and the younger should learn to be polite. Let's talk about it!

1.There must be a degree of courtesy

Comity has always been a virtue, but comity is not the same as blindly accommodating. In life, as older brothers and sisters, they are often educated to let younger brothers and sisters. But if you always let them, it won't work.

For example, two children should be one and a half of a dish, but the older child is very obedient and humble, and only one-third of it is needed, and the younger child will put the rest into his own bowl. And the parents just laugh and think that the older children are very sensible and the younger children are very cute.

And such things often happen, including when watching TV, playing with toys, after a long time, the whole family gets used to it.

Younger brothers and sisters are more and more accustomed to this feeling of being pampered by the whole family, and gradually take it for granted, parents, brothers and sisters are very humble, and the young children are thousands of pampered, never polite, after a long time, when eating, the young children always put a ** dish, together with the plate in front of themselves, completely ignoring others, more and more selfish.

Over time, as an older brother and sister, I always feel that my parents are becoming more and more partial, as if I was born first, I am destined not to be pampered, and sometimes I watch my younger siblings and parents sweetly together, and no one pays attention to them, as if they are a family.

Parents may feel that young children are younger and need more love, but once this kind of love is out of balance, something will go wrong.

2.Comity should be mutual

Older siblings should take the initiative to let younger siblings go, because it is a virtue to share good things, not deliberately accommodating, so young people should also learn to be polite. For example, older brothers and sisters give delicious and fun to younger brothers and sisters, and younger brothers and sisters should also give back, humility should be mutual, not unilateral, such family affection is the family affection that you come and go.

3.I was always let and it was hard to grow up

When young children grow up in such a family environment, because they lack nothing since they were young, and they are loved by thousands of people, they have no sense of distress, and they lack the motivation to work hard. Never think about others.,No matter what difficulties you encounter, someone will solve them for you.,Even if the body grows up.,But the heart is still a playful and selfish child in the past.。

So, humility is right, but it's not one person's thing, it's mutual.