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How many positive conditions are there in a person's life? This is a question that many people who are destined to ask will ask, and I will unify you here today.
Whether there is only one positive fate in a person's life is actually a false proposition. Why? Some people have only one marriage in their lifetime, and some people have more than two marriages.
Does a person who has only one marriage prove to be a positive relationship in his lifetime, the answer is, of course, no.
Fate is a beautiful thing and has the meaning of deception, why do you say that? Two people from acquaintance to acquaintance to get a license to get married and give birth to the next generation, this is a process of married life through time and space, some people have a good life in the first few years or more than ten years or decades, and suddenly there are changes at a time node, some quarrel constantly, and some even end this married life with divorce. This can't help but ask, isn't the other party who has been in the past for so long not his own positive fate?
Master Yunyi would like to solemnly tell you here, in fact, the fate of the two people is subdivided into deep and shallow, thin and thin, fast and slow, etc., you can ask the real skilled master to give you an analysis, if you one-sidedly listen to which master said that you and the other party are the right fate and did not explain the difference between the positive fate and the bad fate with you, then you have to pay attention, the real positive fate is to distinguish by yourself, as the so-called shoes do not fit only you know. Many people who are destined to analyze their marriage will carefully analyze with each other whether you have fate first, if there is fate, and then analyze whether the fate between the two of you is enough, whether the fate is enough to accompany each other for a lifetime, if it is insufficient, what are the aspects that need attention. In fact, this is also the basis for analyzing marriage.
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The person who marries you is not destined, that is because two people really love each other to get married, and it is not destined by God, it is a good relationship between people and people to get along well, and then they become lovers, so it is not destined to get married.
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It is indeed predestined, although it is not necessarily predestined by heaven, but it is also determined by oneself, and the person chosen by oneself always has his own reason.
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Fate is destined, and the one who can marry you in the end is your destined person.
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Some people say that who a person marries is "purely accidental", while others say that it is "fate".
Although we can't say for sure when and where we will meet the person we will spend our lives with, in fact, we have a certain number of people we will meet, what kind of people we will choose to be with, who we will marry in the end, and even whether we will be happy after marriage.
The so-called "fate" is actually what kind of cause you plant, what kind of fruit you will reap.
If you want to meet good people, you must first become a good self.
Marriage is one of the major events in our lives, and everyone treats it carefully and carefully. I hope to find the best person and form a happy marriage with him.
But who to marry is our own choice. But who you will meet, who you will fall in love with, and who you will marry in the end are actually predestined.
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Because everyone thinks that the people who can get married in the end are destined, as the saying goes, fate is predestined, and two people can basically walk together in the end by fate, and the final union is destined, and no one can change it.
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Because only destined people will be attracted to each other, they will have a magnet to attract the two to each other, and finally get married, so they say that.
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Who to marry is indeed fate. Even if you meet a good one before, you will have various reasons, all kinds of reasons to reject him, because you always feel that the better is behind, so pick it up like this, until the last destined person appears, and you will accept your fate.
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Because fate is a very wonderful thing, there are many things that God has arranged, and who to marry is also fate.
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It is because people feel that when they get married or fall in love, there is generally a magnetic field between two people, and they also feel that the person who can go hand in hand to the end is generally determined by fate, but this is a social superstitious idea.
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Because the person we finally married is often the most suitable, and two people will look at each other at a glance, so it is fate.
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Yes, when the fate of the last two people arrives, they will meet each other, and finally go to the palace of marriage. Generally, the appearance of the other half is fate.
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The person who finally got married in the past 10 years must be the person you are destined to be, and it must be a very good match with you, so some people say that whoever you marry in the end is destined.
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Because we have no way of knowing what will happen in the future, it is definitely fate to marry our other half, because we are very stressed in the process.
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It's because every time we meet someone else, we have a certain fate, and the person we marry is also our own destiny.
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Because marriage is not something that people can decide. So I think it's fate to get married in the end. It's not how we do what we ask for.
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Because character determines fate, and a person's personality determines what kind of partner to find, so there is this saying.
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Each person will know about 27,000 people in their lifetime, some of them have become our friends, some have become our lovers, some have become our relatives, and many more are passers-by who have passed you quietly and you can't even see his face. The cause of the past life, the fruit of this life. There is fate, even if you are thousands of miles apart, you can meet; There is no fate, even if people are opposite, they can't meet.
The writer Bai Luomei once wrote a sentence with rich meaning: "I have criticized fate, so I have the destined fruit of this life." "In fact, everyone's fate is destined, and everyone you meet is the person you are destined to meet.
Who you marry is actually predestined, so we don't have to look for it anymore, we just need to wait seriously, and one day someone will love you more than ourselves. "Love, in fact, is an extension of self-will", this sentence touched me deeply. Countless poets and writers have praised the greatness of love, but what this sentence tells us is that love is not so great, it just stems from a need of you, your need to realize your own will.
Each of us comes to this world with our own ideas and pursuits, but due to strength, vision, opportunities and other reasons, not all of us can realize our own pursuits. Then, when we choose our other half, we tend to look for someone who can help us realize our own pursuits and wills. In this way, in fact, there is a force in the dark that pushes us to find the other half that suits us.
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Who you marry, you can only say that the two of you have fate. If you believe in fate, you will say that it is predestined. In fact, fate is in your own hands, and whether you get married or not is also up to you.
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Don't ignore the harm of the family of origin to a person, and don't deny the importance of the development environment, because this is harmful to a certain extent, and even determines your vision. Fan Shengmei in the TV series "Ode to Joy" has an extremely embarrassing original family, so that when she arrives in the metropolis, she has a huge income, but her vision is still narrow. She tries to attract a man with her looks and crosses classes through him, not knowing that in each other's eyes, she is nothing more than a toy.
The other party does not easily respect her, he does not learn to respect himself.
If you think that boys really value the appearance of women, then you are naïve. Really good love or married life must be equal, you are not excellent, it is useless to know how good people are, because you have a big gap, so compared to pleasing and please, you should first improve yourself.
Some sociologists emphasize that by summing the income of the five closest friends around a person, and then averaging the number, we can know how much income the person has. That calculation method is not unfounded, and this is a warning to us about the necessity of circles. What kind of person you are, what kind of social circle you will come into contact with, and most of your good friends are people like you, which is the main reason why many people desperately want to cross the class.
However, it is really difficult, it may take two years, ten years or even decades of hard work, after all, if you go to Rome desperately, some people are born in Rome. The same is true when it comes to marriage and dating, you want to marry a rich man, but you don't even have the qualifications to get in touch with a rich man, because you don't have an entrance fee to high society, and that's where married life actually is.
If you don't have a good background, is the circle you are in fixed? Not really. Another important factor that affects your marriage and dating is your own ability and cultivation.
If you have bright spots, have the correct three views or strong ability, and become a leader in a certain industry, then rely on yourself to change the life of Zen Qingku, and naturally attract many excellent people.
When you get his attention, they will naturally look up at you and try to get closer to you. Isn't this exactly the case with Guo Jingjing, who married into a wealthy family? As the champion of the Olympic Hedong Association, no matter what kind of family background she has, she is enough to match the other party, because he is already excellent, and it is not surprising that he has married many excellent people.
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The most important thing is that your knowledge determines what kind of person you will meet, your social circle, and your character, which will also determine whether you will meet like-minded people.
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It has a lot to do with personality, temper and appearance, and these places determine what kind of person you marry.
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whether the other party is accommodating enough; whether the other party is able to respect themselves; Whether the other party dares to struggle has a certain ability.
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Many things are destined from birth, such as what kind of parents you have, what kind of family you have, what kind of kinship or how many brothers and sisters, etc., this kind of thing is something we can't choose. The reality is that if your parents are just ordinary people, they may not be able to provide you with a better material life, then your natural environment will be limited, and it will be difficult for you to reach out to the richer circles.
But those who are born to win at the starting point, their parents are likely to be very rich, and they will naturally be able to provide him with everything good, and the people he comes into contact with will naturally be of a higher level than ordinary people. This is the harm that family relationships can do to a person, and everyone does not want to recognize it, but this is the reality.
This is especially evident in the TV series "Ode to Joy". Qu Xiaoxiao, the rich second generation, returned from studying abroad, and the people he came into contact with were either classmates who studied abroad and understood, or people who expanded their business contacts at home. Most of these good friends who have a good relationship with her are also rich second generations.
And Qiu Yingying, who was born in an ordinary family, rushed to the metropolis from a small big city, has no connections, no so-called friends, and even the boyfriends who get along with her later are all fellow villagers in the same area as herself.
She has no interpersonal relationships, no family to build roads, and of course she can't get in touch with more wealthy and higher-level people, so it is impossible for her to be like Qu Xiaoxiao, who is rooted in the social circle of the rich second generation, and can find a rich man to marry at will. This is very real life, and your social circle will determine the people you come into contact with, which will naturally jeopardize your marriage.
A person's character, ability, and status are partly formed by nature, and partly innate. For example, if a person is born with a golden spoon in his mouth, the road he wants to walk has already been paved by his ancestors, so such a starting point needs to be much higher than ordinary people, and the people he contacts also need to be much stronger. However, such people are still a minority after all, and most people are just ordinary people after all.
But even if you come from a poor background, you can rely on the acquired efforts to get some test results, and at this time, you will have the bargaining chips to rewrite your fate, and you can meet stronger people and go to a higher circle. People will eventually marry the person who has similar standards to themselves, and they are not in the right household with each other, of course, there are more common topics, so if you want to marry well or marry well, you must first be good enough.
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It is up to your preferences to determine the appearance and temperament of the other half, because love is the encounter between people and self, and the person you love is exactly what you like.
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If you meet a particularly suitable person, two people are particularly compatible, the three views are not much different, and if you have a common language, you can be honest with each other, so it will be easy to get married.
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The two have similar interests. Personalities will be attracted to each other. The two families have similar door styles. These are all important.
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