Who will relieve my heart for me, please help me to relieve my heart, thank you!

Time heals all wounds.

Feelings are very mysterious 000

I don't care about how long it lasts, I only care about what I once had. Oh, I broke up, I can only say that fate has not arrived, and thinking too much is just adding to my troubles. . . The past is gone.

Let it go, I know that you are also in a relationship, but this hurts yourself too much, does she know? She really knows why she doesn't care about you letting go. I've been through it and we all have something in common. Put.

Forget it, it's already in the past.

You are really very good to them, heart for heart, and I think in their hearts, they will also be very grateful to you, that's for sure, there is no doubt about it.

But from another point of view, everyone has their own life plan, which is also human nature. Your wishes do not necessarily coincide with their plans for life. Hehe. Respect their ideas as well.

You want them to stay in the company and do their best for the company, but this wish, only when it is consistent with their own life pursuit and direction, can the two sides win each other and cooperate happily. On the contrary, if the company's development direction is not consistent with their own development direction, then they cannot cooperate to the end.

In other words, while the company develops itself, it must also provide opportunities for the development of employees themselves, so that employees can consistently do their best for the company.

It's not just for you, it's for all companies. That is: how to give full play to the motivation of employees and how to retain excellent employees.

Take 10,000 steps back, maybe he doesn't understand your psychology, and he doesn't know what you think, hehe.

In fact, at that time, you could talk to him or your classmates about this matter straight to the point, you can say that the company needs a talent like him, and you need him to stay very much. You can also ask them, what do you think, how do you plan? The two sides talked about it, there was no misunderstanding, and even if they left, you would still be friends with each other, wouldn't you?

Don't be too depressed, if you have something to say in the right place, you don't need to be angry.

I wish you a good mood!!

If that's the case, there may be another reason. One possibility is that he wants to change careers and give full play to his strengths. My sister is like this, she did a good job, but she wants to resign, and the reason is:

I can't learn much from my current job, and I want to develop in another field.

Another reason may be that he is not too happy in the company, or maybe he is unhappy with other people.

Either way, I think so, speak out openly, clarify misunderstandings if there are misunderstandings, and it's better if there are no misunderstandings. If you talk about it, you won't be angry. Like you said, if you want to go, you have to be happy. However, when talking about this, you need to pay attention to the technique.

Best wishes!!!

Hehe, sister, there are many people in this society, especially if you help him, he doesn't say hello, forget it, but thinks that your help is your obligation, it's normal, this society, everyone is wearing a shell in life, you think about it, you can't say that you stand in front of others like a bowl of water, you see it low at a glance, wear it for a long time, the human touch will fade It's normal, don't think about it too much, maybe this is a small lesson, but you don't want to learn too much I still think that this world still has a lot of affection Remember Anger is to punish yourself for the mistakes of others, just pay attention next time.

Sister, don't feel bad......You have to think like this, you have done so many things and you have done nothing wrong, why should you be angry with them when you have done nothing wrong??? As the saying goes, don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes, just treat it as if God made you lose two bad friends ......When you think about it, it seems like a good thing.

The main thing is that you are too good, you will pay everyone, and you are sad for that person, and it is not worth it.

Maybe that girl has started to fall in love, and in real life she already has a boy she likes.

At this time, the other boys were insignificant to her.

Generally, girls are full of love and only that one person.

So, it probably wasn't your problem.

Network things, believe it or not, or don't invest too much.

Otherwise, it will hurt very much.

1. I haven't been in touch for a long time, and you haven't seen each other in your life, and your relationship has faded.

2. Sometimes someone looks for someone who doesn't want to pay attention to each other, probably because they were in a bad mood at the time. That's how I am.

3. She felt that the online was unreal and didn't want to continue.

Hehe. Go discover new girls you like.

The web is inherently illusory.

Besides, I deleted you, why did I explain to you, what are you from?

Do you think everyone should do the same?

Don't get cranky and embrace your new life.

Some things, sooner or later, will be diluted by time.

There's nothing we can do about it.

Some people have to fade out of their lives, even the parts of their memories that are not needed.

To send you a lyric, when you can't have it, the only thing you can do is not to forget.

The lyrics are to the effect that there should not be much difference.

The Internet is mostly like this, depending on the mood, it may have been too long to contact, maybe she has lost the feeling she once had, and it has become faint. It doesn't matter anymore.

Hey buddy. Don't care so much, it's normal, the Internet is like this, it's fresh, you are holding out your heart and others may not. You said no, brother.

Because you're just an Oba (brother) on the Internet, maybe you haven't talked for a long time and forget about it, so come to a QQ friend to clean up, and people who don't often talk are all deleted.

The current network is like this, it has been so long, I believe you don't have any ideas anymore, but now it's comfortable to say it, hehe.

Either just find out what she thinks, or just vent, find another one, and forget about her. Brother, people have to look forward, and they are entangled in this short life?

When you don't have that reliance in your heart, trouble is inevitable, everything is impermanent, and you can realize it slowly.

Maybe it's because of love.

I found that the post-90s sexual psychology matures early, and the emotional intelligence psychology is mentally retarded!

Are you serious friends on the Internet??? Very silly and naïve.

You know that people are here to get married, and if you don't like people, you should have said it earlier.

Since you don't want to marry someone, it's best to make it clear as soon as possible, otherwise it's a waste of time for both parties.

Depending on your age, the main thing is that you are not ready to get married, so don't worry, otherwise you will have a phobia of marriage, and you can't handle a lot of things.

If you feel that you are only with her to get married, and there is pressure to be with her, then make it clear to her. Otherwise, it's divided!

Tell them directly that you're not ready to be in charge.

Everyone should disperse, and it should continue to consume.

It's up to you, do you want to marry her, or do you want this idea, if not, flash quickly.

There are too many interests involved between you, and there may be some sophistication in it, so the love between the two of you is not maintained by feelings, but objective conditions. If you can, I suggest you end the relationship.

Hehe. If you think it's a burden, forget it......Really....Don't push yourself....If you think it's okay, marry her...Give her happiness....Security!

As long as someone accompanies her, she won't be sad! If that girl knew that someone was so kind to her, she would be very touched, how could she be sad? It's over, it's over, it's not a big deal, there's no weeds at the end of the world!

Time is the best medicine, it will soothe your wounded heart.

..It can't be helped, it's all something that you have to go through in life, and you have to unravel it yourself.

But it's usually fine, and it's fine after a while.

A girl proposes to break up, and it will be sad to see a guy with a new girlfriend?

I believe that this girl still likes this boy, so why did she propose to break up in the first place? If you can't forget, you can only rely on time to heal the wound. There is also the support and encouragement of friends.

In fact, when a girl proposed to break up, she should have thought that the boy would find another one, which is freedom.

In fact, girls can also find another one.

Obviously, she doesn't reject you, but she doesn't necessarily like you, if you like her like this, it's better not to confess, and when the heat reaches a certain level, no one needs to say, just a gentle hug or kiss, if you don't like her very much, then be friends, it's good.

If you confess, it may be difficult for your friends to do it.

It's better to go with the flow.

You already have a high status in his mind, just pick it out, be bold.

Hehe. Isn't that a good sign? Keep following up! As long as you take the initiative! Let's test it!

I can't say anything about you, I can only say that what you do is really not enough, love does need to be experienced with heart, however, there is no man who does not give gifts to his beloved woman, the world of the two needs to be embellished, don't say anything else, you can see your "despair" and "sadness" from your post, but, whether he marries the man or marries you, you don't have a career as a premise, you just can't! This kind of thing, since it has become this kind of ending, you should turn your grief into strength! Be a man, your road is ahead, and when you learn to choose, you will also learn to give up ......!

Don't talk about it, you have to think about it yourself, and time will erase the past.

I'm sorry, I can't help you, it's okay if you think about it yourself.

Some things have to be said and expressed.

Why don't you think about it in a good way, for example, that guy really loves your former girlfriend. And he can give her happiness that you can't give. So, bless them.

It's about the same as my boyfriend, and I've been with him for nearly 4 years, and I never feel his dedication, and he won't give in first every time I quarrel, and the despair is accumulated countless times of sadness, she must have given you a chance, but you didn't notice ......

She must have been very aggrieved when she watched other girls being cared for by her boyfriend, she didn't know how many tears she secretly shed in exchange for the determination to break up, if she didn't really love you, she wouldn't have those 4 years, I don't understand why people are like this, and they don't cherish it when they have it.

A word of advice to you, if you really want to redeem it, you have to show sincerity, can you hit a few **? Go to her, and then try to fight for it, and compensate for the 4 years owed to her, there is still a chance.

It's better not to believe in fortune telling, horoscopes and the like, which are just a comfort to your heart. Life is a lot of stumbles, pluck up the courage to look forward, it's no big deal, everything goes back to the past, I wish you happiness!

Hehe, haven't you already relaxed?

You yourself say that there is nothing to think about it now, and you think she is not wrong, which shows that you are relaxed now and don't care about this matter at all. It shows that you are still very open-minded.

In fact, this is the way things are, when you analyze things clearly, when you understand other people's thoughts, the mind will sort out by itself.

When you encounter a similar situation again, give yourself time to sort out your emotions, try to see the problem from the other party's point of view first, you will be able to understand the other party's actions, and you will not be angry again, or you will not bother to worry about her.

It's the New Year, and I wish you a good mood! When you get angry, drink plenty of water, and repay those who help us with a smile, and at the same time, a smile will make your opponent feel ashamed!

In my personality, if she said that at the time, I would say the same thing about her. It's a big deal, it's a serious mess.

Calm down, you have to think like this, there is no need to waste your tongue with someone you hate, the more arrogant he is, the more you ignore her, just say to him "you don't deserve to make me angry" and laugh, on the contrary, you should be his turn to get angry!!

Relaxed, unconcerned – easier said than done.

The sea is tolerant of all rivers, and tolerance is great", if you can't cultivate, you can't be wide if you want to; When cultivation arrives, the heart is naturally widened.

First, we must strengthen our study and read to understand reason;

Second, we must have more experience, and only after more can we see widely;

Third, we must always "introspect", as Confucius said, I should reflect on myself every day, and often reflect on myself.

The landlord posted this post, just realizing that he was inappropriate, and he was reflecting on it, which was very good.

She is a mad dog and doesn't need to take care of her, in fact, being slow to reflect can also be regarded as a kind of forgiveness.

In short, don't deliberately care about other people's opinions, words and deeds. It's a blessing to be a little confused, to be confused!