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Treat your daughter-in-law as if she were your own family. Anything is easy to solve. If the two people get along well, it depends on the fate of the two people, if the two parties have no fate, then it is difficult for the two to get along.
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Compare your heart to your heart, as a daughter-in-law, one day you will also become a mother-in-law; And the mother-in-law must have been a daughter-in-law, so, in the final analysis, why should a daughter-in-law be a daughter-in-law. Be optimistic and positive, look at these problems, and you can be better.
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Remember one sentence, mother-in-law is mother-in-law, she will never be your mother, don't expect her to treat you as a daughter, although this is impossible!
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..It's a culture ... To tell the truth, mother-in-law rarely faces her daughter-in-law, as long as she can get by on her face, if she lives together, she will be diligent and dessert, and the old man likes this set, in fact, it is still the essence of people.
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Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are two generations, and it is inevitable that there are differences in concepts and understandings. In general, there is a generation gap. As an elder, the mother-in-law should be respected, and although the daughter-in-law is a foreigner at home, she has married into the family and should be treated as a child.
As a daughter-in-law, you should understand the concept of your mother-in-law in their growth environment, and understand each other and be humble in getting along. For the mother-in-law's incorrect concept, there is no need to confront her head-on, treat her coldly or adopt roundabout tactics. Addressing is also very important in getting along, and you should call her affectionately like your own mother.
And it's basically from the heart every time.、Happy to call her.。
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Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will inevitably have friction due to their different living conditions. I suggest that I live separately from my mother-in-law after I get married, and occasionally go back to my mother-in-law's house. When the mother-in-law is old and in poor health, she will live together again.
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Let's get along well, anyway, there are few mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law who can really get along well.
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Do your duty, love the house and the black
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1.The good people's daughters-in-law do it, and the bad people do it themselves.
There are few women who are not greedy for cheapness, and mother-in-law is no exception, when you want to buy something to be filial to your mother or make your mother happy, you might as well let your wife come forward to your mother-in-law to reduce your mother-in-law's hostility to your daughter-in-law. When there is friction between the mother and the wife, it is necessary to look at the problem from a neutral perspective, and kindly remind the suspect of the mistake of the other party and appease the emotions of the other party.
2.Learn to hide from both ends, don't pass on both ends.
As a man who can't speak, don't speak, especially on the occasion of family gatherings, don't be open-mouthed, the wife says that the mother-in-law is not good, the mother complains that the daughter-in-law is not filial, it is just from the nature of the woman to complain, listen to it and it will pass, if you take it seriously, if you pass it on both ends, or just say that you leak your mouth, it is purely to blame, and there is nothing to do.
3.Say more about the daughter-in-law's good or bad, and don't say bad things about the daughter-in-law.
When the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, do not follow the mother-in-law when she counts the daughter-in-law, it seems that the parents will be angry and happy, but in fact they will think that the son is also dissatisfied with the daughter-in-law, and over time it will spread to the daughter-in-law's ears. If you really want to straighten out the relationship between your mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you should say more good things about your daughter-in-law in front of your mother, and properly express your love for your daughter-in-law, so that your parents can understand that you are very happy after marriage and will not wantonly destroy the relationship between the two of you.
4.Learn to "disobey the yang and the yin".
When the wife and the mother have a difference of opinion, of course, persuade the good or not the bad, first of all, you have to have your own view of right and wrong and assertiveness, quickly judge the correct approach, and then the two adults should admit the source of the bird, coax, and the two adults will do what you think is right behind the back.
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The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be very good, but only if there is mutual respect between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
For most people, many people will be particularly entangled in the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because everyone generally feels that it is difficult for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along with each other, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will also be jealous because of their husband's problems. At the same time, for those who are relatively independent, they are often able to properly handle the relationship between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and at the same time, they can also put themselves in the right position, and they know how to respect each other in the process of getting along. In my personal opinion, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not difficult, the key is how we treat the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
1. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is generally not easy for most people.
First of all, I need to emphasize that there is no right or wrong relationship. In daily life, you may see various conflicts between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law. But if we really start with the contradictions themselves, we find that these contradictions are actually difficult to deal with, and it is difficult for you to distinguish between right and wrong in emotional matters.
In a sense, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law requires men to have a certain right to speak, and at the same time, it also requires mutual respect between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Second, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be very good.
If two people know how to respect each other, I believe that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will know their own position, and at the same time, they will look at the relationship between the two people with a more objective attitude. In most cases, the reason why many people have discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is simply because both people care too much about their own interests and do not consider each other's situation.
3. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not need to worry about it.
In real life, a mother-in-law may feel that her son listens to herself, why shouldn't her daughter-in-law listen to herself. And for the daughter-in-law, she will not feel that she is spoiled by her husband, why should she whisper in front of the national style? If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along in this way, the relationship between the two people will definitely not be harmonious.
On the contrary, if the two people don't care too much, there is actually no difficulty between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
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Try not to mix together, don't interfere in other people's lives, and live your own life.
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The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be said to be a very important topic in traditional culture. Because the family is an important cornerstone of the entire social structure, the handling of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is related to the stability of the family and the happiness of family members. Moreover, with the development of society, especially the improvement of women's awareness, the issue of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has also become a hot topic and has received more and more widespread attention.
Generally speaking, a mother-in-law relationship refers to the relationship between a wife and a mother-in-law. This issue is very sensitive in traditional culture, because in traditional culture, the mother-in-law is the master of the family, and all actions in the family are controlled by the mother-in-law. This leads to the fact that the mother-in-law relationship is a social relationship rather than a purely personal one.
The relationship between the wife and the mother-in-law has an impact on the whole family and determines the atmosphere and atmosphere of the family. Therefore, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has an important impact on the direction of the couple's marriage.
The importance of the mother-in-law relationship can be illustrated by many facts. For example, in life, many couples have conflicts because of the intervention of their mother-in-law. Sometimes, the mother-in-law's requests and suggestions do not coincide with the couple's own ideas, leading to disagreements between the parties.
Therefore, if there is no disturbance, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is properly handled, and the relationship between husband and wife can easily become tense and disharmonious. These problems can even lead to divorce or separation. It can be seen that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has an important impact on the marriage of husband and wife.
So, how can we handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? This is a very tricky question. Most of the time, couples need to make some effort to resolve the issue.
First of all, couples should try to avoid letting their mother-in-law play too important a role in the family. They should take care of the family's affairs and not let the mother-in-law intervene easily. Secondly, couples should be as considerate of the mother-in-law's feelings as possible and respect the mother-in-law's opinions and ideas.
At the same time, couples also need to understand and support each other, so as to alleviate family conflicts and pressure.
Of course, in addition to the efforts between husband and wife, the society should also introduce some specific policy measures to help alleviate the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Especially for older people, more social security and benefits should be provided to help them better integrate into society. In addition, family education needs to be strengthened, with particular emphasis on the popularization and improvement of women's education.
Only when the status of women is fully protected and respected can the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be truly eased and improved.
To sum up, the issue of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a very complex social issue. This problem not only affects the harmony and stability of society, but also has a huge impact on individual happiness. The maintenance between husband and wife and mother-in-law requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife, and needs the support of the society and society.
Only by comprehensively promoting the resolution of the problem of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can we continuously enhance the happiness of the family and the stability of society.
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Once your mother-in-law treats you as a daughter, and you treat your mother-in-law as a mother, it's broken, why? You take your mother-in-law as your mother, how do you deal with your mother? Casually, the two of them just scolded and broke the bones and tendons, but you say a heavy word to your mother-in-law, or she says a heavy word to you, can you stand it, you must remember it for a lifetime, so she is not a real mother and daughter, don't treat your mother-in-law as a mother.
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Because everyone's personality and growth environment affect his behavior, the most difficult thing to do is the male host in the family outfit, he is like a sandwich cookie sandwiched between two people.
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A good husband is the lubricant that regulates the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
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It's not very common, but it's very fragrant.
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The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is like this, and I am not angry!
After all, the daughter-in-law, as a junior, is wrong to beat her mother-in-law first. Pepsi filial piety comes first, although the mother-in-law scolds it very badly, but she can't do it. As Sun Beixian, try to persuade her daughter-in-law as much as possible, and endure it if she can, after all, her mother-in-law is an elder, but her mother-in-law can't keep scolding like this. >>>More
If, according to what you said, if the mother-in-law dislikes the daughter-in-law, then the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had better live separately, live separately, and go to see the mother-in-law during the New Year's holiday.
The problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is partly the generation gap between two generations, and the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are people who live in different generations, and they will have different views on how to deal with problems and look at things, and this is an insurmountable gap between the two generations, that is, the "generation gap." In fact, it is love, and the mother-in-law loves her son too much, and the daughter-in-law loves her husband too much, so no matter if the man in the middle is good to that woman, the other one will be very angry Mothers often find fault with their daughters-in-law because their sons are too affectionate to their daughters-in-law, so the causes of problems between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are good, and they all come from love, because they fall in love with a man at the same time, so as long as we handle this love properly, it will reduce a lot of unnecessary contradictions, and secondly, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good, not that the mother-in-law is wrong, that is, that the daughter-in-law is not good, in my opinion, whether the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is tense or not depends entirely on the man who is caught in the middle - the son of the mother-in-law and the husband of the daughter-in-law If this man has played a good role in the middle, then I believe that the mother-in-law problem will no longer be a problem. >>>More
After all, my mother-in-law is an elder, ......Patience is over, and a good ...... is humbleI won't let my husband be caught in the middle, will I be a difficult person, right?
Friend: There is a natural lack of innate closeness between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, so mother-in-law and daughter-in-law still need to be a little polite. To maintain a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is necessary to be both like mother and daughter, and the daughter-in-law should treat her mother-in-law as well as a filial mother, but she should not be as open-mouthed to her mother-in-law as she is to her mother; The mother-in-law should feel as sorry for her daughter-in-law as she does for her daughter, and she cannot be as careless and reprimanded as she is for her daughter. >>>More