What are some of the moments when you feel that this life is only suitable for one person?

In the relationship, I have a strong sense of dependence on my other half, and I am possessive, and I want him to report anything to me.

But sometimes the tighter I grasp in the relationship, the easier it is to lose, and because I grasp it too tightly, he feels that I am interfering in his life.

We often quarreled, and in each of these we felt like I was only fit to live alone.

When I'm on my own, I'm always able to handle a lot of things calmly, and even if I can't, I try my best to try first. <>

But after experiencing the last relationship, I found that in the world of two people, I always relied too much on each other, and even felt that I was making trouble unreasonably. In the final analysis, it was too possessive, which made him too stressed, and he had to break up.

After that time, I didn't have confidence in myself, and I guess I was the best version of myself if I was alone! It is not necessary for a person to live this life ......

Probably when I broke up with my boyfriend of five years, he said to me: I was able to bear you at the beginning, but then I couldn't stand your temper, I don't know who can stand you, let's get together and disperse. When he said that to me, I was very sad, and at that time I even felt that this life was only suitable for one person, after all, he had been with me for 5 years, but he still spoke of me like this.

I met my girlfriend while I was in college. At this glance, I decided that she was the person I was looking for, and that I was going to spend the rest of my life with her, so I began to pursue her frantically, and finally chased after her. But in the end, we couldn't withstand the pressure of life, which led to our breakup.

At that time, I felt that it was the best state to live alone.

There was a time when I was very afraid of falling in love, and I always felt that it was a trouble. But at that time, I met a girl I liked very much, and I thought about her all the time. In this way, I fell into a state of contradiction, that is, I did not want to get it, and I was afraid of losing it.

Later, I plucked up the courage and decided to confess, but found out that she had a boyfriend. At this time, I am very disappointed, do you feel that it is not good to live alone?

It is when you find that you like a person more and more, that is, you feel that you are good alone, and there is no need to please or run in with others.

And it's super cool to find yourself alone, you can find what you like by yourself, and then you can work hard for what you want, and then you can buy what you want, and when you go home at night, you can cook the meal you want to eat, and then you can deal with all the problems in life, and you become stronger and stronger, I think at this time you will find that you are only suitable for one person.

When I quarrel, especially when I quarrel over some small issues, I feel that it is not suitable for two people to be together, after all, they can quarrel for some small problems, and they don't solve each other's problems, and they feel difficult to communicate, and then I want to separate the two people.

When I see couples or couples fighting over money or children, I feel like I'm fine with my life alone. Because I don't know the troubles after marriage because I am not married, I have to be responsible for each other and my family after marriage, and my life is very stressful. So I think it's better for me to live alone when I don't have the financial means.

Because I can't be responsible for the other party.

Everyone is willing to grow old by themselves, and they don't want to have more feelings for themselves. I can accept that I can live alone for a lifetime, a simple life, no annoying emotional problems, no troubles of firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage, and no children's education problems, as long as there is enough psychological construction and sufficient money, a person can live a wonderful life for a lifetime.

1. Sufficient psychological preparation. Loneliness and loneliness must be relieved. In a person's life, countless long nights, loneliness and loneliness hit like a tide, perhaps not only drowning the quiet heart, but also diffusing those who were once strong, firm and confident, making themselves feel hopeless and helpless, blind and even crying.

Have a strong will. In the future life without parents, I will face a lot of difficulties, difficulties and diseases, at this time only I have to face it, and there is no one around to help, so I want to be my own "big tree", give yourself shade, and let yourself bravely face the wind and rain of the four seasons. Have enough money.

It is a certain amount of financial support. It's not enough to have courage in life, to live well, it's not just a person's chic, but what you use to support this "chic". Let yourself be more and more mature.

Walking alone all your life, have you really thought about it? If with the passage of time, your mind is mature enough, if you still feel that you are good alone, and you have sufficient mental preparation and coping measures to face the unknown days in the future, it is also a good choice.

2. Sufficient living ability. When living alone, you should also be kind to yourself, and you can't always eat convenience food, which is very bad for your health. Therefore, to "manage" a person's life well, you can't make do.

Can cook. Three meals a day should be eaten on time, nutritious, and particular, if possible, there will be a little "little mood", so that life feels delicious under your deployment. Women who can cook are the most beautiful, and men who can cook are the most handsome.

Will tidy up the house. Tidying up is to some extent tidying up your mood. In a clean and tidy place, the heart will be quiet, the heart will be comfortable, and the soul will be at rest.

Clean and tidy is the "hygiene" of indoor and outdoor environmental hygiene, food hygiene, clothing and personal hygiene, and mood. The "hygiene" of the mood is very important.

Choose not to get married and live alone for the rest of your life. That's totally okay. There are many examples of this in real life.

Live a lifetime alone. It felt very sober at first. Nothing was disturbed.

A carefree life on your own. There are also no small children to take care of. It was really pleasant.

So there is no problem with living a life alone. But often with age. After entering old age.

You will feel lonely. Because there is no one else around you to take care of you. Or need your care.

It's all lonely. Tie the knot. Live a lifetime with your lover.

That means two people can care about each other. Take care of each other. If there is anything you can do with each other, you can discuss it.

And after marriage, the family often has one child. This child. It also needs your care.

You've been thinking about him since you were a child. Your life has a head. Life has momentum.

Then you'll have more and more fun. And you also feel busy. Especially in old age.

If there is a little grandchild. Or a grandson. You'll be able to enjoy your family.

The joy that children bring you is really unimaginable. That fun. Makes you happy.

Help them without complaint. That's when you feel it. You truly have a happy life.

Of course, choosing to live alone for a lifetime is nothing. Just wait until you're old. It will feel lonely.

It is also true that there are nursing homes now, and you can go to nursing homes when you are old. But you have nothing to worry about in this life. I always feel a little regretful.

There's a child that worries you. There's a lover that keeps you on your toes. If there is another grandchild that worries you.

I feel like you're going to live. Happier and more contented.

In this era of opportunity and freedom, many people still face the question: can they accept that they will live alone for the rest of their lives? Here are a few of my breakouts.

1. Self-exploration and commitment.

Before we can accept that a person can live for a lifetime, we need to explore and commit to ourselves. This means that we need to understand our own values, strengths and weaknesses, and our expectations and commitments to marriage and family. Through self-exploration and commitment, we can better understand whether we are ready to spend a lifetime with someone.

2. Build deep relationships with others.

For people of our time, breaking loneliness and building valuable relationships is essential. By building deep relationships, we can better understand ourselves and others, and better respond to challenges and difficulties. When we have a deep relationship, we may be more receptive to living alone for a lifetime.

3. Overcome monotony and marital fatigue.

For many people, marriage can become monotonous and tiring. This can lead to a "strawberry complex", i.e., a desire to try new relationships and experiences. Therefore, we need to learn to overcome monotony and fatigue and provide our partner with new and interesting experiences.

This can better help us accept that a person lives for a lifetime.

4. Find support.

Finally, accepting that a person will live for a lifetime may require us to seek support. This may include family, friends, or professional counselors. They can provide support and advice to help us overcome challenges and maintain healthy relationships.

In order to do this, we need to learn to seek their support, especially in the face of difficulties and challenges.

Overall, whether or not to accept a person's life is a complex issue that requires self-exploration and commitment, deep relationships, overcoming monotony and marital fatigue, and finding support. Through these measures, we can better understand and accept one's life.

We know that if we want to live well alone, we must have a good mentality, and we must ask ourselves if we have it.

With a good attitude, you have to have a good condition in the future, that is, the condition to be able to support yourself.

The other thing is that when you need help, someone will come to help you, whether it's your relatives or friends.

Because if you get married, you may have the company and care of your wife, and you must be mentally prepared to have no one to accompany you.

Some people like to live alone, and two people are a burden, so he is also suitable for a single life.

Or if you feel too lonely and lonely at the time, we can also go back to find it at the end, these are not hindering your personal emotional development.

Not afraid of loneliness, rich in heart, such a person can live his own life, plus rich, friends, and have seen the world, such a person has a choice even if he or a family, and ordinary people are not suitable, because there is no money and no sense of security, there is nothing in the head, and the heart is not rich. Can a person live a lifetime on his own?

First, you ask yourself what is the reason for needing your significant other. Will it give you financial help or spiritual comfort? This society is very realistic, what you want to get will inevitably lose other things, there is no free lunch in the world, and the mutually beneficial relationship between people can last for a long time.

As for the spiritual resonance, everyone may have talked about it at first, but with their respective career development and experience, the two people may not have something in common, and the topic is gradually drifting apart. Then in order to accommodate the other party, he tried to synchronize with the other party, but the other party wanted to escape.

You may become more and more unsure whether the other person thinks the same way as you, and you will keep guessing, suffering from gains and losses, because if you care, you are more likely to get hurt.

With the development of society, people are becoming more and more independent, more individual, and will not compromise easily. And people's pressure also leads to the fact that they no longer have too much patience to maintain a relationship, and they are always easy to give up. In the end, I went around and around, and I was left alone, still physically and mentally exhausted.

Therefore, there is no standard answer to the question of "can you live a good life by yourself", because everyone and the people they meet are different.

But what is certain is that it is good to be alone when you are young, and what to do when you are old? Let's talk about it when we're old.