He said that I lost face to him, do you still have to insist on such feelings?

Updated on society 2024-06-20
38 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Don't want such a man

    If you like someone, you won't care so much

    Not to mention the accounting is too much

    Unless you're going too far

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you really lose it, you should reflect on it. If not, smoke him to death.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's too much, let him find someone who smells like him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This man's temper is too bad, isn't it,。。 What an attitude!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Tell him, is it worth ruining a relationship for this little thing?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since you all have the idea of breaking up and are tired of it, let's break up early. It's not interesting to persist in such a relationship, neither of you will feel good, it will only delay each other. Not all relationships are suitable for marriage, personality compatibility is the key, through your description, I believe you also know very well that you do not have a final future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's useless for others to say anything, after all, it's still the two of you who have to live for a lifetime, even if you can't live a lifetime, that's what you say, and besides, you're not together for a day or two, and it's not that you don't know what personality you have.

    If she is the kind of person who listens to her parents for everything, even if you get married in the future, you will not be happy, you don't think about the same thing, she only thinks about her own interests, and you are not love.

    Besides, you are happier when you don't have her around. Let's go apart!

    Your personalities are not compatible at all, I have seen a lot of examples like yours getting married in reality, and my brother and sister-in-law are almost !. you

    Being apart is liberation, being together is torture! If you really get married, I don't think you even dare to have children, think more about your future happiness and the happiness of the next generation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A lot of people are ......It's all good, does she really love you? If it's true, it's not easy for the two to be happy, but you're in a lot of pain, just talk to her (the advice for writing a letter on the floor is very good), if she can't understand you, then break up, and there's nothing to be sorry for her while you haven't had sex yet.

    Whatever the outcome, you have to believe that everything will be fine!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's been so long, it's been too much....

    Wait for the two of them to talk to her when they are quiet, don't quarrel and quarrel will not solve the problem.

    Ask her what specific requirements she has for her boyfriend or the man she wants to spend her life with? Ask her if she wants to find a man like her dad to live the rest of her life? Then tell her what you really think, her high demands make you feel tired!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I don't think it's like you're completely incapable of continuing with each other, it's just that there's a lack of effective communication. She may not know what is really going on in your heart! And you can't understand some of her actions.

    The reason why it is easier to have conflicts and quarrels when living together is because everyone gets along closely together and comes into contact with more trivial life. And you're all facing it for the first time! So ......My boyfriend and I also lived together first, and living together allows us to get to know each other very deeply.

    So after understanding the other party's personality, shortcomings, etc., I felt that I had found the wrong person. We often quarrel, many places disagree, different ideas, I mention breaking up, he doesn't follow! But they were divided, because I decided that we had no future!

    In your situation, you can communicate with her first, say what is in your heart, and avoid uselessness. The two of them talk calmly together, and it is really impossible to divide again, so that there will be no regrets in their hearts! Remember, there is no other half in 100, only two in 50!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is said that love has a 7-year itch, and it can only last if you survive it. You're bringing this relationship situation forward. If you feel tired and uncomfortable, there is no possibility for the two of you to continue, so choose to break up with her peacefully.

    Tell her the real reason for the breakup, don't be perfunctory. I also want to encourage her to find the right partner. If, you feel that you still have feelings, both parties can take a step back and start over.

    Why don't you be apart for a while and see the answer in your heart? In fact, if you don't plan to be together after graduation, it's okay to end it now. Think about it.

    Love is not reluctant, listen to the new voice in your heart.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Let's break up, I'm also thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend, and once this concept is born, it will continue forever. Better a finger off than always aching.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    A situation like yours belongs to sister and brother love, but it is very special, generally sister and brother love couples, the man is the object of care, but your situation is the opposite, and you lack maturity, lack of understanding of your girlfriend's psychology, love like this is indeed not true love! Listen to your situation, your girlfriend likes to be taken care of, and you are young and eager to find a woman who will take care of yourself, in such a psychological state, all kinds of contradictions arise, true love couples should understand each other! Take care of each other!

    Trust each other! Support each other! Indispensable to all of them, you should open your heart and sit down with her to communicate, tell her what you really think, if she still doesn't understand, there is only one way to break up!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you still love her and want to be with her, don't tolerate her, talk to her and say what you think, love is a matter of two people after all.

    If you don't love it anymore, or if you're tired of it, divide it early and don't let yourself suffer.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This friend: You're tired, aren't you? If you are tired, you will directly tell her these words in your heart, two people who love each other is not to blindly pay and accommodate the man, since two people love each other should be considerate of each other, your girlfriend may have been spoiled at home before, if she thinks you should be like this, then she will be a little bit inconsiderate of others, if you really can't stand it, then you can consider it, the above is purely personal opinion I hope it can help you...

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The correct solution on the first floor agrees to live with you, there is nothing to do, the problem is you.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    People are not immortals. They all have this or that problem, or they can't be called people.

    No matter how good a person is, he or she cannot be perfect everywhere.

    Therefore, you must also learn to tolerate each other's shortcomings, and marriage is to learn to tolerate in order to last.

    When there is a conflict, learn to empathize, and when you think about it, you also think about yourself from the other person's point of view.

    It's not easy to meet someone who truly loves you. You have to cherish him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Parents are also at fault in this regard, if a man is rhetorical then will say, do you feel reliable? A man is naturally uncomfortable when he is denied.

    To say a very realistic thing here, your family is not very good, what qualifications do your parents have to find fault with others (I'm sorry) so that he must be unbalanced and feel wronged

    He loves you for sure. But if he can really break up with you, it means that he loves you to the end, men are different from women, men are less and less in love, and women can only be more and more unable to let go.

    Try to see if you give in first, and after a long time, he will naturally know, if he is still like that, even if he really loves you, he will love your parents, persuade your parents, let them think about your happiness, and put aside some worldly things

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Oh oh oh, yes, everybody's got it.

    Anyone can think about the problem.

    But the angle of consideration is different.

    In fact, even the biggest things have solutions.

    As long as you don't grasp that point, maybe the other party will be difficult to talk about.

    Since your boyfriend loves you so much, should you also "reciprocate" him?

    He said that "a man should raise a family at Hukou".

    What should you say?

    How? Women should do a good job of housework so that men have no worries.

    As for your parents, it depends on your immaturity Afraid that you won't be able to live a good life in the future, his parents may not understand you and have not met the goals they require, and the average man will let the old man hope that the daughter-in-law will do housework and run the house, which is enough for the old woman What I generally care about is the son-in-law's character, career, and status in the daughter's heart, you can ask your boyfriend to live in your house for two days, if your parents are unhappy, you will simply break up with your boyfriend fakely, and then you will have to die to see if your parents are distressed or not, and then the vice is together I don't think I need to say more about what they're going to do with you after that.

    Finally, I wish every couple to grow old and of course love each other sincerely.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Well, it's really not easy, the personality incompatibility is really a big problem, and the reality is the same. If you really can't hold on, let it go, long pain is better than short pain.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think it's better to break up, because such a stressful relationship will make people very tired, and there will be problems in the future.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you love him, you will encompass him, and if you don't have love, you have to let go in a chic way. The more melancholy this kind of thing, the worse it gets.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You can communicate with him well if he has had an unforgettable girlfriend before, and if so, as long as he is willing to accept your kindness to him, you can slowly make him fall in love with you and forget some things in the past. Now it can only be said whether you love him or not, and if there is still love, then you continue, if not, then you let go.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Feelings can't be forced, even if you win his affection, then it will be difficult for your feelings to withstand the hardships in the future. If he can confess to you, then you can still be good friends.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Right.. The first floor is right. You can be cold and test his feelings for you. If he ignores you. Divide it. Find someone who loves you!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Let him go, the emotionless love will be divided in the future, don't do it, don't love so deeply, it's yourself who hurts in the end.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    At some point, a lot of people are very face-consciousThey feel that it is a very important thing to have face outside, and if they don't do well in the interview, they may be looked down upon by their friends, and if their boyfriend values face more than me, should they continue to insist on it?

    First of all, I think that if he will pay more attention to face in front of his friends, I think he should really think about itIn fact, I think if he really likes you, maybe you will be above all else, and he won't say that he will let you suffer some grievances because of face. Of course, it depends on whether you have gone too far, if you have not done something to embarrass him, but he has taken care of his face and wronged you, then I don't think you should continue to insist.

    I think it's probably a normal thing for boys to have a good faceBecause they definitely don't like to let their friends feel that they are very afraid of their wives or something, it will make them feel very shameless, so I think they should probably kill monsters. Think more about things like this, and then you should also give him more face-saving support outside. But if he asks too much, I think it must be unacceptable, because if he really likes you, he won't let you be wronged because of his so-called face.

    Finally, I think I need to reconsiderLooking at your feelings does not make a direct judgment because of this one thing. Because I think whether two people want to be together or not still has to be considered comprehensively, so I think you should consider some things between you comprehensively to see if you can accept it, and whether she still wants to be with him. This will be able to determine whether the two of you need to continue to persevere.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    First of all, such a man doesn't care much about you, and there is machismo, and if it is such a man, it will not continue with him.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your boyfriend loves face, this is normal, people will love face, but excessive love of face is a lack of self-confidence and worry about other people's opinions. This kind of boyfriend, if you can't bear it, it's better to separate!

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's better not to continue to hold on, and you can choose to break up, because this kind of man has nothing to offer.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Don't insist anymore, such people only focus on face and don't think about other people's feelings at all.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    There's no need to keep insisting, a man like this can't give you the happiness you want.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If the boyfriend only has his face in his heart, it will be divided. This shows that the other party is extremely selfish and will not be good to you in the future.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Give up decisively, it's just a boyfriend, and it will be even more serious if you get married in the future.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    I don't think it's better to do it, because in the future, the two of you will definitely fight because of the problem of face.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    In this case, it is recommended that you change your boyfriend immediately, and you should pay attention to the occasion.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's normal for a guy to love face, but if he takes himself too seriously and only sees himself in his eyes, without you, don't insist on it.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I've never been a good talker, but I'm genuine to all my friends and want to help you solve your problems. I've recently helped people answer similar questions about you, all of them are lovers quarreling and breaking up. The reasons are all inconspicuous little things, each holding their own opinions, and not giving in to each other.

    Careful analysis, there is really no problem of principle, and it is usually very affectionate. The woman said, I admit it, I'm coquettish, don't I just want my boyfriend to coax me? Not only did he not coax me, but he also ignored me, and the man said, why do I have to coax her every time we quarrel?

    Why didn't she let me go back? This is really a family affair that is difficult for a clean official to decide! If you think about it, this is all the fault of the common habits of only children.

    Each is the main one, and I am the center. Moreover, the woman talks about equality between men and women every day, that is, she is treated unequally, and she is willing to be inferior and small, which makes people coax. These two problems have been completely solved, and the problem of [breakup] has been solved80.

    I advise you, [Friendship is not easy to come by, don't give up easily. Don't just talk about equality and wait for the other person to coax you. Be the eldest sister and coax your little brother.

    Giving is no big or small, and it is forbidden to ask for it! A hundred years of cultivation can be spent together, and it is not appropriate to sleep together for a thousand years. Let's see if I can get a good result from my hard work!

    I'm looking forward to it!

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