I have a psychological disorder, I can t trust a woman, who can help me?

There are still good girls, and you have to believe that most of them are good, and if you don't touch them, you will never meet them. First of all, we must face it with a sincere and trusting attitude.

Good women are everywhere, but you don't notice it.

It's not that there isn't, it's that the cause has not yet arrived, and it also requires your efforts and observation.

Where are there so many bad girls -- it's all up to you.

In fact, most of the girls around me are very good, and you think too much.

Take the initiative, learn more, it's not suitable to divide it again.

You try to talk to the ladies and see what kind of men they like, and then you can go on the offensive.

In fact, you don't have to be like this, there is no need not to let them see it, it is generous, in fact, it is nothing, they just see what they see, what they think or want to say, after seeing your natural expression, they will soon forget.

Don't worry too much. Usually they feel this way because they don't want to, and they look at themselves strangely. This is normal psychology.

I can understand your feelings.

Because I've been like this, I'm going to have a scar after the surgery, and there's nothing that I can't see.

We don't want others to see it, just because we don't want people to look at us strangely, ask and ask, and be happy until we see all the scars that we are unhappy about.

I believe that after speaking generously to others, not many people will remember your scars. Even if you see other people's disgusting eyes, you don't have to care. Because it's a minority, after all.

I used to be quite envious of those who didn't have scars on their stomachs, but after a long time, I found that almost all of them had scars on their bodies. And my scars, after slowly fading, I don't feel like anything else.

Don't worry about that.

Now, if your boyfriend breaks up with you because of this, just say goodbye to him.

Ha, after talking for a long time, in short, don't care about these superficial things. One day you will find that as long as you are healthy, nothing else is worth worrying about.

Understand your mood and feel like you have a scar that isn't perfect? There are no perfect people in the world, and only those with weaknesses appear more real. And the human body has a compensatory function, illness affects some functions, must develop other functions to compensate, rather than pay attention to the scar, it is better to find your own potential, play well.

If you think about it, you are not the only one with scars, and maybe they are more ugly than the scars on your body? Slowly let go of my heart, I think as long as the scar does not grow on the face, there is no big hindrance! Small scars are normal on the face!

After all, there is no such thing as a perfect person! Don't care what others think, first of all, you have faith in yourself!

Is it important? If you have a scar on your face, won't you be able to see people! That's your life symbol, hehe, don't mind too much! How worthless it is to grieve for such a trivial matter!

I think it's okay, there is a mental barrier, but it doesn't necessarily affect teaching

On the contrary, it is a lot of people who become depressed after becoming teachers...

Be sober and tolerant, don't try to convince her, and look at him at eye level.

Make an appointment with a psychiatrist, but you have to establish this awareness in advance, seeing a psychiatrist does not mean that you are a patient, especially not a mental illness; The psychiatrist is just chatting with you, guiding and suggesting you to a reasonable worldview from a professional point of view, relax your mind, and everything will be fine.

Care more about her, often take her to breathe, and let the family be more tolerant during this time, she can't suddenly become like this, there must be a series of reasons, two people together, shouldn't they tolerate each other? It is not recommended to see a doctor, she does not think that she has a mental illness, such a situation is held back, I hope you can accompany your wife more, chat more, go out with her, I think it will be better!

Hello! How long has this been going on? If it has been a long time, it is recommended to go to a regular psychology teacher for counseling in time and listen to the teacher's advice.

Through your description, I believe that your wife didn't start out like this, right? Therefore, it should be a psychological problem, but it is impossible to judge whether it is serious or not.

Hello, from what you said, your wife has a certain psychological disorder, and it is recommended to encourage her to seek psychological counseling from a systematic psychological counselor in a timely manner.

Care more, usually more considerate, you see her as a patient is a patient, you see people as lovers, is the happiest person... May you be happy and happy.

It's depression, and so is my wife's third sister, but it's almost better now.

I don't know your specific situation, so I do two main kinds of analysis:

Your wife may have low ability and simple mind, although she has a high level of education on the surface and a stable job, but in fact her inner quality is low and her ability to deal with the world is not good. For example, she is not social, has no friends, is afraid of going to the workplace, hates work, etc. If such a person cannot win people's trust through interpersonal relationships, he will definitely suffer from it, be bullied and abandoned by people.

Such a person should take her to broaden her horizons, see more of the world and contact people, learn literature and art, protect her more, and pay attention to the people around her;

Or although the ability is high, but not good at not knowing how to be low-key. is too extravagant and wasteful, which makes some relatively poor people envious and jealous, and produces hatred of the rich and excludes her, and unites to bully her. Trapping them in a delusional state of victimization.

Go to the complex and simple, live in a simple way, be a low-key person, and do things in a high-profile manner.

The sense of superiority is too strong, and the emotional intelligence is too low, resulting in frustration everywhere, and if you are frustrated, you will not be relieved, and your anger is stuffy in your heart, that's it. Don't force her, don't teach her, don't force her to change. The more cultured a person is, the more he hates being preached, not even hinted.

She needed time to integrate the thoughts in her mind. So you just stabilize yourself, take care of your physical and mental health, don't care too much about her, just take care of her in life. Unless she takes the initiative to open her heart, don't force it into her heart.

In fact, the situation is not too bad now, she has someone else in her heart, she is at least married to you now, at least get along with you every day, she can't forget the one in front of her that shows that she is a person who values affection, from your description, it can be seen that she is a good woman, caring for her family and heavy feelings, and since she is not with the previous one, there must be a reason why she can't be together, you will definitely know what the specific reason is, and she is now married and it is even more impossible to be with him, To put it bluntly, that person can't forget her for a while, you have to believe that you will eventually fall in love after a long time, you are good to her, no matter how cold she is to you, she is also clear in her heart, you will enter her heart little by little, it depends on whether you have the patience to wait, I believe that happy flowers will bloom between you. Hehe, and you see that others fall in love first and then get married, you get married first and then fall in love, I think this is very good, very special, like in romance. Finally, I wish you happiness.

Psychological distress can only be cured by a psychiatrist.

That's because you're not prepared enough. When I read the book, I was nervous and timid every time I took an exam, and I knew it was because I didn't fully grasp the knowledge in the textbook.

After work, there are many opportunities or company needs, and I need to speak in front of more than 200 people. I was nervous at the beginning, because I was worried about what other people would think of my speech, but I wasn't afraid because what I was talking about was my own experience, my own knowledge, what I had mastered and understood.

Later, before starting a business, I would also bear the burden of withering, but then I made the worst plan, and then I measured whether I could bear the consequences. If it's OK, no problem, then what's there to be afraid of.