I can t help myself in the face of him, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-20
10 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    After reading your story carefully, I can understand how you are feeling right now

    In fact, the most important test of a long-distance relationship is the patience and tolerance of two people After all, not being able to see each other often can really make people very painful

    I think you really love her, and now you have to think about whether you would give up your job for him?

    If you give up and go to his city, will you definitely get married?

    If he also loves you, he can also go to your city to do business In fact, if you want to feel that if you want to get married in the future, one party must give up, do you say?

    I think you have a good talk with him, it's not good for anyone to drag it out like this, if you really can't get together again, then as you said, it's over completely, it's good for everyone

    Having said so much, I don't know if it helps, after all, feelings are a matter of two people, we can only help you analyze it, and finally I really hope you can be happy

    o(∩_o

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Do you work in an agency? Twenty or thirty years old, right? That's amazing! I'm 19 years old, a freshman, and I really don't know what to do or what I can do in the future.

    I got a girlfriend in my junior year of high school, but because of the distance between the two of us, I didn't get a good result...She's the only one I really treat! But she still proposed to break up, I believe that her appearance is okay, at least there are a few girls chasing after her in the school. If you really love him, you will continue to love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    That's a lot to ask for.

    Invisibly you gave him such a hint:

    1. I am a person from the agency and have a stable job. So you'd better have a steady income.

    2. It's impossible for me to give up my current job, so I can only sacrifice you.

    3. I want feelings and a realistic life, you must do these for me.

    You know, he's in a bummer!

    Why do women always ask for so much?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You've only known each other for more than four months, what do you love about him that makes you feel like you're not giving up? I don't understand.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes, long pain is better than short pain, so let's take care of your emotions.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In love, distance does not produce beauty. There must be giving.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you love it, you love it deeply!

    If you don't love it, please leave!

    Direct showdown is best!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Give each other time, maybe he doesn't dare to face you because of his bad economic conditions.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    4 months .It takes a long time to see people's hearts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I didn't expect that one day I would like him.

    His eyelashes were long, white, and he had a beautiful smile. He always likes to wear a light blue shirt, and his slender fingers turn the pen flexibly, and he can easily solve difficult problems.

    He has top grades, but his laughs are low but not counted.

    When I ate in the cafeteria, he sat across from me and always laughed at my ugly food. I was not convinced, and kicked him hard, he held his smile in pain, glared at me innocently, but there was still a bad smile on the corner of his mouth.

    I don't know when I liked him, I liked the way he gave me a serious lecture, twisted his eyebrows, and blamed me for being careless. So, I always looked at him inadvertently, and saw him holding his head on his hands, looking at the blackboard a little tiredly, but he took notes very seriously.

    There are naturally many girls who like him.

    He doesn't know that I like him, those girls, some of them are better looking than me, and they are more coquettish than me. He is tepid and patient with every girl, sometimes making it bad, but very cute.

    What should I do, I love the feeling of being with him. He always smiled at me, and sometimes he teased me like a fool, yes, I really became a fool, and I liked him stupidly, knowing that it was impossible.

    What to do, more and more helpless.

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