How to comfort your wife and relieve her work stress?

At that time, I had just gotten married, and I was not financially well-off, so I joined a new company and learned that I was pregnant. The work of the new company is very rusty, and it is very stressful for me to be pregnant, I am a person who does not admit defeat, I work hard every day, and I am very tired. But because of the financial pressure, I had to keep going.

My husband is my biggest spiritual pillar during this time, he cooks for me after work every day, buys me food, washes clothes, does housework, pinchs my feet, massages, guides me before going to bed at night, takes care of me, always tells me not to go to work if I am tired, to be poor, to be poor, and not to starve to death when eating. It's me who is unwilling and persists. When it comes to work, I am prone to crying, very stressed, and fragile during pregnancy, my husband objectively and rationally analyzed the advantages and disadvantages brought to me by this job, as well as the management methods of my leader.

A word from my husband:"It doesn't matter if you do this job or not, you have to be happy. ”

I think you should give your wife strong support, tell her not to have any financial and ideological burdens, and that you are the pillar of the family, and that she can do her work if she likes it, and change it if she doesn't like it.

Helping my wife with housework, preparing a good meal and a warm cup of coffee is the best comfort for her.

Women also have pressure in life, and sometimes women may vent out unreasonable, so the husband should observe his words and feelings, communicate more with his wife, care about her life and work, and when she encounters annoying things, you will guide her more and motivate her more.

You have to be sure that her emotions are right and show a very distressed state. Then complain with her about the people and things she is sad about, and finally when her emotions are relieved in you, you are analyzing the causes of the problem with her and how to solve it, so as to avoid similar things from happening next time.

Men are the strongest supporters in the family, so comfort is not necessarily important, verbal comfort is better than something practical, such as cooking a delicious dinner, such as giving her a warm embrace, such as giving her an unexpected surprise.

There should be more tolerance between husband and wife, and you should let your wife vent the unhappiness in her heart, and then you are slowly explaining to her that as a man, you should take the initiative to take on the family life in life, and treat each other more sincerely between husband and wife, and the family will be more harmonious.

If you comfort your wife and relieve her stress, you can take her out for a walk, tell some jokes on a trip, and cook a table of delicious food.

Then you take her out for a walk, go out for a walk, and then you can release the stress.

You can say, I understand your feelings, usually she cries just to find comfort and relationship, or you just listen to her silently, she just wants to talk to someone.

If the family's funds allow, you can persuade him not to go to work, since he chooses to go to work, he is an adult, and he must inevitably take responsibility and corresponding pressure!

Her concern for her wife and giving her a sense of security is the driving force for her to persevere.

1. Prescribe the right medicine. When you know what is causing your wife to be sad and depressed, you can take the right medicine. For example, if your wife is not going well at work, you can talk to her. Enlighten her.

2. Encourage more. Encourage her that you can do your job well, don't worry, the current unhappiness is temporary, it will pass in a while, life is like this.

3. Tell her jokes. Laughing, the unhappiness is put aside, and the mood is happy.

4. Distract her. You can do things together, for example, go for a walk together, or go to a movie together, etc. When you are walking, find another suitable time to enlighten her.

5. Send her a little surprise. For example, you can say you want to go out to meet a friend, and then you go out and buy a flower or some other interesting little gift. Give her a surprise, and after the surprise, she won't think about those sad things.