What was the experience like for you to see everything?

I feel like I've seen everything and I'm more organized, knowing what I should and shouldn't do.

This year, I left home and had no money to eat, I was hungry for a day, and I had no place to live on the road at night.

When I nibbled on the spicy duck neck and watched my favorite TV series, I realized that life must be full of joy, thinking about so many things that are useless, and it is still necessary to grasp the happiness of the moment.

In my opinion, people must be open to many things in life, don't take it too seriously, take it seriously, and always live in complaining about what you can't see, and be happy every day.

I have experienced good things and bad things, and I have learned a lot of truths that I thought were jokes before.

I failed the exam that day, the teacher looked down on me, I was ignored by my best friend, I was knocked down from behind while walking, I stumbled up in the snow, I went home to confide in my family and was scolded for being useless, I was alone in the bathroom, I looked at myself in the mirror and cried with red eyes, suppressed my voice, tears flowed, mixed with indescribable emotions, and the intermittent sound came from outside the door, it was my family who told me to shut up and stop crying. It was probably at that moment that I was suddenly relieved.

I went to her city with great effort and texted her and said, "I'm in xx, can I see you?" and the other party replied with one word in seconds: no. I guess I won't forget the feeling of that moment in my life, so I decided to let it go.

Everyone will go through a period of time when no one helps you, I remember a few years ago in Shenzhen, I quit my job because of work and didn't do it, when I still have a few hundred yuan left, renting, eating, making ends meet, I looked for all my friends, but found that no one helped me. At that time, I understood that when people reach a certain age, they are their own roof, and no one will shelter you from the wind and rain. I didn't dare to fall, and I couldn't fall, so I could only grit my teeth and face the wind and rain and get through little by little.

After a lot of experience, I have to understand that there is a kind of sadness in this world, called relying on yourself. ‍‍

Seeing that many people are just talking, can anyone really see through everything! The mind can become broader.

Rented a house in the suburbs, bought a Simmons mattress, and negotiated with the driver for 120 yuan to go upstairs. When I arrived at the destination, the driver bullied me alone and set the condition: "150 upstairs, 100 yuan on the spot, you choose." I came up and gritted my teeth and chose 100 yuan.

A big mattress, dragged up to the 5th floor alone, and his arm hurt so much that he couldn't lift it. At that moment, I was thinking, no matter how difficult life is, it will not be more difficult than this moment.

After that day, I was no longer afraid of anything. When you are sad, think about that dark night, a person dragging a mattress upstairs, accompanied by only his own heavy breathing.

I came out to play with my best friend (I didn't see each other for more than a month after I came back from a trip), and then I had a meal, and I sent her to the station after eating, and I watched her smile and say goodbye to me (with a warm smile), and I watched her back slowly go away, life is like this, constant parting, reunion.

When I was young, the family lived in an extremely average life, and the best fruit in the influence was a ripe peach, the only memory was that it was very soft and sweet, and now the salary of a year after graduation is not bad, and I bought a particularly soft peach, and I actually ate it with tears in my eyes.

Grandma died. I remember that at the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner that year, the leader brought two bottles of high liquor and a box of dry red. Eight people, in less than an hour, drank all of them, and then I was the least drinker, and I was drunk, so I went home first.

On the way home, the road was empty. I remembered my grandmother, crying on the road. I was tired of crying, got up and went home, and then, pretending to laugh, I went home to accompany my parents and grandfather for the New Year.

There will always be unhappy things, but happiness can be found from them. Why do you let yourself be depressed in the course of life? Happiness is not for others, it is for oneself, happy and unhappy, the same day, but the result is not the same.

There are always more happy things than unhappy things, so why not make yourself happy more often! Every day is a fight or struggle for a better life. Take difficulties as a test, and difficulties are not the ability to solve problems less than the ability of the things themselves, and there will be difficulties!

When our abilities transcend difficulties, there are no difficulties! Hence the constant self-awareness, "system update"! Some difficulties cannot be overcome, you must face them correctly, have a healthy mind, and treat life positively!

Life is constantly summarizing, constantly overcoming, and constantly moving forward! No one is smarter than anyone, only who is better at summarizing their own and others' mistakes, so that they do not make the same mistakes as others. "Only by seriously summarizing the past can people better move towards the future.

Living, studying, and working healthily and happily. Happiness is just as much as wealth that we need to create. Many times we are unhappy because of our abrasive thinking, when we change our thinking, we will suddenly realize that happiness is all around us!

Don't let the bad mood infect others, and don't let the bad mood of others infect yourself!

Try to calm your fragile and restless heart for a while! Oops!! It's hurt!

Sad, sad, depressed! Don't embarrass yourself! Why are you bothering!!

I'm so tired!! People are very tired when they are alive!! Sad and sad!!

It will pass!! Time will fade away!! Let's learn to make yourself really happy!!

It's a day to be happy, and it's a day to be unhappy!! Think about it!! You only have one today in your life!!

There is only one day of the year!! There are only a few days a month!! There's only one day a week!

So today is important! More cherished! Say this a lot!!

I'll just say I'm going to tell you!! Today is more important than yesterday!! Look forward in everything!

Looking backwards is just endless memories and helplessness! Good times should be treasured, because it is relatively limited, we must learn not to worry too far, not to plan too much but to be braver, rich every day, happy to see every day!! It's sad to find someone to talk to!!

Don't talk to your relatives and friends!! Then find a netizen! Or find a familiar strange netizen to say!

Vent!

I am a very family-loving person, I have been married for more than ten years, I have always revolved around my home, even if I work, I always leave work on time at noon, and I have never left home. Later, I found a new job, dozens of kilometers away from home, and couldn't come back at noon. It made me feel terrible.

Every noon, I sit on pins and needles, and I can't wait to grow wings and fly home. However, the company gave me a promotion and a considerable income, so I felt that it was difficult to choose, and in this kind of entanglement, I have been struggling to persevere. I've always been unhappy, thinking about quitting every day, and persuading myself every day to dismiss my thoughts.

Until one day, something happened that made me figure it out all of a sudden, and I felt that my heart suddenly opened up and I was no longer entangled. My husband has a friend, in his forties, the relationship between husband and wife is very good, he saved a hidden life money, bought 3 suites, in order to enjoy himself after retirement, he and his wife walked and exercised every day, but there were unforeseen circumstances, and in three months, he died of cancer. This incident had a great impact on me, and I seemed to have seen the light of day all of a sudden.

Directly when and the company made a resignation report.

Failed the exam that day, the teacher couldn't afford to see the banquet, was ignored by his best friend, was knocked down from behind while walking, stumbled up in the heavy snow, went home to confide in his family and was scolded useless, alone in the bathroom, looking at himself in the mirror crying red eyes, suppressing his own voice, tears flowed, mixed with indescribable emotions, intermittent sound came from outside the door, it was my family who told me to shut up and not cry. It was probably at that moment that I was suddenly relieved.

This year, I left home and had no money to eat, I was hungry for a day, and at night I had no place to live and sit on the road.

When I was young, the family lived in an extremely average life, and the best fruit in the influence was a ripe peach, and the only memory to talk about was that it was very soft and sweet with Zhou Chong, and now the salary for a year after graduation is not bad, and I bought an old and very soft peach, and I actually ate it with tears in my eyes.

I struggled to come to her city and send her a text message saying: I'm in xx, can I see you, and the other party replied with one word in seconds: No. At that moment, I guess I will never forget it in my life, so I decided to let it go.

After experiencing borrowing money, you will recognize those friends who are usually friends, which ones are real friends. Usually very good, talking and laughing friends, so many people who call brothers and sisters, when you encounter difficulties and need to borrow money, you will find out which will really help you. A friend who can endure hardships together is a true friend.

There are not many friends, but fine.

Don't judge others easily, even if you think that you have experienced more than him, and your vision is wider than his, but you have not experienced his life, you can't really understand his feelings and his choices. Even if you have the same experience as everyone else!

This year is more unlucky, the departure of relatives makes me feel a lot, a person in his 50s, said no, it is gone, and then thought about himself, maybe life is not necessary to let yourself run forward at the speed of a 100-meter sprint, because everyone's end point is the same, and even this end point may be advanced, so now the idea is that you should eat and drink, and be comfortable for a second!

I think most people will understand life after experiencing feelings, after all, feelings are the most hurtful, I felt for the first time after the breakup of love, the feeling that people often say that the sky is about to fall, after slowly adjusting, I found that it is just so, I am fine, since then the steel and iron bones, look down on everything. I don't think anything can hurt me now.

When I graduated, I was already seeing life through when I looked for a job. It turns out that the relationship is really useful, no matter how hard I try, it is not as good as the two sentences of other people's parents, even if the strength between us is much worse. At that time, I felt that there was no hope for life.

At this time, I had experienced something that was very devastating to myself.

It was that year that I took the college entrance examination, and then I was useless in the exam, and no one helped me speak for me, at that time only my parents spoke for me, and then I felt that I was me, and I said that I only relied on myself.

I think I have experienced failure to see through life, when I started my business, because of my poor management, resulting in a lot of money owed to me, all the friends in the mobile phone have called ** to borrow money, but suffered from rejection again and again. This incident has taught me that when you succeed, you will have a group of friends around you, but when you fail, you are left with only yourself.