When love is facing separation because of reality, do you want to let go?

Hehe! Actually, you shouldn't ask this kind of question!

You have a choice!

If you feel that your love can't withstand setbacks, you can choose to give up!

If you are willing to give everything for him, perhaps, in the face of reality, God will give you a chance to be happy!

Follow the feeling!

Let it go, it's better to let go than to make yourself so tired. Letting go can be a relief for both parties. Feelings are really something that can't be forced, since he said that he was tired and let go, then let it go, there is nothing to be reluctant to, since he is so willing to separate.

Let yourself live with dignity. There is no one in this world who can't live without anyone, everything is just a habit. Let go, start a new life of your own, let yourself get used to it, and let him know that you can live well without him. It's true!

I chose to separate, hehe, I've experienced such a thing! Dragging is not good for two people, just order it! lest I be reluctant when the time comes! Hehe! This is just my personal opinion!

If the relationship between two people is weak, they will separate, even if they are not separated, the conflict will intensify after a long time, and it will be even worse if there is a stalemate.

Maybe after being separated for a period of time, as the distance increases, you will feel that the other party is important, after all, there is an emotional foundation there. But I think that the pressure should be shared by both parties, and it should not be easy to give up.

It's better to have a good talk and sit down with two people

Hello, if two people really love each other. In fact, two people who truly love each other will not be separated easily.

Fate seems to be a wonderful thing, but after peeling off the layers of shell, you will find that fate is the inevitable result of two people, the person who is destined to leave you will inevitably leave you, and the person who is destined to meet will inevitably meet.

The person who has been by your side and silently dedicated, after he can't find any motivation to accompany you, then he will definitely leave you, no matter how you keep it.

The person who has been away from you for a long time but still loves you, as long as he can find an opportunity, he will definitely meet you one day in the future, no matter where you are.

It's just that fate has depths, and the person you meet may not be able to continue the previous edge, and the person who turns around decisively may not be able to break the mirror and reunite.

The key is that two people are enough to love each other.

Two people who truly love each other, they will definitely have the courage to overcome all difficulties, they will definitely have the determination to accompany each other to the end, on the contrary, if one of them is ready to give up, then no matter how hard the other person tries, this relationship will still be broken.

Two people who really love each other, each other has an obsession to continue the edge, even if the road ahead is boundless, they still grit their teeth and insist, waiting for the day of reunion, on the contrary, two people who don't love each other enough, time and distance are reasons to give up and betray.

Stephen Chow once said: "You can't forget a person who has loved seriously, you think you are missing a person, but in fact, what you are missing is the whole life." ”

In this life, there are not many unforgettable feelings, and the person who has really loved is one of them, in the time of being together, it is as beautiful as having the whole world, and the pain is like tearing out the heart, engraved in the heart, and it can't be let go for a lifetime. Because they have given each other, they will really think of each other, and it is not easy to get apart. But love is not all, life is important, if you really love each other, you can never be separated if you choose the right person, if you love the wrong person, choose someone who should not be loved, even if two people really love each other, there is no way to change the facts, because after all, people live in the world, life is important, you fall in love with a person who should not be loved, even if the two of you know that you really love each other, you can't be together, choose a person to choose the right person, and you can really love each other for a long time.

It can indeed be understood in this way. For lovers who often quarrel, in fact, the reason for the quarrel between the two people can be found from the beginning. Some people may accommodate each other from the beginning, although they see each other's shortcomings, but they don't care about it because of temporary emotional choices.

When two people spend more and more time together, there will be more and more conflicts between the two people, and some relationships are destined to separate. 1. The first impression of two people together is very important. I'll give you a casual example, if two people seem to be very harmonious when they first get together, but in fact, two people will feel that each other has some shortcomings in their bones, and these shortcomings are shortcomings that can be seen at a glance.

Although both people don't seem to care, these shortcomings will be remembered in the hearts of two people, which will also directly affect the next relationship between two people. When the relationship between two people enters a stable period, the two people will often consider these shortcomings, and then there will be a lot of quarrels. Second, many feelings can be seen from the beginning.

A lot of feelings will compromise with reality, and sometimes we may compromise with our other half because we have something to focus on at this time. But when the relationship between two people gradually stabilizes, we will find it difficult to tolerate a certain flaw of the other person. This front or disadvantage may not be a real shortcoming, it may seem to the other party to be fine at all, but we can't bear it.

It is precisely because of such small problems that a rift in a relationship arises. 3. If the two Fengsun people will tolerate each other, the relationship can last for a long time. If two people are more mature in dealing with the problem of relationship Hui Ki-woo and know how to tolerate each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, such a relationship will last longer.

For many young lovers, it is not because the other party's shortcomings are unbearable, but because they are not tolerant enough and not mature enough, so a relationship will not last long. Personally, I think that lovers are not only love, but also take care of each other, and love is not just the whole of life. If a person has such awareness, it can make a relationship more long-lasting.

People who love each other can also be completely separated. It depends. For example, because of parents.

The reason for the work. Wait a minute. can cause the people who love each other to be completely separated.

Even if it's outside the body, no matter how powerful it is. If you have been separated for ten years, you will slowly forget it. Time will solve everything.

So say people who love each other. If you have been separated for a long time, you will slowly forget it. But when we first separated, it must have been heartbreaking.

It's unbearable for the average person. But after a long time, it slowly calmed down. It's going to be normal.

1. Lack of respect.

We usually describe the basic state of communication, called two people together, in fact, the literal meaning is very easy to understand, that is, two people accept the fact that they are by each other's side, then the person around them must be recognized by themselves, and the person who recognizes must be the person who respects themselves, which is like the best friend around you, there must not be a person who takes pleasure in insulting you all day long

Why? Because mutual respect is an important sign of mutual recognition, but some people fall in love, talk and talk, and suddenly find that the other half does not respect themselves, and the other party begins to expose their bad temper, and regards you as a target for bad temper, or the other party is wronged outside, and then he will give you a belly of anger, this is a typical "nest in the horizon", such a person will no longer take into account your feelings, he will cherish your feelings, and he will cherish this relationship into his own unscrupulous **, and what is even more terrible is that The more you tolerate the other party, the more the other party feels that your tolerance is taken for granted, so we can only choose to let go of such a lack of respectful feelings, because only when we let go will we let the other party know that it turns out that the loss of not respecting a person is the loss of this person.

2. Treat you like a pure tool.

The extreme of this argument lies in the fact that such a view does not understand either feelings or tools. Feelings, is a kind of perceptual needs, the reason why people need feelings, is to hope that in a complex society, difficult life, there is a person who can confide in, can believe, and tools, is a rational help condition, communication tools, is not simply the ability and ability to use each other, more importantly, is based on a need for mutual recognition, so communication matters, each other has the use of interests, the application of interests, is very normal, but if you only regard each other as a tool, will make the other party feel that you don't recognize him as a person, but just want to use your own ability, pure in the end, what is it? You work for me, I work for you.

Further, this so-called relationship has become a kind of "contest" between wage earners and wage earners.

Therefore, if what you are looking for is a partner, then this kind of relationship of mutual use can completely exist, but if what you are seeking is a kind of affection, a kind of relationship that can be trusted by each other, then purely treating each other as a "tool person" will not let you have a place called "friend" in the other party's heart: letting go of feelings is a regret, but also a disappointment. And the laying down of the tool is a split between cold and cold.

The first is the relationship without the future, like this kind of feeling, if there is no future, just let it go, the long pain is not as good as the short pain, the second is the feeling that is not favored by others, because many are bystanders, the authorities are confused, others are not optimistic about this feeling, maybe it really can't continue, the third is the feeling that is not blessed, such as the obstruction of the family, the disagreement of the family, and the relationship between you will become weaker and weaker after a long time.

In love, in the face of feelings that have no ending, you should let go as soon as possible, because if you keep entangled, you will eventually separate, and the long pain is better than the short pain.

Unilaterally gave the feelings, because the feelings given unilaterally are too tiring, so you can only let go.