Do you want to insist on the love that your parents oppose?

Let's put it this way, there are a large number of people whose love is not favored by their parents, because in the eyes of their parents, their children are good, but when they see each other, they always feel that they are not good and are not worthy of their children, so many parents will be hostile to their children!

Then for children, listen carefully to the advice given by their parents, and after careful consideration, find that they are purely vexatious and can't say why, then persevere; But if what the parents say is reasonable, and this person is really not suitable, then don't insist!

If the woman's parents are opposed, they may also be out of a "protection" complex, the daughter is the heart of the parents, for personal safety or other factors, the boy must be examined and even tested, this situation must be persistent.

Still don't stick to it. Because although you are together despite the opposition, after marriage, the disharmony of the family relationship will be very detrimental to your development. Affect your work and all sorts of other things.

When love encounters opposition from parents, it is still necessary to maintain respect, consider the reasons for their opposition, whether it is experience or prejudice, love or interference? Time may tell. Of course, what is more important is the attitude of both parties in love, they are the most critical parties.

I think since your parents are against it, you have to think about it again. Ask in detail where the parents' objections are.

In that conversation, I also made it difficult in every way, and even deliberately interfered with our continued relationship, saying that I was not uncomfortable at all It was false, but fortunately, my wife was a girl who dared to love and hate, and did not directly obey her parents and broke up with me. At that time, I had made two preparations before going to her house, if her parents didn't like me and insisted on stopping me, and my girlfriend would obey her words, I would turn around and leave. If my girlfriend doesn't break up with me because of this, I have to convince her parents that no matter what, until her family agrees......

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, there should be very few families who interfere with their children's love now, after all, freedom of love is the progress of society. But as parents, they will have their own views on their children's emotional problems.

Love is a kind of life choice for children themselves, the emotions of men and women, parents as people who have come over, there must be some mature suggestions, we can use as a reference, but not a substitute for their own choice.

First of all, I have to admit that the popularization of the concept of free love is indeed a great progress in human freedom, but at the same time, it is undeniable that China's thousands of years of mate selection system - the order of parents, the words of matchmakers. is the value of his existence.

In the cases that our company has contacted, few of them have been very happy in marriages that their parents oppose. Men are afraid of choosing the wrong line, and women are afraid of choosing the wrong man, especially for women.

In the way of choosing a mate in China, when it comes to the word "parents' life", many people will laugh, what age is this, and when you talk about your parents' life, do you have to decide your parents' marriage? Isn't it better to be free in love?

Although it is said that the pursuit of love is beautiful, but your parents have more experience than you, and even those who they don't look down on, you should weigh it yourself.

Should the love that parents oppose stick to it?

Have you ever encountered such concerns?

Should.

The original intention of the vast majority of parents to oppose it is actually to hope that their children can be truly happy. You should clarify the reasons for your parents' objections and actively communicate with them so that your parents can understand the relationship.

When parents are opposed to falling in love, they can list the real relationship status, including the strengths and weaknesses of the other party, and the problems that need to be solved, so as to avoid the prejudice of parents.

There are many love that parents oppose, insist on being together, and finally end in tragedy.

There are many love that parents oppose, those who stick together, and those who are very happy in the end.

The key to solving the problem of parental opposition is not simply "insisting" to be together, but what concrete and effective actions the two of you have taken to persevere.

In short, if the other parent's parents do not agree to be with you, the reason is because you have nothing to do, you sleep at home every day, play games, do not have a long-term stable job, and always fish for three days and dry nets for two days.

In this case, even if you hold your other half to demonstrate to her parents, hold hands and say "We are true love", then the second elder will feel from the bottom of his heart that "you are the broom star of our family", they worked hard to raise their eldest daughter, why would they fall in love with such a man who has no prospects? If you get married, it will definitely not end well.

Without the blessing of the parents, and the fact that the main contradictions in the relationship are not resolved, this kind of love will only be sad nine times out of ten.

On the contrary, when the other party's parents think that "you are not capable or qualified to give her happiness", but you still have a strong fighting spirit and self-motivation in life, and you are trying to prove yourself every day, although you have not achieved much after a few years, you can at least guarantee that "if the other party's daughter marries you, it will not become a burden to you, at least you can live a well-off life in peace".

If you can do this kind of persistence, even if the other party's parents will not give you a good face, at least they will definitely attend your wedding, which is actually a silent recognition of your relationship.

The purpose of your insistence is to "solve the problem", not to insist on threatening and forcing the other parent to agree with your so-called true love, as long as you insist on taking effective action, it is only a matter of time before the other parent sees your determination.

Say a very realistic word: the best way to face insults is not to show weakness, nor to arouse the sympathy of the other party, which will only aggravate the boredom of the other party, the most correct way is to show your true strength, prove yourself, slap the other party's face hard, and let others put away their prejudice against themselves.

The most terrible thing is: you think that "as long as the other party really loves you", and finally the raw rice is cooked and cooked, the other party's parents can only be forced to agree, and then you live a boring married life with three points and one line, and you don't know what you should pursue, let alone be responsible for each other's future.

In the end, you will only fail a person who loves you with all his heart, not only did not get the blessing of his parents, but also failed the other person's sincerity.

Remember that your parents have the right to vote on your feelings, but they don't have the right to choose, they want you to be happy, but they won't be happy for you, in the end, what is the way to go in life? Or take responsibility for yourself.

In the face of feelings, as adults, we should be more separated from the issues of our parents, each with our own choices, and we should also bear our own consequences.

This is growth, you all have your own life issues, and you are responsible for your own life, this is the boundary and responsibility of adult relationships, and parents and children are no exception.

So if you decide that you have made a choice, weigh the pros and cons, and later, you can stick to it and complete your life project, and your parents' thoughts and emotions are their problems, you can refer to and learn from them, and you don't need to carry it forward.

But then again, in most cases, in fact, what your parents are really against is not your love, what they are worried about is whether you will be happy in the future? But the question is whether you can be happy or not, and the final answer at this time never lies with your parents? It's up to you.

Specifically, you can imagine the main reason for your parents' opposition, and it is up to you to do what you do in the end?

In the face of love that is opposed by parents, it is necessary to weigh many factors and decide whether to stick to it. Here are some suggestions and considerations:1

Parental opinions: First, listen carefully to your parents' opinions and concerns. Find out why they oppose and see if it's justified.

If there is some justification in the parents' objections, they can consider adjusting their positions appropriately. 2.Feelings for each other:

Evaluate the depth of the relationship between the two parties, whether they really love each other and support each other. If the relationship is strong, consider facing difficulties and challenges together. 3.

Planning for the future: Think about your plans and expectations for your future life. Whether they share common goals and values, and whether they are willing to work towards achieving them.

4.Communication and understanding: Communicate effectively with parents to express their thoughts and feelings.

Try to understand your parents' positions and concerns and try to reconcile. 5.Maturity of both sides:

Assess the maturity of both parties in the face of stress and difficulties. Mature people will deal with problems more rationally and reduce the risk of escalating conflicts. 6.

Third-party advice: Seek advice from friends and family to see what they think. They may be able to provide valuable advice and support.

7.Uncertainty about the future: Consider the uncertainties you may face in the future, such as work, life pressure, children's education, etc.

Whether both sides are mentally prepared and have the practical capacity to deal with these challenges. 8.Belief in love:

Finally, think about your belief in this love. Whether you are willing to put in the effort and price to maintain the relationship. Combine the above factors, weigh the pros and cons, and make an informed decision.

Sometimes, the love that parents oppose requires more time and effort to prove that they have made the right choice. However, in some cases, persistence can lead to more pain and difficulty. Ultimately, the decision to insist on paying off the hardship is a matter of personal circumstances and the need to answer the grievances.

It has been said that "a marriage that does not have the approval of parents is a marriage of courage." "It takes a lot of courage because you have to face more difficulties and obstacles, so it is best to have the support and approval of your parents for love and marriage. And when faced with parental interference, what we need to do must not be to worsen the existing situation, but to do the following:

Respect When there is a difference of opinion, you must first respect, not only respect your parents, their opinions are for your own good, but the important thing is your own mind, you have to know what kind of person you are suitable for and need, after you are sure, you need to respect your own ideas, so that you can grow into a truly independent person. Communication is followed by communication with parents, and no matter what the outcome is to be achieved, effective communication is always essential! Communication is crucial in how to convince parents to handle a good relationship.

Attention needs to be paid to the tone of communication, attitude and logic, and it is necessary to communicate rather than arguing. You can first ask them about the reasons for their objections, and then make targeted breakthroughs, combining theory and examples, and finally introduce your partner to your parents and achieve communication between them. Balance Finally, for parents interfering in love, we must remember "harmony" and "balance", in the face of parents' intervention in their feelings, we must stay sober, do not be carried away by emotions, no matter whether the situation is difficult or not, it is very important to maintain the harmony of parents, yourself, and lovers, and it is also a long-term consideration.

Authoritative parents not only have high requirements and control over their children, but also give a high degree of acceptance and response to their children's needs. If your parents are the authority type, you can communicate directly with your parents and talk about your views on mate selection and your love needs. Authoritative parents interfere in your love because their looks, age, education, occupation, etc. do not meet their parents' expectations.

Parents interfere in these situations mostly because they don't know enough about your significant other. Take the initiative to show parents the good things about TA. Arrange for parents and Yamakuta to meet, or have a meal, or chat, or go out together.

Give your parents the time and opportunity to get to know you better, and your parents' impression and attitude towards them will also change due to contact and running-in. Actively use the role models around you to persuade your parents. If you have a couple in a similar situation to you, and they end up with their parents' blessings and a happy life, such examples can be actively shared with their parents.

The more similar the situation, the more it strengthens your parents' confidence in your future happiness and happiness. Join them in telling their parents about your determination to stay together. Convince parents that:

You have made a love choice after careful consideration, and you have come to the point because you appreciate and love each other—you are an authoritative parent who genuinely wants to be with each other—and is good at listening to your child's needs and encouraging her child to be himself. Be sensible, firmly express your love needs to your parents, and actively use the power of the role models around you, and your love will eventually be blessed by your parents.

I don't think it's necessary for parents to oppose love that there is no need to insist on, because parents have a long-term vision and think more.

There is no need for the love that the parents oppose to continue the relationship and stick to it.

Parents are against love, and my point of view is to give up. Parents are for their children, they have a lot of experience, and they see people more accurately than we see people.

The door is very particular about in ancient times, but after modern times, the view of the door has been gradually broken, whether you should stick to this relationship should also depend on what kind of attitude the parties should have towards this relationship, if two people like each other very much will not affect the development of emotions because of the gap in family background, then two people can choose to persevere.

The opinions of parents will affect the development of emotions, but this is not a decisive factor, because after all, parents raise their children so big, they must hope that their children will find a more suitable one, or even say that it is more perfect, the other half will put forward some tests to the other half of their children, and it is normal to have certain opinions, but whether this relationship can continue depends more on how the parties feel about such a relationship, because love is a matter of two people, The opinions of others can only be used as a reference, not as a decisive factor.

The door is not the right relationship, there are also elders around them who can be long-term, and their peers also have this kind of family background gap, because 20 years ago they were more particular about these, but that generation they still insisted on their own, and they felt that their parents did not particularly approve of their relationship, but they were still willing to believe in each other, and accompany each other through difficulties, until now twenty or thirty years later, the children may have become adults, and their relationship is still very good, Although life is a little more difficult, but there are two people who understand and help each other, then this marriage is more normal and happy.

The door-to-door talk is about the economic foundation and life experience between the two children, and the difference in life experience and growth environment will indeed have a great impact on the personality of the two people, and even affect the emotional development of the two people. If both children can be confident that they can understand the gap and that they are willing to support each other, the relationship can continue, even if the parents disagree.