How to be a little more extroverted, how to make yourself a little more extroverted

I can only tell you that when you talk to strangers, you will be stiff. Basically, all of them will have it. It's just that you may be more serious. But more likely, just what you yourself feel serious.

The skill of talking to strangers is first of all to test the topic, and to immediately observe the other person's reaction to each topic, and to determine which part of the topic the other person is really interested in, or not at all.

Second, to find a common topic, you have to express your opinion. Don't go into liquidation! Be vague first, and if the other person can accept it, then move on.

On the contrary, when the other person speaks his or her own opinion. You need to give affirmation before the other person can continue. If you encounter an unacceptable point of view, you need to express it immediately in tactful language.

This keeps the conversation going.

In the end, if you are really like-minded, you will easily become friends. Completely repulsive, don't make the scene ugly. Average, just average. Don't dwell on it.

The interaction between people still depends on fate.

You are a slow-burning person, with a strong sense of self-protection, not extroverted, but not so familiar, this is not a problem, there are many people you see that he is very cheerful, in fact, he is just a disguise of his true self, and the content of the chat is not a few nutritious, in fact, you don't have to be like a talk, not a lot of girls like it, your gentlemanly demeanor and stability can also attract the attention of others.

Consciousness directs practice, and the method I'm talking about can be called mental suggestion. First of all, I have a correct understanding, and when there is a communication disorder, the psychological suggestion is that "communicating with people is not my problem." You can say whatever you want.

It's all the same people. The people in front of me are all other people, and they are the ones I want to communicate with. "In short, convince yourself to get into a more relaxed state of mind.

Gradually, you will be able to get rid of this psychological suggestion and communicate with people easily. Hope it works.

Start with a simple letter and text message, so that you can avoid the embarrassment of chatting directly.

Learn about the darkness of society. You know, everything is human, what is the difference between you, you can also go to some entertainment venues, discotheques, or karaoke 、、、

When you talk to girls, do you think about anything other than realize that they are girls? Or, are there any thoughts or worries in your subconscious?

First of all, say to yourself in the mirror three times I can, I can do it, I am confident, you first try to close your eyes and talk to your imaginary friend, but you have to think clearly about why I want to say that. Am I like this, in front of strangers, am I my usual self? A very humorous person is himself, you don't need to say anything or do anything in front of strangers, you just have to be humorous and no one will hurt you and blame you, so you will attract a lot of people...

You don't know if it's good until you do it.

Well, it's about the same as me, Khan, and I'm also curious.

Say whatever you want == All human beings.

Don't be afraid, just say whatever you want.

Give yourself confidence and make more lively friends.

Take your time and take the first step.

Find more opportunities to work out!