May I ask if the current marriage, money, house, and car are more important than the people who love

I think it's easy to understand that if two people want to get along for a long time, they must have a certain degree of tightness in the synthesis of various factors. For example, if you reach 90 points, two people will get married, and the relationship with a good relationship can account for 89 points, so the remaining 1 point can be easily achieved with whatever you make up; If the relationship is not good, the relationship only accounts for 30 points, so what should I do if I want to reach 90 points for marriage, I can only have a house + 20 points, a car + 20 points, an appearance + 20 points, etc., hehe, I personally think so.

So if the person you love has high material requirements for you, it can only mean that they don't love you enough; If you have high material requirements for the person you want to love, it can only mean that you don't love him enough, what do you think?

Everyone's opinion is different, some people are biased towards money, houses, cars, and some people are biased towards the people who love you. Everyone will give a different answer, and I personally think that the person who loves you is very important, but we are laymen and can't accept naked marriage. So it's best to have a little material foundation, otherwise it won't be more uncomfortable to quarrel all day long for firewood, rice, oil and salt after getting married.

I wish you all the best in finding the other half of your life as soon as possible.

More important than the person who loves you, and more important than the person you love, because love is all deceptive, just a flash in the pan, money, house, car is eternal, at least the shelf life is longer than love, love is too short, understand, love is like taking medicine, the strength of the medicine is over, it is gone, and the rest is real,

This is the case in the current social climate, where there is great social pressure and people blindly pursue too many things.

People's thinking is wrong again and again, and people know in their hearts that money, house, and car can never compare to the person they love, but their actions are often the opposite, and they hurt Aiqi for a little profit.

Overall, it is still people's spiritual space, and there is no good spiritual food, so they still care so much about these vanity things.

Anyway, I think it's more important to have someone who loves you! Money is enough! And there is more to do good! A good man has a safe life!

For those who don't believe in true love, yes; For those who believe in true love, money is easy to come by, but true love is hard to find.

Personally, I don't think so, the house and the car are not the most important thing. Happiness can come from the following aspects:

1. Family relationships, health status, and income level are the three major factors that affect happiness. And the importance of "family relationship" is the most important in their hearts, followed by work, followed by boyfriend and girlfriend.

2. "China Economic Life Survey (2017-2018)" conducted a special survey for 18-25-year-old school students, most of them are post-90s, among them, in the consideration of mate selection, family and economic conditions are not their priority, the first place in their eyes is the other party is gentle, considerate, and has a family view, and its importance even exceeds appearance and talent.

3. After all, a lifetime is so long, if you are with a boring person, even if he has a house and a car, the two of them are just people who live together under the eaves of the same house and respect each other like ice. It can be seen that the post-90s generation still has a very clear understanding of what they want.

4. In addition to these emotional problems, the survey also shows that today's post-90s generation also has very high requirements for the quality of life. Food safety, air quality, and housing security are all qualities of the city that they value very much. Not only that, the post-90s generation also understands that they can't just submit manuscripts and ask for nothing, they are willing to spend time on "reading" and self-improvement, and their collected articles are also full of information.

The question of whether a house or a car is important to a marriage is a matter of opinion.

The question of the wise man's opinion. This is related to the individual's view of mate selection criteria.

If love is paramount, people will say that the house and car are not important for marriage. Because this kind of person only values love, he is full of affection, as long as two people are together and have love, they are willing to be happy if they are not material; If you don't have love, you won't feel happy if you live in a villa and drive a luxury car. This type of person pays more attention to the common struggle of two people, hoping to work together to buy a house and improve living conditions after marriage.

We call it naked marriage.

If bread is the first person, they will say that the house is of course important. Where do you live without a house? How to get around without a car.

If you live in a rental house and crowd the bus, you won't get married. This type of person thinks that as long as the material conditions are good, what if there is no love or less love. If you don't have a house or a car, you'd rather not get married.

There is also a group of people who have a house and a car and don't care if the other party has it. Some also have their own houses and cars, hoping that the other party's house is bigger and the car is better.

Of course, a loving marriage with a house and a car is a more successful marriage. If bread and love can't be both, how to choose depends on whether you love bread more or love people more!

My point of view is that money is very important, but in front of the great face of love, love is more important.

There is a good saying: "Money is not everything, and power without money is absolutely impossible." But how many people experience happiness from money, the answer is that ninety percent of people's happiness comes from other than money, and the factor that gives people the greatest happiness includes love.

True love is priceless, money is not everything, if love can be bought with money, then, I think everyone knows, this is not true love. Love is a person's spiritual life, and money can only improve our material living conditions. Let's ask, what is rich, what is not rich, where is the position of rich, and where is the standard?

The maintenance of great love may still require a certain material foundation, especially when it comes to the stage of talking about marriage, but this does not mean that money is more important than love, because money may only be a means to make love more perfect, the means are diverse, and the things that can be chosen begin to become unnecessary.

I believe in true love, true love is not a prerequisite for the existence of money!

According to the hierarchy of needs, human security comes first when needed. Only with a house can you ensure your safety, at least in the dead of night, you have a place of your own.

Society is developing, and people will think more about solving the problem of food and clothing. Maybe in the past, there were not so many requirements for marriage, but now it is different, people's living standards have generally improved a lot, the number of rich people is increasing, ** more and more developed, people are more and more aware of the benefits of having money, more and more vain, and what they can't get, of course, they hope to have it all when they get married. Just ask, how many people still have no desires and no desires?

The existence of such people is certain, but I am afraid that there are very few.

Therefore, today's talents will continue to work hard. Don't complain that the lady is too vain, you can only blame yourself for not having enough ability, not having the ability to get a car, a house and endless money. If you want to marry a satisfied wife, you must not only have financial strength, but also have the vision to find a way to pick one with the least desire among so many people.

So, either keep the current requirements and desperately make money. Either lower the requirements and be a little more relaxed!

Everyone's situation is similar, hehe, work hard. Adapt to this society!

The definition of happiness is different for everyone, but in the eyes of some, the basic conditions for having happiness must be material.

For some people who are very materialistic, happiness may be :

Lock the door, get in the car, take the money, and go on a trip!

Existing bread will last long to be happy.

Without bread, the time of happiness is only 7 days.

Because love is also to be maintained in real life, and nothing can be done without money in real life, so a lot of love is built on money!

In real life, a lot of love is based on money, but if this phenomenon is more serious (that is, if there are only interests and no feelings between two people), then this kind of love often does not last long.

A marriage with only bread but no feelings is unhappy and unhappy after all.

Love comes from the heart, not under one's control, and may only come once in a lifetime, no matter how hard you try, you may not get it. But money can be obtained by hands, wisdom, and hard work, and there are too many opportunities to fight for fame, fortune, and money in a lifetime.

Heart! Maybe there are a lot of real people in your circle, but I believe there are still innocent people. If a person loves you, he won't mind money, a car, a house. But you also have to understand that love still has to be material. At the very least, there must be security in life.

Love without bread is not love. If there is no way to make the other party feel extremely satisfied in the spiritual life, and make the other party feel that it doesn't matter even if they are poor, then of course the other party chooses to be materially satisfied. Therefore, don't measure love, if you can, measure your sincerity, see if you can use your sincerity to get the love of the other party, and make the other party feel that it is also a kind of happiness.

If it were me, I would choose love.