How do I go down this path? Depressed

I'm also '84. Indeed, as you said, our generation matured much later than our predecessors. But some of my age look mature, while others look very young. But that's just the appearance.

Isn't there a mental age? Appearance is just our skin, and whether the mind is mature or not is the criterion for judgment. When a person has responsibilities on his shoulders, he will grow up quickly!

I think, listening to what you said, the family is superior, so there is no pressure, of course I will feel that I am not mature enough.

In fact, if you have this idea now, thinking about your future, and caring about your family and career, and your parents, it is a kind of idea to mature. As long as you continue to analyze this question, you can find that this kind of thinking will make you become a mature, rational and attractive person.

First, set a personal goal. Luckily, you have a foundation, and your father created a good environment for you. So what are your goals? Is it like your father, or is it beyond him? Give yourself a clear, visible goal.

Then, the goal is the direction that you are fighting for, make a plan to achieve that goal, how much you need to invest, what resources you need, and find all the elements to achieve the goal. Then do them one by one, and in the end, you will find that your father's greatest contribution is to give you enough imagination to know what kind of person you want to be.

This process requires perseverance, not something that ordinary people can do, nor can it be completed in a day or two, it is an enterprising spirit that requires you to be dissatisfied with the status quo. What you said in the question, you feel that you are afraid, afraid that you will not be able to afford your father's career, and such thoughts are working hard for others, not for yourself. Maybe that's your problem.

Let's socialize. You can't learn all those specific professional things, it depends on you to employ people, a company you have to have its own team, a truly trustworthy team! Personal power is limited after all!

There is also a family business, the most difficult in management, I don't know if there will be a lot of "seven aunts and eight aunts" in your company, hehe, if there is, please think of a way to tidy! That's a nuisance! There is also the concept that an enterprise can have first-class execution, not first-class execution!!

All attention to detail!! Lead your team well.

I think your family conditions are so good, you should take a good grasp, I have been in business for 6 years, before I came to a manager, in my opinion, management is the most important, you should listen to your father's opinion, is in the company to learn progress, or in the study of further study, in short, you are at the helm in the future, without a clear consciousness and rich management experience will definitely suffer. Learning and practical operation are meant to be combined.

I agree with what was said upstairs.

Management is a science. As a leader, you determine the direction of the company. If there is no sound management approach and first-class execution ability. There is no future.

As a post-80s generation, we have many criticisms, which are not given by the times. Now we are all adults, but also to experience the responsibility given to us by the society, work hard, and believe that we can succeed tomorrow. I'm also a computer science major, so I'll support you and work hard.

Starting from the grassroots level, you will not know anything at once you sit in a high position, and an outstanding hotel owner may be born as a bellboy

My understanding:

First, you are a person with pursuits.

Second, you are doubting yourself, including your abilities, your social relationships, and your choices.

Third, you feel pressure from your parents (at home).

Fourth, you are extremely dissatisfied with the status quo and you don't know how to change it.

Analysis and solution: 1) It is good to have pursuits, but it takes time and courage to accept the reality first, accept the gap, and then work hard.

2) It's okay to doubt yourself, but it's scary to never affirm yourself. Dare to question your shortcomings, reflect on yourself, and at the same time believe in yourself, so that you can improve yourself and do your best.

3) Parents all over the world are worried about their children, which is very normal, raising a child at the age of 100 and worrying about 99. There is love to worry, you should turn pressure into motivation, grow slowly, do your best, you can have no regrets, this is the greatest filial piety.

4) When you find that there is darkness around you, you only think about your own business, start from yourself, think independently, the environment will not change because of one person many times, then we have two choices: 1. Change yourself; 2. Change the environment. As for how to do this, you can ask your friends to keep a relaxed and happy state of mind most of the time, which can make your mind more agile.

You're thinking too much. Everyone is a fellow traveler, and they left their homeland with dreams full of dreams.

Seeing that others are vigorous and obscure, of course they are closed.

It's all the same now, it's not that you can't go back, it's that you don't have the face to go back. Who wouldn't want to return home?

Without you, are you floating in the air now?

There is no need for money, and the place where there is no fraud is a mass grave, and now the ** of the cemetery can be compared with the house price. I don't know if it's full of joy or not.

We are all the same, when we are sad, think about it, you are not lonely, there are many of us in the world who are the same as you. What to do if you are tired? Helpless, bored, numb? What can I do? You can't die.

So the best thing to do is not to think.

As long as people grow up, they will have troubles, but if you have troubles, you don't know one, and you don't see everyone collapse, since there is no money, work hard to earn money, earn a little money, and change a little, so that the complaining children can live well, can exchange anger and strength, fight youth, fight with time, and fight with society.

It's okay to believe in yourself. All right?

It can be seen that you have only been in the rivers and lakes for a few years, and you have this feeling only in the here and now, time has passed, and the feeling is different.

Follow your heart, travel alone first, and then think about whether you should go back to your hometown, as long as your heart is pure, the world is pure, the occasional fraud, injustice, and darkness in society are just floating clouds, just laugh and pass, after all, the society is still relatively sunny, most people live very happily, and joy is still universal.

Child... You always have to believe that there is no such thing as unearned, and if you make mistakes, it doesn't matter, just think about how to make up for it; Bread will be.

Go on happily and bravely, why don't you ask why you go on happily.

Life is still very long, don't look at everything as nothing, as long as we work hard, we will definitely achieve our ideals.

Find out why you chose this path in the first place.