I love my husband too much now, I m too clingy to him, I want to cool down, what to do 5

Can it be the same before and after marriage?,You women are still making trouble getting married.,It's not interesting to find yourself.。。。

The more people wait until they lose it, people will know how to cherish it, or you let him feel that he has lost you first, so that he can come back.

Sticking to your state ...

First of all, it depends on the reason for his coldness, whether he is deliberately alienated or busy with work, if he is busy with work, you should care more about him, instead of blindly sticking, keep a certain distance, and do your own thing

Alas, 30 years in Hedong and 30 years in Hexi.

As long as he doesn't change his mind, anything will be easy.

But don't be too clingy, he'll be annoyed.

Sister, I understand you very well, but you must know that there is a lot of pressure to survive in this society, and the biggest pillar of the family is still men, so men are actually under more pressure on themselves, just getting married is a good time for career development, everyone needs their own space, as his woman, you have to support him. You also know that he is busy with work, change his angle, care more about him, he goes home and you take the initiative to ask him about the situation, if you are not at ease, you can observe the friends around you more sideways, if you are really busy with work, he is a good husband who struggles for the family, a good husband does not need you to stick, he is yours.

Maybe if you leave, he'll start sticking to you again? Listen to me, your own man should believe and support.

Dress yourself up every day... Appear to be in a good mood in front of him ... Go out to watch a movie by yourself.,Bubble bar.,Meet some friends or something.。。。

Expand your circle, and when your mind is not on him, you won't feel the gap between before and after marriage, but remember not to play too much.

It's not good after all.

But if you really love.

No one can do it.

I didn't answer the question of what was right or wrong.

Absolutely, but definitely to know.

Whether this person is right for you.

Whether it is worth cherishing or not.

It's important to know what you really want.

.Think about it.

In the meantime, have a good talk with him. Determine your position.

Think about it and don't let yourself regret it.

If that's the case, you can do it another way.

To love him. Like silently blessing him.

You know that there is still a long way to go, and you should find a more suitable one.

And it's actually basic.

Everybody will.

Go through these. Most of them will have a breakup.

Experienced. Remember the saying.

It is the number of times you fall in love, and the number of breakups minus one.

Look at the creation of the handle. If you say, you.

If you're lucky, you may experience a very romantic and beautiful experience.

The end of the first love, and then you, may be with this.

The first person. Be friends, or keep going, so that you will know how to love and learn to be loved in the future.

If you meet someone who shouldn't be loved, or both of them.

One party doesn't know how to love. The ending is very bad, but after this you must not be slumped, you must know that the road is still very long, and you will meet the right one.

At the same time, I want to tell you that you must cherish what you have and never give up on yourself and the world no matter what.

Know what you want.

I wish you happiness".

Was his marriage arranged? Does he have children? Why does he have feelings for you?

Is his wife incompetent? How long will his relationship with you last? Do you want to marry him or just stay that way?

If you marry this man, how long will your marriage last?

When a woman invests in her feelings for a man, she often only sees his strengths. I just hope you think about it, and if you think you know him well enough and are confident in your relationship and your future life, then you can try. However, if your heart is shaken in the slightest when you read my words, then you should be careful not to do unnecessary things.

Your current relationship may be a storm or a test for his family, but your decision will directly affect the fate of many people, especially children!

You say that you are sane people, so please think about it, and don't repent after you have made a big mistake, I think then you will be in more pain than now.

Let's think about it from another angle, the reason why this man is still sane shows that he still has feelings for his family, he doesn't want to make trouble out of control, he leaves room for himself and you, which means that he doesn't want to lose his family and family. And a person's life in society is not only as simple as love, he also has to take responsibility, no matter how passionate love is, it has become a warm family affection in the trickle of life.

I know you're in pain, but you have to think that it may be painful to leave him now, but it can fade over time, and it minimizes the pain for everyone who might be involved. Just when your relationship is a good memory, at least you have loved, there are people you love, and you are already very happy.

As for your boyfriend, if you don't love him, tell him as soon as possible, I always feel that emotional things can't be deceived, and you can't fool others and yourself. I don't know why, I always feel that no matter how long the false feelings are disguised, one day they will be ** and will be revealed to the world. And feelings can't be disguised.

Finally, I hope you think it over and make an informed choice!

Hope you find your own happiness!

Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

I can't control my feelings, shift my focus, and use time to prove everything.

First of all, you have to think about whether he loves you, if he loves you, then it's not your problem, it's not that you ask how to do it, but that he will divorce and follow you, if he doesn't divorce, then he doesn't love you, you should leave him sensibly, if you don't leave him, only yourself suffer, others can't replace him, he just cheats on you, do you still love a cheat on you, and others don't understand, and they will say a lot of ugly things, why do you have to put yourself in a position of being scolded or discriminated against, Will you be happy in that way, although people can't be selfish, but at least you should think about yourself, and you can't be too selfless.

First of all, bai wants to think that he loves you, if he loves du

Your words, zhi

Then it's not your problem, it's not that you ask what to do, but he will divorce and answer with you, if he doesn't divorce, then it's not love you, you should leave him sensibly, if you don't leave him, only yourself suffer, others can't replace him, he just cheats on you, do you still love a cheat on you, and others don't understand, and they will say a lot of ugly things, why do you have to put yourself in a position of being scolded or discriminated against, then will you be happy, although people can't be selfish, But at least think about yourself, and don't be too self-devoid.

When he starts to think of you and starts to ignore you.

Wait, you don't pay attention to him, and you snub him for a while, let.

version of his experience of being left out of power, so you just pretend that you don't care about him, no matter what he does, it has nothing to do with you, and when he feels that he is being left out, he will take the initiative to find you.

There must be a reason why your boyfriend is hot and cold to you, when he is busy, he will spend less time looking for you, and when he is not busy, he will spend more time looking for you, so you will feel that he is hot and cold to you.

There is also a situation that in fact, he doesn't love you, he only talks to you when no one is playing with him, when he is lonely, he suddenly thinks of you, and he will talk to you, once he has something to do, he won't go to you, and the boys who really love you will not be willing to snub you, only those boys who are not sure will do this.

Because at this time, he will feel a sense of crisis, feel that he is about to lose you, whether as a spare tire or as a couple, he doesn't want to lose you. So if you treat him in his way, you will definitely be obedient to him.

It depends on whether your boyfriend likes it or not.

Hello to you. System.

If he likes you, maybe it's his nature, you talk about it, and he will slowly change if he cares about you.

But if he doesn't like you as much as you think, that is, he doesn't care about you very much, then it's up to you, or you think you have a way to make him like you more, then please try not to give up; Either he has a little bit of a game mentality, then if you think it's worth it, you can bear it yourself; Either he doesn't actually take you to heart, in fact, the ugly thing is that the long pain is better than the short pain......

ps: My boyfriend used to be like this, but now it's good, the process of changing will be very slow, and you have to keep reminding yourself; And you have to change your mentality, don't think about it because the other party is "cold". And, I wish you all happiness

You are also like this to her, first take the initiative to find him, take care of him in every way, let him enjoy the treatment of the emperor, and then spend a period of time.

After he gradually got used to the genus, he suddenly became cold to him, if he called ** to you occasionally, you can not pick up, but not often, you can pick him up ** after just hurriedly say a few words and then find a reason to hang up, he asked you to go out as much as possible, don't go out every time, when you go there you have to be late for more than ten minutes, and when you get there, you will say to him: I'm sorry I'm sorry I delayed a little, I'm sorry to keep you waiting for a long time. . . So he can't scold you even if he wants to, unless he's very cheeky...

When you are with him, you must also pretend to be busy, no matter what you are busy with, you must make him feel that you are very busy and busy, and you have no time to pay attention to him... And so on, and after a few times he couldn't stand it anymore

Use this method to have a flexible and witty head, fickle, to deal with your boyfriend's temper tantrum in advance, remember to overcome rigidity with softness, when he is angry, you will be coquettish with him, apologize softly, and use beauty when necessary...

He's hot, you're hotter than him, he's cold, you're colder than him.

Use the way of others to govern their bodies.

Teach you to avoid falling into the trap of hot and cold boys.

It's not certain who's in the dishes.

There are four reasons why men are hot and cold for you, some don't like you enough, some treat you as a spare tire, some are tired of you, and some are really busy.

Men are hot and cold to you, remember three points, the first point is not to contact him frequently. The second point is don't be cranky. Third, distract yourself and cultivate more hobbies.

Before he gets ready to retreat, then you have to cool down your relationship, no matter what he does.

Hit ** internally, send a message, and don't be moved by it. In the days when he doesn't contact you, you have to work hard, study, and work out. When he calls, don't ask him why it's not good for me for a few days, because it shows that you care about him a lot, and you lose.

Men also have uncomfortable periods and are in an impetuous mood! As his partner, it is your responsibility to share the pressure on his heart! Unspeakable suffering is the real suffering, if you ask him, he may not say, this requires you to warm him with a loving heart and give him a support!

Ask your boyfriend to talk about it, if your boyfriend refuses or even copes with you, it means that he doesn't love you now, at least not so much. Be prepared for a breakup and don't expect too much from him anymore.

It's not that serious, man.

Copying inevitably has times when you are in a bad mood and when you are irritable. Maybe he's the kind of person who doesn't want to bring his unhappiness to others, especially the one you love. At this time, you have to take the initiative to care about him.

You also know that he was so happy when he was good to you. Can't you give it back?

There really is such a person, because I am, I don't want to bring my unhappiness to others, especially my girlfriend, although I don't have a girlfriend now. But when I'm sad and silent, I really want someone to comfort me and give me a little courage and care. How can you try to get to know him in this way?