How long has the first love been painful for everyone, it is the kind of person who has truly loved

Updated on amusement 2024-06-29
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Some may never forget it for the rest of their lives.

    But real life doesn't allow you to do that, so make a good memory!

    Or hide your guilt in the bottom of your heart and be kind to your current and future lovers!

    Although it is painful, let go of what should be put down.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It didn't hurt for long, peacefully separated, and it was still sweet to recall

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First love, give you a lesson in love, don't give up easily.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    My personal opinion on first love is that it will always be just a memory, but pain is indispensable. But when you calm down, you may have a different opinion! Whenever you are reminiscing about your first love, your face will only smile at the beginning.

    That's what I did with my first love.

    Therefore, first love is not painful, it can only be said to be the long-term sweetness in the heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Every first love is just a process of everyone's love!

    It's hurt, it's hurt. In the future, we can cherish each other more.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    First love does have an unshakable position for a person, when you can't forget your first love, don't deliberately think about it, as long as it doesn't have any impact on your life, put the best of this feeling in your heart.

    First love is the first love with oneself, will teach themselves a lot of things, the first experience is unforgettable, so many people can't let go of the first love. However, since two people are not suitable to the point of breaking up, they should accept such an arrangement, don't live in the past or they will only embarrass themselves, and they should try to live a good life now, so that they will be happier for themselves.

    The past should be let pass, even if the first love is good, it has become the past, don't spend extra thoughts on it. When you can't get rid of your first love, don't deliberately want to forget, after all, the other party has taken root in your heart, so it's normal to not forget. Many times the experience is more important than the result, so don't forget about your first love, just treat it with your own normal heart, and don't think too much about right and wrong.

    If two people are not suitable, they will part ways, and since they broke up with their first love, then they should accept this arrangement and not live too selfishly. In many cases, only by learning to see through will we get a different understanding, we should learn to accept the fact of breaking up, and many times only after experiencing failure will we usher in our own happiness.

    If you can't forget your first love, don't deliberately go to each other, I believe that with the change of time, a person's influence will be diluted, don't put too much pressure on yourself. Many times, only by learning to let go will you usher in your true happiness, don't waste time on an impossible person, and learn to love yourself well, so that you can be cherished by others.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you can't forget it, don't forget it, he formed the first half of your life, affected your character in the second half of your life, and has become an indispensable experience in your life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you can't forget, you can go to his place to find him, communicate well with the two of you, see if there is still a chance to get back together, prepare some gifts for him, and try to make an appointment at the place where they meet for the first time.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You can chase each other and redeem each other, so that you can seize the opportunity to be happy, don't let yourself have regrets, you can eat with each other, and you can give each other gifts.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    At this time, change your attitude, try to accept a new life, you can't keep dwelling on the past, you must slowly realize the benefits of the present, and you can slowly forget your first love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    To recognize the reality, never have any more illusions, otherwise it will affect your future feelings and your happiness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    1. When you fall in love for the first time, you often don't consider so many material factors, that is, you like me and I like you. Don't think about what the future holds? The most things I do every day are to eat together in the cafeteria, go home together after school every day, and make an appointment to hang out with everyone, but all relationships will eventually encounter the big problem of being in a different place.

    2. It's not because we don't like it, it's not because we're not serious, but it's precisely because we were too serious and liked each other too much when we first fell in love. Many people have never encountered a relationship that can make them so invested after their first love, not because people are no longer good, but because the proportion of love for many of us has declined.

    3. At the beginning, you could not even listen to the class for this person, and secretly wrote Xiao Zheng's blind note after a class; At the beginning, you can think of this person as the center of gravity of your whole life, holding your phone all day and waiting for that person to reply to your messages;

    Although you have only been together for a long time, you firmly believe that you will definitely marry her in the future and give her a home, but now, you may be too lazy to move when you get off work to eat, and you may be so busy that you forget to reply after seeing the news, not to mention that although some people are with her, they understand from the bottom of your heart that this person is only suitable for love and not for marriage.

    4. When falling in love for the first time, each other's three views and life plans are full of unknowns. As the time together becomes longer, the values and life plans of both parties are easy to grow into each other, and if they can't reach an agreement, it will be difficult for lovers to go on. The original promises could not be realized, but this is not anyone's fault, the promise is sincere at the moment, and the helplessness later is forced by reality.

    5. The first love is very beautiful, but at the same time, there are too many things in it, the expectation of the first love, the freshness of the opposite sex, and the beautiful ideal of the other half. The feelings are warm, and the skills are weak, two people want to go to the end It takes a lot of effort and confidence, and only after shedding tears do they know how to grow and how to love. Not everyone is willing to grow up with you, so some people can only become each other's experience points, and eventually end up breaking up.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on whether your first love makes sense to you! Generally speaking! It's unforgettable!

    Because that's the first time in your life! Maybe I'm different! I forgot my first love!

    I can't even remember what she looked like! You may say that I must have talked about a lot of girlfriends, but then you are wrong, I only talked about it twice, because my first love didn't mean anything to me at all! So I didn't have to memorize it at all, so this is for me!

    As long as it makes sense! Whether it's the first love or not, I think it's unforgettable!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you love her him.

    Learn to love her silently and care for her him.

    Prove it with action.

    Love is not said to be attentive, do you understand that you have to pay with your heart to feel and bear How can true love be so easy to get, if you really want to use your life to protect her He will use your life to prove Tolerance for each other in life, think about the happiness when you were together before when you are in a bad mood, and care more about each other when you are happy and share happy times together. Help each other, understand each other, walking together is fate, walking together is happiness.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because that time was the most ignorant time, and it was also the first time when the love first opened, so it will be more unforgettable, but what we can't forget is only the most sincere self that we once had.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think first love is just about the first person you like.

    Many people think that the first love is unforgettable, not that the other party is good, and how young we were at that time. Sometimes, the simpler the purer.

    Because when the first relationship appears, we want very little, that is, to get the love of the other party, which is the rarest.

    In the subsequent love, more or less as you get older, the change of experience will be mixed with other things.

    Actually, it's not that you can't let go of him, but you can't let go of the obsession in your heart. Why we couldn't be together in the end has become a regret that you often miss. People are always like this, and only after losing do they understand the value of possession.

    First love means to you not only the former lover, but also the lost youth.

    When you miss him, you are nostalgic for the past, nostalgic for you who liked him, and nostalgic for that youthful youth. He is beautiful, and you who like him are even more beautiful, and all this is that time will never be turned back again.

    The cruelest thing in life is that there is only one time, and there is no rehearsal. So first love is like a passing landscape, and it can only be reproduced in the mind. And that ephemeral scenery will be like a frozen picture, forever sealed in the bottom of my heart, becoming a precious memory specimen.

    Maybe we didn't understand a lot of rules before our first love, but first love taught us a lot, taught us how to tolerate and communicate, and taught us how to love others.

    So, for everyone, first love has a very unique factor, whether it is good or bad, but it does not mean how unforgettable it is.

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