Why are people s hearts so ruthless? Do some people become ruthless because they have been hurt?

Not necessarily. Human nature is good, your human nature must be kind, but we can't deny him or even deny this society just by someone else's words, maybe he was in a bad mood at the time, maybe that person is simply a guy who often pays off his debts, just think about things better, many times we ourselves will sit out of some hurtful things and say some hurtful things when we are in a bad mood. I should read more books, learn more about human nature, but this also varies from person to person, some people will see the good side and some people will see the bad side, we have many times we live in our own imagination, and there are many times when we can't tell our own feelings, and we don't know enough about ourselves, hehe, it's a bit of a philosopher's taste, I guess I've been thinking about it a lot lately.

I like your simple thoughts, and I'm interested in finding other ways to talk when I have time.

Ay!!! This society has covered up a lot of human beauty, but people are all over the world one by one, how is this and that human beauty! Some people ask why society is so dirty, and some people say that it is because society does not take a bath!

Ay!!! Sometimes when you think about this social phenomenon, it's hard not to become angry! Love and money have to be equated, family affection and status have to be equated!

And what's real! What are the virtues left over from the older generation??? Some people say that this phenomenon is a minority, hehe!

Is it really less? How can so many people know about it! It's good to be confused, it's good to be confused!

O man! It's hard to get confused! It's hard!

Well, yes, there are some things that are hard to say. The society is very realistic, not to mention what has become of the current society, what is friendship? In the eyes of many people, it is just useless dung, they want money, money!

It doesn't have to be hurt, but it's definitely going through something that makes people change, becoming self-disciplined and knowing what they want.

A person's ruthlessness also comes from self-discipline in himself, in a sense, what kind of life can be lived, from the inner goal, but also from the right to choose life. For example, if you want to have a healthy body, you must reject unhealthy food. If people want to have the initiative to be happy, they will inevitably have requirements for themselves in life, rather than being casual and compromised.

In life, not many people can be ruthless to themselves, some people are loose in their hearts, never work hard, but follow the trend of life to move forward, until their lives encounter a crisis, will slowly understand that it is their own slackness that will make life crisis. Learning to be ruthless is, in essence, the achievement of one's own goals and the thorough implementation of one's dream life.

When a person can begin to refuse to be arranged for by others, in a sense, he begins to grow and awaken to himself, and more deeply understands that happiness is earned by himself, not by compromise and grievance. To be a ruthless person is to be a person who is not aggrieved and does not compromise with oneself in life, learns to reject unreasonable needs, but pursues one's own happy experience in life.

I think it should change slowly, and if it changes overnight, it should be the result of a big blow or trauma, and at that moment, the values and worldview that I have always believed in collapsed.

There is also the influence of friends, which is very important.

For example, in fact, many people are kind at the beginning and don't care too much about the return of what they do, but when you do something, you don't care about fame, fortune, merit and rewards and so on, but one person takes all the credit away, and he says, it's not you who did it, he did it. Or he said, this is actually what he told you to do, would you not want to ask for this back? Originally, you did things only out of your own intentions, but it turned out to be a pursuit of fame and fortune.

Originally, fame and fortune were not important, but as a result, he began to care about fame and fortune very much.

Therefore, the values of the people you come into contact with can easily affect your own values, there is one thing, everyone fights for it, and even beats you up for this thing, don't you want to follow and rob it? What's so good that everyone is grabbing? So you join the army of looting, even though you don't know if it's what you want.

This was originally mine, although I didn't care at first, but if you snatched it, I just desperately wanted to get it back.

By the way, maybe this is why many girls like to make their boyfriends jealous, because it makes their boyfriends feel more precious. But it's cute, hehe).

Then there is the values of the people around you, you think that it is not a big deal to be rich, powerful and powerful, but the people around you look at you with contempt, saying that you have no money, no power and no power, don't you want to fight.

Those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, it is really like this.

First the values change, then the things pursued, the behavior slowly changes, and the behavior will in turn affect your heart, and then it will change.

That's what I thought!

Not necessarily, some people are born to be more ruthless. This depends on the person's personality. But there are also acquired.

Like you said, being brutally washed by others. has been hurt, so the heart will become ruthless. Only a minority.

Basically, people's personalities are still determined by the world.

People's feelings are like this, if they always don't get a response after paying a lot, then this person will slowly put away his heart and is unwilling to open his heart easily. became more ruthless, all because the effort was not reciprocated.

Hello. It must be affected, for example, if a simple and kind person is bullied for a long time, he may choose to give in the first time and give in the second time, but the time it is like this, it is unbearable for anyone. One day he will explode, he will fight back, he will have a psychological shadow, and he will even feel that the whole world is against him, and he will even take the initiative to attack others.

If people have been hurt, they will protect themselves, they are weak and easy to be bullied, and they will not make the same mistake again after experiencing it, and they will think too much, so as to learn a lesson, so that they will not be bullied.

Soft-hearted to ruthless, have you experienced anything?

Human nature is good, at the beginning of choosing you will trust you unconditionally, knowing that after being disappointed in you, and then despairing, they will no longer believe in you, and they will be cruel to you, so you must be honest with people, and don't deceive if you are not honest.

Is it against the same person or something to become ruthless? It's not a generalization, for example, murderers also have filial sons! If it is for the same person to become ruthless, it means that this person has disappointed him and caused him to give up his kindness to this person, so it is still a matter of angle!

Needless to say, of course, I have experienced being hurt by a ruthless person.

I don't know, maybe she's willing to be ruthless.

<> "Be ruthless and become a very powerful person."

1. Spend countless times more time on improving yourself than others. Answer.

2, others are chasing dramas, you are learning.

3. Others are playing games, and you are accumulating life experience.

4. Work hard quietly to surpass your peers.

5. Be ruthless.

6. Strive to become a very powerful person.

7. It is so powerful that one day you can leave the people and circles you don't like at any time.

8. When you work hard for the future.

9. Those people and landscapes that you can't see.

10. Caution will appear in your life.