Why are gentle and good tempered girls not cherished?

Let's put it this way, in fact, this is not just for such girls, it can be said that it is a common disease of people, not only for people, but also for things and things.

For example, some people are born with a very superior family condition, so they take everything they enjoy for granted, even if they have chicken, duck and fish every day, they will not feel satisfied, and they have to eat some abalone and lobster to feel the taste.

Relatively, people are similar.

If a girl has a good temper and is used to being gentle, in the eyes of the other party, she feels accustomed to it, and after a long time, she naturally can't talk about how to cherish it.

In fact, the most important thing in being a man is to maintain his independence, be principled, and don't accommodate in order to please the other party, which is not good.

Just like a good-tempered person, it is okay to occasionally express your opinion because of some legitimate things, and it is okay to raise objections, but it will make the other party value you more. That's pretty much it.

When I was in love, I often told myself that I must be a good-tempered person, preferably gentle like Lin Daiyu, so that I can get the love of men. can look at the people around you, those gentle and good-tempered women, none of them are tortured in love. Even if they can endure it and do it, they will never get the hearts of men.

On the contrary, those women who have a bad temper and refuse to be wronged, they are all showing off their power in love and are free. Although it sometimes feels unfair, this is the reality, and men just like it. Therefore, in love, women must not be the ones with good tempers, because most of the good-tempered women are difficult to be cherished by men.

We often say that it is not easy to forgive a person who makes a mistake in love, no matter what mistake he makes, he should not be forgiven. Because there is another one, there is another two and three. But good-tempered women don't understand this truth.

They always forgive men very easily, and make men feel that the cost of making mistakes is not so big, and the big deal is to say a few good words. But you know what? It is because you forgive so easily that men will become unscrupulous, and they will not cherish you, don't be stupid and don't understand.

Hello dear, gentle and good-tempered girls are relatively easy to meet scumbags, girls with this kind of character tend to devote themselves to this relationship, but the other party is just taking advantage of this character, feeling that your gentleness, good temper, no matter what, will not be angry, so again and again, do some excessive things.

In the senses, it will give the boy a kind of anyway, if you have a good temper and make you angry, just say a few words to soften it, and even some girls don't need boys to say good things, just digest themselves, which also causes individual gentle and good-tempered girls to not be cherished.

No, everyone has their own cherished people or things, he doesn't cherish it means that he doesn't deserve it, the world is so big, don't wronged yourself with so many choices.

Without that, you may not have met the right person.

The girl's personality is too gentle, okay.

Mild, cowardly, the difference between these two words is huge. In my eyes, mildness is temperament, attitude, and verbal behavior, but it is by no means weakness, cowardice, personality, or bottom line.

Therefore, I think that mildness is to have an independent personality.

On the basis of the firm and perfect three views, express one's own views in a state of water infiltration, such a temperament and attitude.

Obviously, the state of the respondent is not mild, and looking at the answers, most people think that mildness is an advantage. So, please don't flaunt yourself with gentleness and hide your timidity, it's not good.

I've always been a gentle person, and I almost perfectly possess the temperament of a typical Jiangnan girl. But I have something special, I am free and open-minded, but also docile and introverted; I can be cynical and lively, I can talk and laugh freely, and I can be silent and quiet alone.

You can be soft and coquettish, praise other girls and elders in a special way, be able to analyze events and history maturely and rationally, and you can also fight against injustice and defend others with a posture of inviolation, combining rigidity and softness.

I have a good heart, I can be brave to do whatever I think is right, brave to fight for what I pursue, I can also reject anything I don't want to do in a gentle way, and I can infiltrate and resolve potential contradictions and conflicts in some occasions and situations with the attitude of water.

Gentle, good-tempered girls are generally easier to get along with. But sometimes he is regarded as an honest person.

Although I used to have a lot of friends, we had a very good time with each other. But once I grew up, it changed, and the relationship faded. Even if it fades, and together, you become the submissive person.

You always go along with his choice and dare not object, for fear that others will be angry. When you're playing with others, they're there, and you're talking about it, but you're just looking down and playing on your phone. Sometimes it forgets you.

The worst thing is that your family will think the same way, they will always say that you are sensible. And verbally always say that you can make a mess and understand something, you are sensible, but what can you get? The good stuff is theirs.

The Bu Qi people of this world are like this, bullying good-tempered people. Always asks you for this, asks for that, but you don't dare to say anything to resist. I'm afraid that others will no longer pay attention to you, but what's the use of being so tired of living?

So no one dares to be gentle anymore, as if everyone is the same. Bullying the soft and fearing the hard.

One situation is that you go too far and touch her bottom line, and she can't bear to lose her temper. The other situation is that she feels that she has a good relationship with you, and even if she loses her temper with you, you will not really be angry with her.

If this male girlfriend has a good relationship with you, and there is no other relationship, then you should honestly make it clear to the other party, saying that you have a good relationship with your male girlfriend, it is the kind of relationship between iron buddies, there is no other relationship, so that your other half does not have to worry, if your other half can accept it, then you will be happy together, if your other half can not accept it, then you can only make a choice, after all, fish and bear's paws are not available, and male girlfriends themselves are not a very normal thing.

Or if you're determined to fall in love, you should keep your distance from your boyfriend. I think a normal person can't have a girlfriend of the opposite sex, after all, a girlfriend is the kind of person who can understand your heart in my heart, whether it is a boy or a girl, he should not be allowed to have other girlfriends of the opposite sex, and it is very normal for your other half to care, it depends on who you care about, if you care about your male girlfriend, then you abandon your partner, if you care about your partner, then you stay away from your male girlfriend, if your male girlfriend is more aware of current affairs, Then he will also take the initiative to stay away from you.

I once listened to a class about male and female girlfriends in a college class, and one of the teachers expressed his own opinion, he thinks that male and female girlfriends are only people who have ghosts in their hearts, generally speaking, these girlfriends are her spare tire, a normal person will not develop a lot of male and female girlfriends, not to mention that the things exchanged between boys and girls are different, and the only thing that can be said is the spare tire.

So when you are in love, you must pay attention to each other's male or female girlfriends, if you find anything wrong with the two of them, then I advise you to break up as soon as possible, sooner or later it will be green.

If it's not that the boy has done something really excessive, it's that the girl has special feelings for the boy in her mind, so she will be able to tolerate others, but lose her temper with the boy without concealing it. In layman's terms, it means having a good impression of a boy and liking him.

Men save their best temper for the people they love the most, while women save their worst tempers for the people they love the most.

Either it means that she cares about you, and if a girl doesn't care about you, she can ignore you, so why should she lose her temper with you.

No matter how good-tempered a person is, he will have a temper when he encounters strange things. It's normal.

This shows that she doesn't like you.

Whether a man cherishes this woman or not, he has little to do with this woman's temper. The main thing is to see if the man likes the woman, and if he likes the woman, he will cherish the woman. The woman he likes is likely to be a spicy woman, but this does not mean that all spicy women and men cherish it.

Then you can figure out what's going on.

On the contrary, there are women who are gentle and understanding, but she is with a man who doesn't like her, so how can this man cherish her? Then disliking him means that you have no feelings, it's not that you are gentle and understanding, he doesn't like it, it's that he doesn't like your type. Your aura is not in line with him, so he doesn't cherish you at this time, you are very easy to do, you can leave him, you have to be with him.

People don't like you, and you're still with him, isn't it difficult for a strong man? It's your one-sided love for others, so that's not right for you.