Why do people with good tempers find them boring?

Because they think that if the other person has a good temper, even if you play some games or something with him, he will respond to you very flatly, so they feel very boring.

Maybe it's because people who think they have a good temper probably don't know how to joke and don't pick up memes, so there's nothing interesting about it.

This kind of person is liked by everyone, just like the sun in winter, the cool breeze in summer, the fruits in autumn, and the flowers in spring.

No matter how you don't get angry, you can say anything, you don't speak well, you do things reasonably, and you always smile when you treat people.

He has his story, he has his thoughts, as Lao Tzu said, <> abyss is like the sea.

The abyss is like the sea, and it is like being afraid of its neighbors.

Even if you lose your temper with him, he'll take it, and it makes you feel like you're punching cotton.

Inner peace will not be affected.

The quality of a person's temper is related to a person's character, and a person's character is related to a person's virtue, and virtue cannot be pretended, and virtue must be cultivated bit by bit.

Grumpy people are generally more impulsive people, in the face of many things often only rely on their own perceptual understanding to deal with problems, this is very bad, if when dealing with problems do not be so impulsive and rational look at the problem then the temper will be much better.

Grumpy people will often talk and act aggressively, which not only gives a bad impression to others, but also encourages your short temper while others tolerate you.

Grumpy people usually lack self-control, and self-control is actually very easy to exercise, when you are doing something that you find very interesting, if you stop doing it and there is nothing to lose except for making you feel unpleasant, force yourself to stop immediately and not do it.

How can I get rid of my bad temper?

First and foremost, it is important to have a good understanding of the dangers of a bad temper. In our social life, we always have to contact and interact with other people, hoping to get the favor, friendship, appreciation, and cooperation of others (of course, not everyone), otherwise, we will feel lonely, lonely, lifeless, and unable to move an inch. People's behavior is regulated and controlled by consciousness, and when we understand the harm of bad temper, we can generate a demand from our hearts to change our bad temper.

Second, it is necessary to strengthen ideological cultivation. Only when we always think of others in our hearts and respect the interests and needs of others will we be warm, considerate and loving to others. Only by always putting the interests of the collective in the first place can we not be rash and stubborn, and can we be calm and think twice when encountering problems.

Finally, you must have determination and perseverance to change your bad temper, and if you can't remember it today, just be cautious, and after two days, you will still be the same. With determination and perseverance, you will definitely get rid of your bad temper.

<> "People with a good personality are not temperless, but will lose their temper".

You can be good-tempered, but you can't be temperless.

Yang Jiang once said in "Walking to the Edge of Life": Sometimes, if you are an honest and quiet person who has no quarrel with the world, people will use you and bully you; If you tolerate it generously, others will infringe on you and harm you. The root of human nature lies in this, the easier you are to talk, the less people will take you seriously.

At the right time, show your bad side, and the world can be kind to you. In interpersonal interactions, being angry is not necessarily a bad thing, but not being angry is certainly not a good thing.

It's instinct to lose your temper, and it's your ability to lose your temper.

Many people have misconceptions about tantrums, thinking that tantrums = bad temper, angry = unreasonable. This is not the case. Tantrums are just to express emotions and needs in an appropriate way.

The quarrel is also an opportunity for in-depth communication, and after reconciliation, the two can deepen the bond by reviewing and clarifying their respective boundaries and attitudes. Quarrels are actually not terrible, what is terrible is a quarrel without a bottom line.

How to quarrel to be effective?

1. Make demands intuitively, and don't shift the focus of anger to suppressing others, rather than expressing your own inner needs.

2. Accurately state the facts, and its format is: "When you do x in the y situation, I feel z." This is more conducive to the other party to make targeted solutions.

3. Learn to review and summarize, and after the anger subsides, the two sides should conduct a review and analysis of the exposed problems, clarify their respective bottom lines, and reach a consensus for harmonious coexistence in the future.

Because people have their own aspirations, of course, the personality is not the same, but a person's belief determines the light and darkness of life, on the road of life, as long as the heart is not pessimistic, it is not the twilight of life, use the vitality of life, walk on the journey under your feet, walk in time, is the master of life, as for what wind and rain to encounter, with it cold, with me at ease.

Genetically determined, in addition, everybody is going to have a bad temper for some people and bad for some people, and if it's for everyone, then you don't have to worry about it, it's not your problem.

People with temper are self-righteous people, cattle people, money is people's guts, people without money are often temperless, lack of confidence.