When people are poor, why do relatives and friends avoid you?

As the saying goes, there are no ugly women, only lazy women, similar to this sentence, Guo Degang has a saying, there is no one who gets up early to ask for food, because if he can get up early, he will not be reduced to asking for food.

A person becomes poor, which is divided into several situations: if you lose money in business, and the funds cannot be opened, the company collapses and owes a lot of money, and there are many in real life at this time. This is the kind of thing that people in the early stage of entrepreneurship most often encounter, which will not only question their entrepreneurial path, but also a test for their relatives and friends.

Because there are some so-called good friends and good buddies, who call you brothers and sisters when you are glorious, and walk as fellow travelers when you are down, this kind of person is not worthy of deep friendship at all.

After experiencing pennilessness, if you can get up and start over, this kind of person is easy to make a comeback, and those who have helped you when you are down will be more cherished than ordinary relatives and friends.

Of course, there are some people who have stubbornly lived their lives very badly, step by step towards the abyss, not only becoming poor, but also losing their spirit and vitality, this kind of people can't withstand the pressure and blows of life, and they will slump, not only will the times be abandoned, but even relatives, friends and even their own relatives will look down on them.

Life, there is no smooth sailing, only by withstanding the wind and rain, polishing and carving, can you live a wonderful life.

Because you are poor, they can't see hope in you, it's unprofitable, if you deal with you, you can only suffer, human nature is like this, no one wants to suffer, if you are rich, relatives and friends will take the initiative to contact you, because you are valuable, and they can get what they want from you in the future.

Why do relatives and friends avoid you when you are poor, in fact, the meaning of this sentence is that when you are poor, your relatives and friends are afraid that you will ask them to borrow money. So I'm trying to avoid you. And I'm afraid that once you lend you money, you won't be able to pay it back.

There's a saying that's very good. The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor are in the downtown and no one asks.

In fact, it can be summed up in one sentence, "no one asks about the poor in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains", adults are very realistic, there is a rich person around him who can't wait to get close to the relationship, and there is a poor person around him who is far away, afraid of borrowing money from himself.

This is a real society, and the feelings between people are getting weaker and weaker. Family affection is worthless in the face of interests. So, be sure to improve and strengthen yourself, one day you will be strong, so that they can't climb high!

Because you are poor, they feel that you have nothing to help them, there is no interest to be earned, so they will not interact, this society is so realistic.

Because people are poor and cannot help their relatives financially or otherwise, or still need their help, if they help and be grateful, they are afraid that they will be poor and do not know how to be grateful, and they will need help if there is something.

Because I am afraid that you will borrow money, and I am even more afraid that you will not have the money to repay after borrowing money, and then you will feel that having relatives like you will have no face and will not be able to help much.

Rich in the mountains, there are distant relatives in the city, and no one asks, so if people are poor, relatives and friends avoid you for fear that you will ask them to borrow money.

In fact, it is very understandable, because you are poor, they can't see hope in you, they are unprofitable, and if they deal with you, they can only suffer.

When people are poor, why do relatives and friends avoid you? If you have money, your relatives and friends will revolve around you, and if you have no money, they are afraid that you will borrow money from them, and you will not pay it back after borrowing.

I think people nowadays are very realistic, after people are poor, relatives and friends will stay away from you. As the saying goes, no one asks if you are poor in the downtown area, but you have distant relatives in the mountains when you are rich.

Because people nowadays are more realistic.

If people don't have good economic conditions, then whether it's friends or relatives, they will definitely keep a certain distance from you, because others are afraid that you will get into trouble.

Because real life is cruel, you are poor, and your relatives and friends are afraid that you will ask them to borrow money, so they all avoid you.

Because they are all you to borrow money, after all, no one has money or land to spend, they have to raise a large family, isn't the old saying that the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor are in the downtown and no one asks.

Relatives hide because they are not close, and friends hide because they are not iron.

It's not like that, it should be said that if you don't work hard to make money, you and your family will live a better life, and even your relatives will look down on you.

When people are poor, why do relatives and friends avoid you?

As the saying goes: the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor have no one to ask in the downtown area. This meaning is expressed very profoundly.

1. Relatives are afraid that you will borrow money.

Even if you don't plan to borrow money, your relatives who are richer than you will think that you plan to borrow money, although you don't open your mouth to borrow money at the moment, it is not ruled out that you are paving the way for borrowing money one day.

Relatives who are richer than you will draw conclusions and mistakenly think that you have no intentions, and when you are poor, your relatives will put yourself in the shoes of people who have not left, and the tea will be cool.

The poorer you are, the more afraid your relatives are of being clinged to you, since you have no value for your relatives to win over or cling, your relatives will not count on you, whether you try to get your relatives to contribute money or try to get your relatives to contribute will become wishful thinking.

Second, relatives will look down on you.

When people are poor, unless they struggle to be a person, they will be testing their human nature when they go to relatives, and after the test, they will realize that even the deep human nature of relatives cannot withstand the test, and the greater the hope for the humanity of relatives, the greater the disappointment will be in the end.

If your relatives know your family background, income or savings, and classify you as poor relatives, when you go to your relatives, while showing reluctance to receive you, your relatives will either show off to you, or will ridicule you in a cynical way, through the comparison of all aspects, so that you have self-knowledge, and in the future, you will move less or not at all, and you will not have the most basic politeness and no minimum respect for you, and what you say will contain great truth, and you will still be regarded as a deaf ear by relatives who look down on you. Walking around with relatives who look down on you will go through the heat and coldness of the world, and people will realize the sophistication of human feelings when they are poor: the right to speak is the same as not.

3. Relatives don't want you to do well.

Don't expect relatives to pull you along, relatives are at best hypocritical and show care, listen to you say a variety of family ugliness, behind the scenes will relish, so that the variety of family ugliness related to you will not spread farthest, only farther.

Relatives will either stand by in the face of your poverty or will face your poverty, relatives will both dislike you and gloat, relatives can let people know less about your kinship, less let people know about your kinship, as if being a relative with you is either a shame or a bargain.

There are many reasons for this problem, but the main reason is that you don't help them at all, so they stay away from you.

But it's also good, it can also let you see who is the best person for you, and it will also help you make better judgments in the future.

In fact, there are some people around everyone who talk to you all day long, compliment you, and leave you far away when you are not beautiful one day, but these people are not enough to shake you.

What really shakes you is to be sincere to your friends and buddies.

Once you needed money, real friends don't talk nonsense, just take out the only money and transfer it directly to you. You're beautiful, you forget your friend's money, and you don't help your friend when he needs money, stay away from this friend.

If you don't listen to your friends' advice to you, you still do your own thing, and you finally lose your former stammer, and you lose your friends who once treated you sincerely.

You have never learned to be grateful, you have been asking for it, trust between people is like a credit card, you keep overdrawing will eventually have a day when the limit is used up, and when that day you don't have this friend, it's not that the friend is far away from you but you have exhausted the trust of your friend.

The real people around me, a friend of mine, Fa Xiaoer: Once when he needed money, we transferred money to him regardless of the reason, and persuaded him to do his job, but the people were just right, and there was no one in their eyes at all, so they ignored it.

Later, he left all the reasons for borrowing money, and everyone was never grateful for the help he gave him, just because he was not satisfied with one thing, he held a grudge, and he said: one yard to one yard. So such a person, are we far away from him?

This is because your friends and relatives value profits, because they are too poor and they are unprofitable, so they will stay away from you, and it is good for such people to leave, after all, they do not treat you sincerely.

The ancients said well, the poor in the downtown no one asks, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. This sentence fully describes the essence of human nature, family affection is just based on material foundations, when you have nothing, relatives are afraid that you will ask him to borrow money or want to take advantage of him, so naturally the farther away from you, the safer.

When people are down, most people will stay away from you, because others don't believe that you can make a comeback one day, and they are afraid that you will ask him to borrow money! Even if you help you with material things or money, you can't afford it. It's better to help you enjoy it yourself. I'm afraid of bad luck!

Why are people who have no relatives and friends poor! Things are gathered by like, and people are grouped. A person makes friends in any situation.

If the poor make friends with the poor, they will lose the motivation and direction to struggle. The second type of people who can't afford to pay are people with negative energy. When a person is poor, he can lose everything, but he cannot lose his ambition.

That's why he's poor, and his ambition isn't poor.

What poor friends and relatives will leave you, I think what he said is more realistic, you have no money, what you say must be said by others just don't need your help? If it's naturally uncomfortable, it will leave you, that is, the most to talk, that is, to deal with, no, no, no.

Because you can't bring them benefits, wake up, adults are very real.

There is nothing wrong with this sentence, it is just like 'the rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor no one asks in the downtown area', for all the so-called relatives, you have no value, no money, no official position, then you are not a relative, if you have all of the above rest assured, your relatives will be a lot, accept the reality in these realities, and slowly everyone will grow up, if you feel that my comments are helpful to you, welcome to like, welcome.

Because others make friends with you, sometimes they also need your help, and when you are not doing well, you may only ask them for help, and cannot help them, so they will choose to leave you at this time!

Because I don't have the ability to change myself, because I am willing to fall so much that I don't want to be motivated, because life is always moving forward, and I have been stepping on the ground, then my relatives and friends will be farther and farther away from me.

Because the circle of the poor is too small, relatives and friends are all different because the poor are too poor.

Relatives are afraid that you are rich, and friends are afraid that you are poor.

The so-called relatives are afraid that you are rich, because relatives are generally based on family contacts, if someone gets rich first, it is possible to be estranged because of the rich, and the experience of most cases makes many people feel a sense of alienation for the rich, and it is understandable to be afraid of losing your family affection. The reason why friends are afraid that you are poor is a little different from that of relatives, because of how many friends are friends with alcohol and meat, interests come first, and you can get benefits by making rich friends, and you will export benefits when you make poor friends. But this is considered on the negative side, and people are now more rational in their interactions, and this sentence is not necessarily true.

At that time, I was also young, and I didn't know much about the world. During a small talk, I asked him why he didn't lend money to others. He said:

I have too many relatives and friends, seven aunts, eight aunts or something. Zhang San borrowed 10,000 from me, I borrowed it, and Li Si borrowed 8,000 from me, what should I do? To borrow or not to borrow?

After borrowing it for a few days, I can borrow another Wang Wu for 20,000 yuan. If you don't borrow Li Si, you will definitely be angry, why does Zhang San borrow 10,000 from you, and I can't borrow 8,000 from you. What's wrong with Zhang Sanbi?

The same goes for Zhang.

Three, Li Si, you have borrowed it, then Wang Wu also has to be angry. In terms of family affection, I am not as good as them? What's the difference? Right? So in order not to have such troubles, simply let no one borrow it. Without the beginning of borrowing money, there is no annoying ending.

Between people, including between relatives and relatives, it is fundamentally caused by weak human affection, and it is also caused by society. Because the other party doesn't want to mind other people's affairs at all, there is a precedent for this. If you borrow money to help others, you may end up in a financial lawsuit with the other party in order to collect debts.

The old ** passed down the saying:Borrow three instead of two, and save the emergency but not the poor.

The three borrowings are: money for life-saving, money for children's schooling, and money for ceremonial events, which can be borrowed. The two that do not borrow are:

Those who have no credibility do not borrow. Those who make mistakes, do not borrow. In addition, although there are various objective reasons why the poor are poor, the deep-rooted ideological reasons cannot be ignored.

For most poor people, it is not a pull that can help, but if you pull a lot and keep pulling, everyone should know that there is a saying: help the urgent not help the poor. What's more, in the adult world, everything can only be relied on by yourself.

Sometimes, it's not that rich people don't want to pull their poor relatives, but after the test of practice, they really can't pull it up, and they can't pull it again.

Some people have a bad life, but for some reason they are always used to resenting others, complaining that others don't help them, and they like to arrange the wrongs of rich people, but they never want to find reasons from themselves. Instead of resenting others, it is better to find your own reasons, why don't people help you, the same people, why do you have to count on others to help you when other people's lives are good?