My husband always said, don t ask me everything, just decide for yourself

Your husband wants you to be independent, there are some things you can make your own decisions, discuss big things together, and give each other an independent private space that is more conducive to two people getting along.

When we fall in love, in fact, we will consider each other's opinions, and when we encounter something that we can't handle, we will also ask that half, so if after getting married, our husband has to ask our opinion no matter what we do, what should we do?

First of all, we have to correct our attitude, because when he asks us for our opinion, it is actually because he trusts us, and he thinks that we can help him solve it, not that he wants to bother us. So at this time, we just need to do our best to help him solve these problems. And when he asks us for our opinion on whatever he does, it also means that he is more dependent on what we think is our opinion, or that our opinion is useful to him.

This actually shows our own importance, so I don't think it's necessary to take this matter too seriously. On the contrary, it can be seen from another aspect, my husband trusts us, because he relies on us, so he is like this.

If we really think that he asks us more often, or that it bothers us, then we can just tell him, in fact, at this time we don't need to give a deep opinion, but it is very likely, just ask us a question of yes, then we just need to give him a little advice. When he asks questions, if we are busy, we also need to take care of his emotions, after all, it is very important for two people to take care of each other in a relationship.

Hello for your question, I personally feel that my husband asks your opinion on what to do, which shows the importance of you in his heart, and then you trust you very much in his heart all your views and recognition of doing things, this is the basis for a good marriage, you don't have to feel bad, for feelings, it is a good thing, and when a person doesn't ask you anything, you are not important in his heart.

I think you should take the initiative to let him think and not give his own opinion. Encourage him to make decisions, and if he makes mistakes, be as tolerant as possible, and give him the confidence to face difficulties on his own.

You can tell your husband that there are some things that do not need to ask your opinion, let him make his own ideas, exercise him more, sometimes when he asks your opinion, you don't give him advice, let him learn to make decisions on his own.

No matter what you ask your husband, your husband is "you look at it yourself" My husband said this, it may be that you are very capable in all aspects, your husband believes in you very much, and you can do everything well. So, you don't have to ask him, you can do whatever you want. As a hostess, you play a leading role in the house and it is your husband's respect for you.

Of course, some people may say that it is the husband who is too lazy and doesn't want to care about anything, and pushes all the things that are hindered on the woman. There are also cases of this kind of lead swimming on land. But I still hope that your husband is the first case.

Summary. Hello, your husband doesn't care about you, then a husband like you doesn't care about you at all, he only cares about himself. Such a husband, you should force him appropriately, for example, you want to break up with him and see how he reacts.

If there is really no reaction, it means that your husband doesn't love you anymore, and if he doesn't love you, then there is no point in such a relationship, and it can be divorced.

Hello, your husband doesn't care about you, then a husband like you doesn't care about you at all, he only cares about himself. For example, if you want to break up with him, you should see how he reacts. If there is really no reaction, it means that your husband doesn't love you anymore, and if he doesn't love you, then there is no point in such a relationship, and it can be divorced.

After the quarrel in June, he returned to me and he blocked me financially Half of my salary and left half of it We are happy with two children, he doesn't care about the eldest 9 years old The younger one was just 11 months old last year.

Then your husband can't do this. That Spring Oak is his own child, how can he not ask? It's likely that he wants to break with you by acting like this.

It's been a stalemate for more than half a year, the Mid-Autumn Festival, and the child's birthday, and there is no reaction, and he also filed for divorce from me.

Dear, then your husband must be completely disappointed now, and he doesn't want to live with you anymore. He wants to start a new life.

I apologize to him Anything I say, any message I send, any ** I call, I don't answer, just copy a sentence, I have nothing to say to you, and when I go home, I will leave Zen Spring Wedding Tong Fiber.

You've been separated for a long time now, and he's completely dead set on it, and he doesn't want it any longer.

You have to know that you are wrong, and then tell him.

I've already told him.

But he still didn't respond.

Maybe he didn't see the pro, or he didn't want to reply.

Summary. You can recall whether there was a quarrel or conflict before, and you can definitely find the reason.

I asked my husband why he did this to me, and he didn't even want to say anything to me, and he didn't say anything when asked, so I asked me to think about it myself.

You can recall whether there was a quarrel or conflict before, and you can definitely find the reason.

I couldn't find the reason, I asked him, and he didn't say, saying that I was naïve.

Haven't you had a fight before?

Or did the husband say anything complaining.

He didn't want to talk to me, he didn't treat me like before, he complained that I didn't do anything, I had to invite dinner, I didn't cook, I asked him why he did this to me, he said that I was so naïve to ask this question, let me think about it myself, he just didn't say.

Part of the reason for his complaints! To complain is to be dissatisfied.

How long have you been married and do you have children?

I just got married for a long time, I treated me like this before I got married, and now I'm five months pregnant, because I don't know how to cook?

This needs to be found according to what has happened in your interactions in the past, such as quarrels, complaints, which are actually caused by certain things.

Last night's complaints, of course, were part of it.

But I think you're pregnant, so he should take care of you more.

Is it not love? I quarreled with him before, he said that I was not satisfied with what he did, and he chatted the same later, and then he also said that I didn't reply to messages and lost my temper, is he because he doesn't love?

Is this true, and have you communicated about it? If you keep doing this without communicating and not working it out, it will damage your intimacy.

He didn't reply to my messages, I must be angry if I didn't answer **, I asked him why he didn't answer ** and didn't reply to messages, I wanted to talk to him, he always felt that he didn't want to talk to me, asked him why he didn't say this to me, asked many times, he didn't say, just said that I asked this question so naïve, at least let me know, what is the reason.

There is no problem with being angry, there is a problem with the way it is expressed. Usually we are accustomed to dealing with it in the form of accusations and complaints, which is difficult for others to accept. After a long time, there will be a gap.

They quarreled at first, but then they didn't bother to quarrel.

Is this what happened to me? Later, I also sent a message to quarrel with him, he didn't want to reply, chatted with him last night, he also said that he didn't want to quarrel with me, and he didn't want to quarrel with me, he was too lazy to quarrel with me, it was boring, didn't he love it.

It's not to the point of not loving, but if it goes on like this, there will be less and less love.

I don't bother to make noise, because I feel that every time I do this, I can't solve the problem. There's no point in arguing.

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