My husband won t come home to live, should I talk to his parents?

Hello landlord! First of all, please listen to me calmly, don't tell his parents about it for the time being, because you haven't figured out what the situation is, my opinion is, you call ** to your husband first, or you know that he is at work **, you go to him, first find out the situation, why did he not go home, listen to me, you can rest assured that there is nothing wrong, if there is another hidden situation, you will not be too late to call ** to his parents?

It's better to find the right cause than to ask someone for help.

After getting married, the husband is not at home, according to the convention, he should still be in the man's house, in order to set up a door, but of course it is good to go back to his parents' house occasionally, as long as he communicates and discusses with his husband, he will be very happy!

After getting married, the husband is not at home, and it depends on the situation whether it is good to go back to his parents' house to live.

If you are an only child, you can go back to your parents' house. This will allow you to spend more time with your parents. And with your parents, you and your parents can take care of each other.

If you go back to live with your parents, it may make your brother and daughter-in-law have opinions about you, which will also make it more difficult for your parents, and it will affect the relationship between you and your brother and daughter-in-law, and it will also affect the relationship between your parents and your brother and daughter-in-law.

People must deal with all kinds of relationships well in this society, and only when you deal with all kinds of relationships can you make yourself happy.

To handle interpersonal relationships well, pay attention to the following:

1. Learn to respect others. In this way, a person who can be respected by others and will respect others will not lack friends around him, and his interpersonal relationships will not be bad.

2 The more you learn to be tolerant and tolerant of others, the more you should be tolerant of others when they make mistakes. Don't always hold others accountable for inconsequential mistakes, so that someone will make friends with you.

3 Be honest, don't cheat on your friends, and be loyal to your friends, only in this way can you win their loyalty to you.

4. Don't harm others and establish yourself, people have a certain degree of interest relationship between people, and if you want to deal with interpersonal relationships, you can't do that kind of thing that harms others and benefits yourself.

If you do the above, then you will have a very good interpersonal relationship.

After getting married, when your husband is not at home, you can go back to your parents' house to live. As long as your mother's family has no opinion.

If you live at home alone, it is better to go back to your parents' house, first, to see your parents, and secondly, to be accompanied by someone, and you will not be lonely.

It's up to you to do that? If your husband is not at home and goes back to live at her parents' house, there is nothing, but the neighbors may think that you have a problem, if you don't mind, it doesn't matter.

This should be nothing, but you should communicate with your husband, you can go home occasionally to live, but it is not suitable for long-term living in your mother's house, after all, you are married, you should consider and scruple about all aspects of the family.

It's nice and easy to take care of your family. Some people are talkative, though.

This problem: If the husband is not at home, he can go to his mother's house, because it is very lively in the mother's family, and he will go home when the husband comes back, which is very good.

I think it's okay to live alone at all, at least there are relatives at home.

Theoretically, yes, but it depends on reality.

Yes! My husband isn't here!

After getting married, if my husband is not at home, I think it's okay to go back to my parents' house if my husband is not at home after marriage.

It's nothing, it's okay to go back to my parents' house and see my parents.

This is a nuclear question from the reader.

Mine: Of course, I am on the same page with my husband.

One of the prerequisites for harmony between husband and wife is that they should not interfere with each other's housework.

As a son, his parents are reluctant to go back, which shows that he is very dissatisfied with his parents.

This dissatisfaction does not take a day or two to form, but after years of accumulation, it finally erupts.

Parents are human beings, and if they are human beings, they can't be absolutely fair, and they will always be a little favoritism.

Some parents are smarter, good at covering up, and do it in the dark, while some parents take partiality in the light and take it for granted.

For these more "excessive" parents, appropriate resistance can also serve as a reminder.

My parents were patriarchal and left all their savings and the house to my brother.

My brother was working in another place and had no way to take care of them, so my parents lived with me.

They eat mine, use mine, and save their retirement wages for their sons and grandchildren.

My parents took it for granted that they didn't give me living expenses because they helped me with the housework.

I told them very clearly that I don't need you to help me with the housework, please go back.

Seeing that my attitude was so tough, my mother changed her mind and said, "We live here because of the light of our daughter and son-in-law." ”

In fact, I don't have to drive them away, I just want to fight for this breath, I feel too aggrieved, why I only give, but I don't get, in the end I don't even hear a good word.

During the whole process, my husband only said one sentence: "Your family's affairs are up to you to decide, and I support all your decisions".

Listening to his words, I felt very comfortable. I could feel that he understood me, he could understand my feelings, and he knew why I was so angry.

Someone understands you, which is a kind of luck, but also a kind of happiness. Sennai.

If he had told me at the time, 'How can you talk to your own parents like that?' I would have been angry and quarreling with him.

Therefore, when the husband (wife) has a conflict with his parents, he chooses to take a unified position with the husband (wife).

They are a family, no matter how fierce and unhappy they are now, blood is thicker than water, one day it will be fine, there is no need for you to persuade at all, if it has not been good, it means that both parties have not yet wanted to open, even if you try your best to persuade it, you may still hurt the feelings of the husband and wife, it is not worth it.

He should be advised. Your husband said that he would not go back to his parents' house in the future, but it was only a temporary pleasure.

My old chain disturbance father-in-law doesn't like to associate with his parents very much, and my mother-in-law always sues me. At most, my husband just asked me to talk to my mother-in-law about nothing. Sometimes I think that this kind of relationship between their family is very strange, not like the Peng Sun Dan family.

Later, I carefully analyzed it, and I felt that there was something wrong with the way my parents-in-law educated their children, they didn't like to affirm and encourage their children, and when they talked about their children, they were all negative and blowing, and they saw the shortcomings of their own children, and there were no advantages at all. That's why children don't like to get along with them.

There is no need to jump to conclusions so early. It's okay not to publish anything.

Summary. [Eat Whale] [Eat Whale] [Eat Whale] [Eat Whale] [Eat Whale] [Eat Whale] Then the teacher supports your divorce, a man like your company has no sense of responsibility and responsibility at all, he is a mother's treasure man, such a man is not worthy of your life, I think you are really unnecessary.

Let's get a divorce tomorrow, it's going to be divorced, and you won't have to worry about no one chasing you. Do you understand?

I hope I can help you and thank you for enjoying the consultation.

My husband insisted that I live with his parents and didn't want to have our own home.

Hello, very happy and honored to have your question. My husband has to go live with his parents, I don't think it's necessary, because there will definitely be conflicts between you and your mother-in-law, and it is expected that in this case, it is better to separate as soon as possible. You say yes, right?

Since you are married, you should have your own home, whether you buy it locally or in the city, you must have your own home, which is the king.

The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very troublesome, and in order to avoid direct conflict, I think living separately is the best choice. Also, it is not appropriate for you to be with your parents when you are married, and it is not suitable to be together on many occasions. I hope I can help you and thank you for using the counseling <>

<> has a house, he has a home, but he doesn't live there.

He's going back to his parents' house.

He can stretch out his hand and open his mouth with food.

When he goes back to his parents' house, he can go out to drink and play every day and find all kinds of women.

So that the man can give up, so you can give up, what is the use of saying you want a scumbag? You say, don't you? It's all up to your parents, what are you doing, are you a waste?

Don't go to work. When I got to work, I said that I wouldn't give it to me, but to my mother.

I have always raised him, provided him with food, clothing and housing, and in turn he made money, and he said that the salary would not be given to me, but to his mother.

[Eat Whale] [Eat Whale] [Eat Whale] [Eat Whale] [Eat Whale] [Eat Whale] Then the teacher supports your divorce, a man like your company has no sense of responsibility and responsibility at all, he is a mother's treasure man, such a man is not worthy of your life, I think you are really unnecessary. Let's get a divorce tomorrow, it's going to be divorced, and you won't have to worry about no one chasing you. Do you understand?

I hope I can help you and thank you for enjoying the consultation.

But I have a child now, and the child is just 4 months old.

Eat whales] [eat whales] [eat whales] So what to do? If you are thinking about children, then don't get divorced, because how do you live with children?

Summary. It is recommended to live separately.

My husband insisted that I live with his parents and didn't want to have our own home.

It is recommended to live separately.

But there are also a lot of practical problems, what to do with working children who are not financially independent.

He lived with me, and he always made me disgrace his house, which was his parents' home.

He lived with me, and he always made me disgrace his house, which was his parents' home.

He lived with me and always asked me to go back to his house, which was his parents' house.

He lived with me and always asked me to go back to his house, which was his parents' house.

What economy is not independent?

What economy is not independent?

Do you have the financial means to support the two of you to live alone?

Let you always go back to your parents' house, that is, you have a deep feeling, at least you can't get rid of your parents in your heart, and you still treat yourself as a child.

Yes, he's always treated himself as a kid, he's 25 years old.

Yes, he's always treated himself as a kid, he's 25 years old.

The economy can be lived alone, but after he returned to his hometown, he went out to play every day, went out to drink every day, and found all kinds of women to play.

The economy can be lived alone, but after he returned to his hometown, he went out to play every day, went out to drink every day, and found all kinds of women to play.

Are you there? Are you there?

Hello. In this case, it is best to find a suitable time to talk to him about the current situation after marriage.

This situation may remain in place for a long time.

Get ready for a long battle.

It's just not having a proper understanding of marriage and the impact it has on you. Be sure to communicate well, don't quarrel, even coax and persuade, and analyze the benefits.

When you get married, you're a family.

After marriage, there are rights and obligations of pants.

It is impossible to shirk family responsibilities.

You can ask him to come home on time, which is a basic requirement.

He also needs to take on the responsibilities of Yu Chunxiao's raising of children and housework.

You can't do nothing.

The two husbands and wives can discuss it. After all. Life is a little thing. Yes, it can be said. After all, it's a family of two. Soft caution comes. Have a good chat. He'll say yes.

Summary. Hello friend, if your husband doesn't agree, of course you need to negotiate with him, after all, it's your hometown, and you always have to go back to see it occasionally, so my husband shouldn't be so stubborn. If he really doesn't want to go back, it's okay to go back alone, just discuss it with him, don't make a rash decision.

I want to go back to my hometown with my parents, but my husband doesn't want to go back, what should I do?

Hello friend, if my husband doesn't agree, when I don't want to negotiate with him, after all, it is my hometown, and I always want to go back to see it once in a while, so my husband won't be so stubborn. If he really doesn't want to go back, it's okay to go back alone, just discuss it with him, don't make a rash decision.

This aspect is human nature, as long as the husband is still reasonable, he should not do such a scoundrel thing, he should be able to agree, Cha Yuan can take a good deal with him, there is no better way.