Do you want to smoke or have a girlfriend?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-17
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Since you are asking questions here, it proves that you still love him and are willing to be together, if you really want to break up, you won't ask everyone's opinions, in fact, I can understand you very much, I thought I had the same experience as you, in fact, I think about it later, you may be very disgusted with him smoking, but your most angry may not be smoking now, but he is not even willing to quit smoking for you, I guess right? Many people say that he definitely doesn't care about you or anything, in fact, I don't think so, you always quarrel every day, no matter how stable the love is, you might as well talk calmly, you can say it well, let him slowly quit smoking, the original smoke a box, let him reduce the dose, smoke half a box, don't be too anxious, you think about his kindness to you, you won't be so angry, you can see that you actually care about him, since two people are together, they should accommodate each other, even if they break up, don't do it for this, It's not worth it, if you don't love each other, it's really hard to persuade, but if you think about it, it's a trivial matter, think about how many smokers are there in China? Think about whether he is stressed at work?

    Think about how irritable he is when you argue, and there is a reason why he wants to smoke. So if you love him, you should turn a blind eye and don't let yourself regret it. If you're thinking about his health, then I can give you a few good tips:

    Try to smoke mixed cigarettes (such as Zhongnanhai) because of its low tar content, Hongtashan 14, Zhongnanhai is the highest is only 10 (4 yuan 5), and there are lower ones such as Zhongnanhai point 8 (5 yuan), Zhongnanhai point five (10 yuan). The more expensive the cigarette is, the healthier it is, and don't let him smoke the cigarette butt before extinguishing it, let him smoke half a cigarette, it will be much healthier, and there is more water and fungus, which can clear the lungs, and a reasonable work and rest time are the secrets of healthy smoking and living to 100 years old. You see, there are many people in our grandparents' generation who have smoked all their lives, don't they live to be in their 80s?

    Of course, I'm not saying that smoking is a good habit, you have to quit smoking, but you don't have to be in a hurry to quit smoking, the next time he smokes, you pour him a glass of water, and say: "Baby, drink more water before and after smoking, you can clear your lungs, I checked it on the Internet for you." "Slowly penetrate how much you love him, how much you care about his body, how much you want to have a healthy and beautiful baby ......Sooner or later, he will be touched by your sincerity.

    It's much more useful than arguing every day......Think about it, two people have a companion even if they quarrel together, how lonely he is, since he was once so good to you, he must love you to a good extent, so let him be impressed with you! Regain the sweetness of love! Let's have a good relationship!

    Be patient with your feelings! Your love is like a child, the child can't have shortcomings, don't want him, step by step, patient education is a good policy Finally, I wish you happiness and happiness

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you really can't stand it, it means that he is not suitable for you.

    If you're together in the future, you're going to have to live like that.

    It's dangerous to notice this shortcoming.

    He gave so much for you, but he didn't think about you at that last point.

    It also shows that he can't give 100% for you.

    But people can't be 100% perfect.

    You have to give him more time for this shortcoming.

    You have to understand that it is very uncomfortable for people to lose their habits of life.

    Anger is also a kind of venting in the heart.

    You have to calm him down.

    In this way, the relationship and life can go on.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Smoking doesn't matter, we girls just let men smoke.

    But you cry when he doesn't have anything? How long have you been together? If you've just been together for a short time, let's do it early, really.

    There will be more excessives in the future. Man: There's no good thing, but you have to find a bad thing that's good for you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Quit smoking to take your time, not to say that you can't smoke if you don't smoke, because you are addicted, for example, you should smoke less, you should smoke 10 cigarettes a day, give him half of it, take your time, and then prepare some chewing gum or something snacks, and eat snacks when the addiction comes up, which can relieve the time, in short, it is impossible to quit all at once, if you can stick to a week without smoking a cigarette, then you will basically quit, and after quitting, you will prevent him from coming into contact with smoking again.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Men quit smoking pills take their time, they can't be too demanding, slowly go to influence him, the drastic approach is not good, if he really cares about you, he will change it slowly, you have to give him time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You're going to be it! There are a few men who don't smoke!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not that you can be together if you think people are good, two people don't get along, it's not that you love deeply, when you have to, it's better to separate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    So I'm still hiding in the WC and smoking.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you can't stand a man who smokes, then find a non-smoker

    It's not easy to quit smoking, I really hope he quits, he shouldn't be noisy, he should be helped to quit together

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Smoking men will, just let him smoke a little less.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In that case, let's divide it, there are many good men!

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Summary. My girlfriend asked me if I could drink and smoke, and my girlfriend asked me if I could drink and smoke. There will still be a sip, and then a smiling face.

    In this way, you will admit that you agree to drink, but you will not let the other party feel that you are controlling her, friends gatherings, it is inevitable to drink some alcohol to help the fun, social occasions can be understood, as long as you don't drink too much, don't lose your temper, you still have to take care of your body more.

    My girlfriend asked me if I could drink and smoke, and my girlfriend asked me if I could drink and smoke. There will still be a sip, and then a smiling face. In this way, you will admit that you agree to drink, but you will not let the other party feel that you are controlling her, friends gatherings, it is inevitable to drink some alcohol to help the fun, social occasions can be understood, as long as you don't drink too much, don't lose your temper, you still have to take care of your body more.

    Reply that she can drink, but we all drink less, don't drink high, and one must not drive after drinking now, otherwise you will be caught drunk driving and will be severely punished. This girl may want to release some stress or want to have a drink with you. Or maybe he wants to tell you something more important with the strength of wine.

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The answer is simple, she doesn't love you at all, she doesn't plan to talk to you at all, and you don't have feelings yet. She may come back to you because she didn't find a better boyfriend, or because she was too bored during those days or she had another boy in mind. I advise you to recognize the form, if there is no future or not suitable for you, you have to let go as soon as possible, otherwise the longer you delay, the more you will invest, and then it will be miserable.