We broke up, but I couldn t let her go

If you find her, apologize to her, if she really doesn't accept you, then you can't help it, you can't force her, right?

You hurt her, and now it's time for you to get retribution for your injuries.

You don't know what to do? Since you have to get her, you can only stalk her! If you love her, then use your sincerity to impress her. Because it's your fault, she can't help it if she doesn't want you! I can only go on with my life! It's all about fate.

Sometimes loving someone is not with her, she may feel that you are happy and happy with someone else, and you can only give him pain, do you still want to force her to be by your side?

Your mind still has memories of the past, and you can get used to the negative process of the past!

Hide her in the deepest part of your heart! Always love her silently and bless her.

Let's try to redeem it.

I really can't get it back, so just give up.

Time What you need is time

After a breakup, they will spy on their ex's life, mostly because they can't let go. As long as there is still a bit of emotional entanglement, there will be mood swings, and there will be a response. I can't help but look for clues from my ex's circle of friends, space, and other social software, and secretly learn about each other's lives.

Every day, I will talk to myself about the dynamics of my ex's mumu, and sometimes I think that my ex is hinting at his reunion, is this dynamic only visible to himself? Sometimes Yun Stool will worry that his ex has a new relationship, and he feels that a third party has invaded his heart. Why can't you let go after a breakup?

I know that the other party is not worth it, and I know that the other party may not love me anymore, but I still can't let go of it in my heart, and some people still want to redeem each other. Because my heart is too painful, I even want to let go of my self-esteem, ** humbly and seek to get back together, and all rational or irrational practices are used. In fact, this is very common, maybe when you just broke up, you may not have thought about redeeming the other party, you want to let go, but you find that you can't let go, your heart is struggling, and it is very painful, so you have the idea of redeeming it and want to end this pain.

When you try to force yourself to let go of a person and a relationship, you will want to force yourself not to think about a white bear, the more you want to forget about the other party as soon as possible, let go as soon as possible, on the contrary, the other party's bits and pieces will continue to linger in your mind, and the impression will continue to deepen. The best way to let go of the other person after a breakup is to block the other person from your heart. At the end of a relationship, no one wins or loses, and paying too much attention to the other person will affect your own life.

Whether you can let go or not, please be a qualified "ex" first. What is the meaning of "former Xun Eggplant", the predecessor is the past tense. To be a good ex, you need to have this attitude:

For better or worse, don't worry about it. But many people say, I can't let go, I just love him, I can't accept breaking up like this, so how can I not be entangled? But the point of the problem is that whether you want to get back together or are reluctant, your noisy, entangled, begging for mercy and other tricks are not suitable for you who have broken up, and there is no benefit, but there are a lot of disadvantages.

After the breakup, if two people can let go of each other, of course, they should be a qualified ex; If the party being broken up really can't accept it and wants to redeem it, you should also be a qualified ex. If you want to have a chance to get back together, you must first be a qualified ex, don't rush to prove that you will change, it is useless to say more, and it will be over, so that the other party can let go of the mustard, blame, dissatisfaction, etc., and can have a chance to know and accept you again.