Do you think there is such a thing as a child being scared?

There must be. When I was younger, I had a cousin who grew up with me, who was in her teens at the time, and she was always scared, and her mother always called her in the middle of the night. I once asked her what it was like to be scared.

She said, feeling tired and uncomfortable. Her mom just finished calling her, and she said she felt better instantly. Because I haven't experienced it, it feels amazing.

Now that I'm married and have a son, I never believed in these things when my son was young, but once, my son was sick, and he couldn't get better by hanging the bottle, and finally my mother-in-law gave him eggs, and it really worked after calling it, and I have believed it ever since. Since then, he has hung a peach pit around his son's neck, physical fitness.

Much better than before. So there are some things that science can't explain, and there is some truth to what has been passed down from generation to generation by our ancestors.

There is such a saying among the people. Let me tell you about my own experience. When my eldest son was just 100 days old, I took him back to his parents' house for the first time.

Because of the strangeness, the next-door neighbor carried him around the village for most of the circle before returning home. It was already dark at that time, and not long after he came back, my son began to hum and chirp, and then he kept making trouble, making trouble, and did not fall asleep until the early hours of the morning. Oddly enough, it was the case for the next few days.

The day is very good, just like usual, and as soon as I start to fall asleep at night, I hum and cry non-stop. Then my mother said, "Maybe I was scared, but an old man in the village passed away last week."

Then my mom started to prepare. One, take your son's clothes or hold me directly after your son falls asleep, re-walk the same road that your neighbor walked that day, and call your son home as you go. The strange thing is that after getting it, my son has been sleeping peacefully.

There should be times when children are frightened, but the reason for being frightened is just a variety of factors, some are frightened by sudden noises in a quiet situation, some are frightened by sounds that appear around them, some are sick in the child's body, and some are frightened by nightmares in the state of sleep, etc. The so-called folk soul calling is actually to give children a sense of security and calm the child's fear after being frightened.

There is a folk saying that the child was scared, when my child was a few months old, he took it back to his parents' house to live, and on the third night, the child suddenly cried more than once, and when he was usually hungry or otherwise uncomfortable, he cried differently, and the tone did not change, and he cried vigorously. I didn't know what to do at the time, and my dad said to me, "You can read and talk to the baby to see if it's your mother who is looking at the baby, and when it comes to the baby (my mother has passed away for many years)."

But I haven't experienced it, and I don't know how to say it. Later, my dad muttered in the room and said: "Is it the baby grandma, I saw the baby back, kiss the baby, when it comes to the baby, but the baby is small, I can't stand it, if so, let's go!"

After repeating this five or six times, the baby really quieted down, stopped crying, and fell asleep after a while. Younger children are indeed easily frightened, and sudden noises in their sleep can frighten children.

Of course there is, we adults all have such an experience, let alone a child, at least in a trance, or completely insane.

Yes, my family treasure has been making trouble for the past two days, crying vigorously, and I can only let people hold her for a walk. I can't sit and hold her, I almost didn't tire us to death! Later, my mother-in-law said that the child was scared, the top of his head was relatively concave, and the poop was green.

Methods learned from a colleague's mom. One person is holding the child, and the other person, carrying the baby's recently worn clothes, is turning three times, three times in reverse, and then passes over the baby's back, and finally covers the baby's head. Then something magical happened, my family treasure really didn't make trouble!

There must be something to be scared, as for whether the soul is effective or not, there is no research, I just think that if the child is not sick and crying, excluding feces and urine, hungry and other physiological conditions, it will cry, it doesn't hurt to scream, anyway, it won't have *** on the child, in case it is better to call it, and the child will not be affected by anything!

It is better to believe it than not to believe it, I naturally didn't believe it before, but after I have a child, I have to believe it, because I really don't want the child to be hurt a little bit. My baby has encountered this situation when he was more than ten days old, after all, the child will not say, at that time crying for two days, how to coax is useless, that is, never cried so much, has been holding, at night is also holding to sleep for a while, at that time took the child's clothes to see the scared people to call, said that there are bad things at home, the magic is that after seeing the night will no longer make trouble, as long as the child can be good, what does it matter if you believe a little.

There is such a saying, it is good for children on our side to be "scared" and find someone to "scream", but this kind of thing can not be explained clearly by science, of course, if there is a disease, it is better to see a doctor first, and it must be distinguished.

Crying for no reason makes parents anxiousFor example, there are many children who will cry suddenly for no reason after going to bed at night, at this time the child often closes his eyes, no matter how you try to coax, it has no effect. At this time, the elderly people around them will say that the child is scared or has encountered something unclean. Then find an old man to call you and you'll be good quickly.

I believe I called my son myself. My mom taught. The fever is not good, I opened the door at twelve o'clock in the evening, and I kept shouting from the gate that my son was sleeping in front of the bed, and he was burning a courier note.

Calling the baby home and calling it a few more times. When I was a kid, my mom burned used stamps, but now she doesn't write letters, so she uses courier slips instead. It wasn't hot the next day.

It's magical.

When I was a child, I would often hear the neighbor's child crying at night, and when he couldn't coax him to cry, his grandmother would say: Is the child scared? Let's find someone to take a look.

After inviting someone to talk about it, the child stopped crying, and when he was still young, he felt that the person was really powerful, and he was very worshipped.

Later, when I grew up, I felt that these were pure superstitions.

It wasn't until after my niece was born that I began to believe a little, two days after my niece was born, I suddenly cried at night and didn't eat or sleep, I stopped crying, my voice was hoarse, and there was nothing abnormal in all kinds of examinations, and the doctor said: Stay in the hospital for observation, my mother hugged the little niece who kept crying, and scolded loudly while walking on the way from the examination room to the maternity ward, it was amazing, and the little niece fell asleep without going to the ward, and she didn't wake up all night, and then it was normal.

Later, after I had a child, I found that sometimes I really had to believe this kind of thing. When my daughter was a child, she often cried at night for no reason, no matter how she coaxed her, she couldn't coax it, she really cried so that you couldn't help it, and she also went to the hospital to do various examinations, and the results were fine, and the doctor couldn't help it, so she went home and continued to observe, and she still cried non-stop after returning home, crying with her eyes closed. I really can't help it, so I wonder if I'm scared, let's find someone to take a look, but after finding someone to see it, I really didn't cry anymore.

Therefore, the saying that the child is "scared" can try to believe it when you cry when you make sure that the child is not sick or uncomfortable. After all, science can't explain this kind of thing.

This is a superstitious claim with no scientific basis:

In Northeast China, North China, Nanjing and other places, it is usually determined by the family that his grandson is shocked and lost his soul. One called out in the name of a child, and the other called "Come back!" Yiyuan Kai Tang shouted and walked to the other side.

The bearer of the cloak opens his coat and shoe symbolically closes it, then holds it under his armpit and shouts the name of the child, while the other replies "Return!" It means that the soul has been tied. Repeating it along the way means that the soul is considered to have been restored.

Feudal superstition has no scientific basis.

When I was a child, I had the experience of being beaten, when I went to the river to play, fell into the river, and was beaten by my parents after being fished up, a very powerful vertical line wide, but this kind of beating education is good for the growth of children

Clause. 1. There will be rebellion.

When a child makes a mistake, parents do not use persuasion and education to talk to him patiently, but use violence to solve it, which will cause a psychological shadow to the child, and he will have a rebellious psychology in his heart after a long time.

will reject the education of parents and be unwilling to communicate with parents, anyway, in exchange for a beating. Therefore, they will hide their hearts, and over time, they may hurt themselves when facing problems.

Some children will beat their heads hard when they can't solve a problem, but this is actually related to the way their parents usually educate them. What's more, children will inflict this violent tendency on others.

When problems arise again, they will not be solved peacefully, but by force, and even hurt others.

Clause. 2. Willing to please others.

Children who grow up under the scare of their parents are prone to look at other people's faces to please and lead others, and they will follow what others say, and they will follow their own inner thoughts and speak cautiously, and they will lower their posture.

Because of the fear that others will not like her, the fear of not playing with him, and the desire to please others everywhere, such children do not have their own independent character when they grow up, and they are easy to follow the crowd, and instinctively retreat backwards when they encounter difficulties, so it is difficult for them to succeed.

Thirdly, the child will become very timid.

Children who have lived in the scare of their parents for a long time will become very cowardly and timid, because when facing the parents of the **, they dare not show their hearts, and will only hide behind their backs and secretly observe the faces of their parents to please their parents.

When such a child grows up, he will also become unbrave to take on problems and responsibilities, evade and shirk responsibility, thinking that everything has nothing to do with him, because he has the impression that as long as he bears such a mistake, then he will accept a violent beating.

Clause. Fourth, children will lose trust in their parents.

If parents often carry out threats and intimidation education in the family, when the children are still young, they do not know that what the parents say is false and are all to scare them.

But when the children are older, they begin to have their own consciousness and judgment, they will know that their parents are cheating on themselves, then they will become more and more distrustful of their parents, and they will not want to say it to their parents when they are really in trouble and danger.