How do I give my child a name and how should I choose my child s name?

Wu Kaiyan eye reading is used exclusively for names.

With regard to the child's surname, the Marriage Law clearly stipulates that the child may take the father's surname or the mother's surname. The law does not stipulate which party's surname must be used. But according to social customs, it seems to be more customary to follow the father's surname.

Although there are also stool clans that follow their mother's surname, it is more often the woman's family with rich assets and no children. For this kind of topic, many people have expressed their opinions and doubts on the Internet, and the man will have a lot of pressure on the son to follow the mother's surname, because under the universal value, the man will be regarded as unproductive, and it is easy to be looked down upon. At the same time, some second-child families are ready to let their children share the surname equally, but there will still be some troubles!

Mainly plagued by the following problems:

1.Children are treated differently by the elders of the family.

For example, in a two-child family, one child follows the father's surname and the other follows the mother's surname. In the eyes of the child's parents, this is a way to get the best of both worlds, to have a say about the grandparents, and to appease the grandparents. But for the elderly, this is not the case, it is very common for grandparents to be closer to the children with their father's surname, thinking that the baby is their own, and for grandparents it is the opposite.

When children live in this kind of family for a long time, it is easy to develop a sense of estrangement, which hurts their sensitive hearts.

2.Affect the family relationship of siblings.

When the two children have different surnames, Zao Chong often arouses the doubts of outsiders, and even gossips speculate whether the children's family will be a reconstituted family? At the same time, it will also cause the child to wonder why he has a different surname when he was born to the same parents. Over time, children will unnoticeably distance themselves from their older brothers or sisters under pressure from outsiders and themselves.

As a result, they are obviously brothers, but sisters don't feel like they are relatives in the end.

Post-dads have their own opinions.

Many post-90s fathers said that I am just a daughter, my family has no incense to pass down, and I have no throne to inherit for her. If she doesn't want to have my surname after two years, then just pick the one she likes. It doesn't matter if it's your father's last name or your mother's.

What I want to say here is that the child's surname should be discussed and understood by both husband and wife, and the child's surname cannot be absolutely required, let alone cause the husband and wife to have a grudge and cause dissatisfaction with family life. At the same time, we must also follow the child's own wishes and protect the child's heart, after all, everything is for the child.