Is it okay to get married early, please give advice 20

Updated on society 2024-05-24
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's too early, indeed. It's not too late for a girl to think about getting married when she is about 26 years old.

    Personally, I don't think a girl understands anything at the age of 23.

    Generally, it is not until the age of 27 that you slowly mature.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In this day and age, there is no way to use age as the standard for getting married early or not.

    If you know each other well enough, and you are happy and comfortable together, you can get married. Life is finite, wouldn't it be better to enjoy a happy life after marriage earlier? But the premise is that you have enough confidence to tell yourself that the other person is the only happiness you want in this life.

    If your boyfriend delays getting married on the grounds that he wants to create better living conditions for his children and then get married, you can say to him, "Let's get married, I will work with you to create better conditions for our children, I am a mother, I also have the responsibility to create happiness for him (her), and because I love you, I must share what I can for you".

    Sometimes happiness is to be strived for, don't leave yourself regrets, regrets and injuries can be forgotten, but regrets can't be made up for a lifetime. Congratulations: Happy newlyweds and happy forever!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hello friends! Bless you because you have a responsible boyfriend. Twenty-three marriage belongs to the general age, neither early marriage nor late marriage, and you can discuss marriage with your boyfriend. Happy to you!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I got married at the age of 20, in my opinion, it was supposed to be an early marriage, but because I was young at that time, so I had children first, and there was no way to get married, but my husband loved me very much, so in general, I didn't want to get married so early because I didn't want to have children so early, not because I didn't want to marry my husband, so for you, the age of 23 is already suitable for marriage, but you also have to consider whether you have the conditions to get married now, because marriage means that there will be children, all kinds of problems, See if you can accept and take care of it, and whether your husband treats you sincerely, and whether you can really get happiness after marrying him, I am talking about happiness is not money, but other aspects, if you can cope with these problems, then you can discuss with each other, early marriage and late marriage are the same thing, but early marriage will first enter the marriage family, late marriage can play for a few more years, and then a few years of single life, I wish you happiness

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not early, 23 is still young, 22 years old. If you get married early and have children, you can take care of your children more, and you must be still young. Now many people in their 30s get married, the conditions are not good, they will worry about their children, and when they are old, the children are not very old, and it is also the peak period of using money.

    What do elders give to their children? We must still be in China, unlike in the United States, when the child turns 18, the family will cut off all expenses for him.

    Another point is that if a girl gets married early, he will not have a child early, his body will not be deformed, and the body will be seriously deformed if an older person has a child!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's not good to get married early, the problem is that he won't marry you when it's over, and it's difficult for you to find it again. Difficult.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's too early, it's not good to become a woman so early, is it not the same to make money early and late, and is it different to keep the current earnings.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not early, in our rural areas, many of us who get married in the 212th are fine, as long as they don't want to have children.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Somewhat! See for yourself! Just feel right!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not early, in fact, it depends on your own thoughts, getting married early has advantages and disadvantages, getting married early, raising children early, and then you can continue your own work, and when you are older, you get married and have children, and it will be difficult to get children (as the old saying goes), in fact, it is nothing. Everyone has a different view of relationships and marriage, and men and women are not the same. Only by communicating more and finding common ground will be solved.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    How old is the other party. There is no economic basis for his idea to be correct.

    It's a little early for now.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Do it if you like, why bother with all that red tape!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Everyone has their own different judgment on when to get married, but for young people, if they get married early, there will always be all kinds of concerns, afraid that entering a marriage too early will have bad results for their future life, but for the vast majority of people who marry early, early marriage is not really bad.

    Maybe we have the impression that early marriage is not good because of some bad cases around us. But what we don't think carefully about is that such failures are often only a very small number of successful marriages, and those families who have successful early marriages do not express their happiness, so we have no way of knowing.

    From another point of view, whether you live happily after marriage has a lot to do with whether the relationship between the two people is sincere, whether the two things really love each other, and whether they are willing to tolerate each other. And it has little to do with the sooner or later of marriage. When you meet the person who really loves you and really loves you, whether you get married early or late, your married life is destined to be full of sweetness and romance.

    In this sense, the good or bad of early marriage is absolutely leaked in the feelings of the two people, if the love life of two people is always stumbling, can not understand each other and tolerate each other, even if two people get married later, they will face various difficulties and challenges in married life.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Early marriage also gets the age prescribed by law, the cycle of cause and effect, as long as fate is in the way, it can't be stopped.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Each stage of life has its own value and significance, and early marriage does not mean whether a person's life is good or bad. Here are five tips for women who marry early:

    1.Determine your goals: Before marrying early, you need to know your desired life status and marriage model, including the qualities of your desired partner, family expectations, etc., which can help you make an informed choice in your marriage decision.

    2.Creating an independent life: Early marriage does not mean giving up on self-growth and development. Women need to maintain an independent lifestyle, knowing that they need to be independent, both financially and ideologically.

    3.Establish good communication skills: Good communication skills are the key to a healthy marital relationship. Grow with your partner, learn how to express your thoughts and emotions, and listen to each other's needs and feelings.

    4.Valuing family and marriage: Although marriage may not be the whole of a woman's life, for some women, family and marriage are still an important part of her life. Building a harmonious and stable family and marriage can bring a lot of happiness and fulfillment to women.

    5.Learn to manage your finances: Marriage can be a financial burden for the partner, so women need to learn to manage their finances and understand their financial goals so that they can prepare for their families and their future.

    At the same time, it is also necessary to avoid indulging in risky behaviors such as gambling and investing.

    Women who marry early need to have a clear understanding of their needs, goals, and strengths, and work towards a stable and healthy relationship. Whether you choose to get married or not, you need to maintain a positive mindset, live independently, and prepare yourself for the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There are two sides to everything Get married early, when others are still in love, you have already gone to the next level, of course, you will give it well, and when you are in the best health, it is good for the child, and the child is healthier, but Blind Yeheng may get married early, and the two of them may be too young to understand the humble spine to let them understand Often fight for the chicken feather grinding and garlic skin.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The time of marriage depends on two things, one is to meet the legal age of marriage; The second is to look at the feelings of both parties, get along better, and get married if you think you can.

    1. The advantages of early marriage.

    1. Marriage is an important decision, early marriage will make both parties feel that each other's feelings are more stable, and they will be bigger and more down-to-earth than the fiber, indicating that the relationship has entered the next stage.

    2. Getting married early can cultivate the responsibilities of both parties, because there are more different roles in married life, and there are more responsibilities to be undertaken, which can make both parties mature earlier.

    3. Getting married early helps to run in the relationship, and the two parties will be more tolerant of each other out of the love period, and getting married early can make each other more dependent. +

    2. The disadvantages of early marriage.

    1. If you get married early, both parties may not be psychologically mature enough, and there will be some contradictions in getting along and communicating.

    2. If you get married early, you will take responsibility early, and some people may not be able to do so, especially when it comes to raising children.

    3. Getting married early means that the time to destroy freedom will be reduced, the things to think about after marriage will increase, and sometimes you will ignore your feelings.

    3. The advantages of getting married later.

    1. People who marry later will know what they want better, find a more suitable partner, and have fewer conflicts between husband and wife.

    2. People who get married late have better economic strength, and married life is inseparable from money, so the financial responsibility and pressure will not be too great.

    3. People who get married late may have more experience, and their psychology will be more mature, and their tolerance and loyalty to the family will be higher.

    Fourth, the disadvantages of getting married later.

    1. If you get married later, you may not want to get married, because you are used to living a free life, and you will not be used to being suddenly restrained.

    2. People who get married late may get married in a hurry for some reason, so the happiness index of married life may not be too high.

    3. People who marry later will not be very favorable in terms of childbearing, whether it is having children or educating children, there will be some influence.

    I hope everyone gets married because they love each other, and then get along comfortably, and communicate smoothly, not blindly or for some reason.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    1. Is it better to marry early or late?

    1. Whether it is a boy or a girl, from the point of view, I think it is more appropriate to get married later, because the benefits of getting married later are much greater.

    2. People who marry late are generally more mature in their thinking than Jiejiao, and they will be very cautious about marriage, generally do not make any decisions, and will not regret it once they make a decision.

    3. In addition, people who marry late will generally be in love for a long time, such as about three years, through long-term contact between the two, they can understand each other's personality and temperament, including whether the three views are consistent with themselves, and they will only go to the marriage hall after feeling that there is no problem, and live a happy life from then on.

    4. In addition, people who marry later than Spike Leak are more mature in both physical and psychological development, and if they marry too early and their physical development is not yet mature, it will cause certain harm to their own body, and may also affect the next generation.

    To sum up, it is better to get married early or later, and I personally think it is more appropriate to get married later.

    2. What are the differences between early marriage and late marriage?

    1. The advantages of early marriage.

    If you get married early, you can cultivate a sense of responsibility for two people, especially after having children, you will become more mature. In addition, girls recover faster after giving birth.

    2. The disadvantages of early marriage.

    If you get married early and are mentally immature, then there will be more conflicts between the two after marriage, which will affect the relationship between the two. Once you choose to divorce, it will also have a great impact on your children.

    3. The advantages of getting married later.

    People who marry late will be more cautious when thinking about things, and their goals are also very clear, and they will cherish each other when they choose each other, and they will tolerate each other in life and work.

    4. The disadvantages of getting married later.

    If you choose to get married later, then you may not have a great demand for love, but the material requirements are relatively high, and sometimes too material will affect the relationship between the two, so it is not reliable to have no emotional foundation.

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