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It is mainly helpful for studying, and some people feel that it is very face-saving to make friends and eat more. , but they are all friends of wine and meat, and it is a waste of time to be together. It is really necessary to make friends who are helpful to study, especially those who are motivated and have no vices.

High school is fine, friends are relatively "simple", but don't deliberately only have the ability and strength. In the future, people will remember you, and they will have a deep impression of you, and they will be excellent in character and learning, and people around you will also pick you as a friend.

Rely on your parents at home and your friends when you go out.

The more the merrier, the more good karma, is the king.

After college, after going to work, it will be clear.

Make some ...... that will help you studyAnd some, more fun to ......Don't ...... too deliberatelyThe friendship in high school is unforgettable, you obviously didn't know him in high school, but after graduation, when you talk about being classmates, you will be very enthusiastic.

Anyway, I think it's very important.

Friends are certainly important. It's good for everyone to study together and go through those boring days. Friends walk together for a lifetime!

It's good to make more friends...

But don't be in a hurry to worry about it...

Smile more at your classmates...

Cheerful and get along with everyone·· It's going to be a lot better...

But you can make friends... It's just that it depends on what kind of study, and you can't learn from it.

Making more friends will help your physical and mental health, and your happiness will also increase...

As the saying goes, when you go out and rely on friends, wow... If you have difficulties in the future, you can also find friends to help you. ·

I'll tell you a few real things, a friend of mine, a woman, owes a lot of debts, and then she went to "borrow money" from her best friend's husband, and the man said that his best friend knew about it, and the man agreed, but after cheating the money, he disappeared another, more disgusting, and also in debt, she and her best friend met at the age of seven, she said that her best friend was not admitted to high school, but found a good husband who was middle-aged and rich, and the tone was to envy and despise his best friend, and then bypassed his best friend twice in a row, and directly found his best friend's husband's company to borrow more than 100,000 yuan, also let the man hide from his wife, this woman turned out to be a junior digging the foot of the wall.

In short, making friends must depend on character, if it is light, it will lose money, and if it is heavy, it will be ruined. When you meet someone who is not good at character, pass it directly, this is common sense that everyone knows, but sometimes, I just don't know if this person is reliable.

This takes time, just like the two examples above, and it is only after the incident that I know that this person is like this, how can I see it in ordinary times? Therefore, making friends is also a matter of luck, and if you do, you will earn it; If you encounter something bad, you can only endure it. Who told us to have bad eyes!

When I make friends, what I value most is character, maybe he will be a little stingy and a little cautious, but he must be a person with a sense of justice, and he will never do immoral things, such a person I would be willing to be friends with him. If there is a person with a bad character, no matter how good he is to me, I will not be willing to be friends with him, because my heart cannot accept such a person, let alone what he does.

When making friends, I generally value some qualities of the other party, such as whether the person is honest or honest, whether he is kind, these will pay more attention to the other aspect, but also to see whether the three views of the two people are the same, but also to see some of their styles of doing things, if they don't like the style of doing things, then I don't like to make such friends.

When I make friends, I care more about whether the other person is sincere or not. Because I think that making friends should be honest with each other, no matter what happens, you can't hide it, and you shouldn't deceive each other, after all, there are always more ways for two people than one person, only that kind of sincere friendship will be worthy of our pursuit, and only sincere friends are worthy of our relationship.

I think the most important thing is honesty, that is, mutual honesty is the basis of friendship, and then it is to trust each other, friends are the people who accompany you by your side, if she does not have basic integrity, then there will be more and more problems between you, and there is to make friends should choose caring people because she is kind, kind people are generally not bad.

This really varies from person to person. In my opinion, when I make friends, I care more about the character of the other person. Because you are really difficult to get along with people with poor character, you will really collapse when you get along with such people every day.

Many times, your appearance is not very important, because after getting along with people for a long time, what makes people remember the most is your inside, that is, your character, so I personally care about this aspect very much.

This is what you need to feel yourself, I don't think there is a fixed answer, which point of the other party can move you the most, some views between you, the three views are the same, you can become good friends, it is fate, and finally say that all the long-term never tired of it is because of intentions

I think a person's moral character is very important, if a person's moral character is good, then he will not have fewer friends, if a person's moral character is not good, then what's the point of doing other things? No matter how endurant a person with bad moral character is, in the end he will not have many friends, and even if there are, it is possible to use him.

Credit, I also know a lot of friends, and there are not many people who are completely trustworthy. Now the pace of life is too fast, everyone seems to be too busy, sometimes it is clear that 10 will come over and wait until 11 o'clock, I am the person who has decided to go in advance, and it is easy to have emotions in the process of waiting, so I pay special attention to credit.

Integrity, character.

Making friends, first of all, I don't want my friends to deceive me, a person with good character doesn't worry about no one making friends with him, making friends is a special eye, and if you are not careful, you will make friends carelessly, so I don't want to find a dishonest person who likes to lie as a friend, a person who is full of lies will make people feel scared, and a person with good character is very good to become a friend.

It must depend on the character, and if it is not good, it will not be handed over.

Students entering high school have important shark muscles! Make friends from all over the world! Don't be in small groups either!

High school dating is easy! Live with each other, study hard, and you'll become good friends! Students tend to value friendship in high school!

Generally, as long as you respect others, you can communicate well!

It's a bit early to think about this to be honest. After all, I don't know if my classmates are very friendly, just keep a friendly attitude and get along with others, don't care too much about this. Just treat it with a normal heart, remember to smile, and be friendly to others.

First of all, you have to be clear about what you really want.

If you are a student who loves to learn, you should focus on your studies in high school: usually spend more time with your classmates with good grades and learn their strengths. After each exam, you have to summarize the learning during this time.

Don't leave questions every day, and ask your teacher or classmates immediately after class. Even if it's okay after class, you can listen to what others are asking. Also, the most important thing is not to treat these as burdens, but to make them habitual.

As for making friends, it's best to make friends with people who you feel have good qualities that you can learn from. Never learn from their shortcomings.

When I first entered high school, I was also very uncomfortable, but after a stage, I quickly adapted, there are a lot of courses in high school, which need to be understood, not rote memorization, and junior high school is not the same, junior high school is compulsory education, teachers are very responsible, but in high school you will be treated as an adult.

If you don't want to be a sports commissioner, don't be it.,,It's not a big deal.。。 Introverted personality is really not suitable, divide into classes, you can learn with peace of mind, see more, do more, and think more. Assigned to that class is that class. Of course cheating is not fun.

That scar doesn't really matter. Everyone cares about themselves, and not many people care about your scar. Really, just like I used to have hair on my legs and wanted to remove my hair,,No one cares if you have hair [scars] or not, to put it mildly, others may not care if you die.

The ancients said that heroes are not judged by their birth and appearance. In this life, people want to live a sound and colorful life. First of all, have faith in yourself, everything is done by people.

Although my appearance is not good, my family background is not good, and I didn't work hard before or I didn't achieve good results after working hard, as long as I work hard, everyone can see it, and I must believe that diligence can make up for it. People who don't work hard and want to succeed are just delusions! Don't care about your own shortcomings, you have to care, others will care more.

You have to use your strengths to make up for your weaknesses, like the college entrance examination, although one score is not ideal, but other good grades can make up for it, you must know that the college entrance examination calculates the total score!

Question 1, you must have confidence in yourself, exercise your courage more, the teacher believes in you, you must also believe in yourself, and you must continue to do a good job for everyone to see.

Question 2, people don't push themselves, you don't know how good you are, how hard you work, and diligence can make up for your clumsiness.

Question 3, everyone has a love for beauty, you can go to the hospital to ask.

1 Continue when. Don't try to run away from the slightest difficulty, you have to face it.

2. How to study, the teacher has already taught you. I don't need to say any more.

3 Scars are on vacation to think about it, there is no need to think about this now.

As a sophomore, I would like to say that the key class is the place where talent is stifled. I used to be in the key class, but I didn't have any affection for that class. There are more than 30 people in the class, and I am not a good student, so the teacher does not pay attention to me.

When I was in junior high school, I was the first in the class, and my teachers valued me very much. So at that time, my heart was very unbalanced, and my grades were not improved.

And there is no affection between the classmates, and it feels like everyone is saying something insincere.

Later, I chose to quit the key class (my parents still supported me in doing so). Later, in my third year of high school, I transferred to the regular class, and I was in the top five in the class, and the teacher was always very good to me. I think if I had transferred out earlier, I would have taken the college entrance examination better, and it really made me unhappy in the key class.

In short, I can understand your distress, after all, they have all been in the same environment. I suggest that if you really don't like that group, you should apply to the school to change to the regular class, and don't feel embarrassed, regardless of what others think. I don't think a good group is a good group if everyone is strong individually.

Not necessarily, says the psychology teacher. It's like we're on a desert island, and we're going to cross the sea, but there's no boat.

And knowledge is a piece of wood.

If we want to get over, we have to build ships.

So pick up the pieces of wood.

But when we're over.

Boats are useless for us, however.

We say.

Isn't that block of wood useful?

I feel the same way, I was in high school, I rarely interacted with people, almost never talked to a woman, 3 years of classmates do not fully know the classmates, are all alone, in addition to studying or learning in my life, I can recite the textbooks of science casually, the problem that the teacher of science can not solve is not difficult for me to solve, but I am very afraid of being alone, and the view of the uselessness of reading also deeply affects me, I really want to change this situation, especially when it comes to the college entrance examination, I almost collapsed, Originally, everyone had high hopes for me, I actually chose to give up (thinking that the strength at that time, the admission to Tsinghua University and Peking University may be a bit stressful, but the entrance to Fudan and other famous universities is more than enough), to study in an ordinary university, at the beginning or habitually repeat the life of high school, when I first came to college, Mandarin can listen but will not learn (the local pronunciation is very strong, very non-standard), and I can't say a word for a long time, later, the classmates in the class know that I am particularly shy and do not speak, and actually elected me as a member of the study committee, and my roommates often call me Mandarin when they are freeAfter half of the study, I was able to communicate, and I had more contact with everyone, and I slowly changed myself, especially learned a hobby of playing basketball, and communicated more and more widely with everyone, and at the same time, I did not give up learning. Eventually, after graduating, I found that I was at least able to live independently and do things relatively well.

Therefore, combined with my own experience and your statement, I would like to give you a few suggestions: 1. Learning can not be lost, the most important energy is to study, the knowledge learned will be useful in the future, a lot of knowledge is mastered in daily life inadvertently, at the same time, now the resources of the society have been allocated, the social competition is more intense, mastering as much knowledge as possible will only put you in a more advantageous position, when you go out of the society, you will know, Now that I am working, I feel that the university still has not been able to grasp more and better knowledge, and I can't meet the needs of work; 2. Cultivate one or two hobbies, such as playing ball, running, joining clubs, etc., in the same activity process, you will come into contact with the same enthusiasts, and after many contacts, you will have interactions, and finally communicate slowly, you can get rid of your phobia of communication, and when you feel that you can communicate freely in the same circle, you will slowly expand the communication circle, which is more conducive to your development; 3. Find your homeroom teacher for help, explain your own ideas to him (her), and let the homeroom teacher and other teachers support you in your study and life, for example, if you have problems in learning, record them in time, ask the teacher for advice or find better classmates to help you in self-study or after class, and ask the teacher to ask you more simple questions in class, the key is to cultivate your self-confidence; 4. Go home and communicate with your family, your family will always be your supporter.