I have failed in life, and I don t know if I can go back to my old self

You are too unconfident and too easy to follow the crowd. What is the meaning that it is useless to find a job based on academic qualifications, mainly based on relationships? The students in our class are all on their own to find a job after graduation, no one is on a relationship, you can use the time to learn more practical skills and knowledge in graduate school, and you can also use the vacation to work and accumulate work experience, which is a good choice.

If you continue to complain like this, you will only get worse and less promising. Shenzhen, Beijing, Shanghai have a lot of opportunities for people who are prepared, rather than going on like this, it is better to make more preparations, when the opportunity is snatched away by others, but also to think about their own shortcomings, actively make up for their own shortcomings, and live every day seriously, so that there will be no regrets, and there will be no regrets. It's been 4 years since I graduated, and it hasn't been smooth sailing during this period, but no matter how I encounter problems, I won't complain, I have to work hard to improve, I hope it will help you.

Do you have a pimple in your heart? Do you feel like you can't compare to others, and you're afraid of being pointed at by others when you go out? Don't even go out of the house?

In fact, there are many people in this world who are sadder than you.

A lot of people can't even read a book. 3-to-5 grazing.

You should be glad.

Lincoln's twists and turns, have you experienced?

Don't be defeated by such a little setback in life.

Only those who stand up are strong.

Just think and don't do it, it's not for you to do it alone.

Guilt. It's normal to be anxious, but it's a bit too much for you to be in a hurry and feel guilty.

I haven't been to college yet. A lot of things are also not clear.

But when I think about it, the unemployment rate will definitely be even more impressive.

360 lines, the line out of the champion.

No one's life is absolutely smooth.

Don't expect God to give you opportunities.

Well, I'd like to help you with my approach to exams.

Hope it works. Let's draw up a ** first. You have to get yourself out of a state of full tension. Be satisfied with your day, go to bed early and wake up early.

You have to have faith in yourself and believe in your strength.

What you forget, start over.

If you can, focus on your career first. Be able to work hard to do a good job and encourage yourself.

Every profession must be taken seriously. They are all sacred.

If you can, set a goal, start anew, and take it one step at a time.

Read some inspirational books and get insights from them.

You need to communicate well with others and not close yourself off!

That's absolutely important!

Here's a small part of it. I can't think of much for a while.

Send me a message if necessary.

So, 2008, good luck.

Lincoln's path to success.

Born in 1809 in a lonely cabin in the silent wilderness.

In 1816, at the age of 7, the family was evicted from their place of residence. After a long trek through the wilderness, find a shack.

In 1818, at the age of 9, his mother died at the age of 34.

In 1826, at the age of 17, he was already able to do any farm work, often helping people with odd jobs.

In 1827, at the age of 18, he made a ferry boat himself.

In 1831, at the age of 22, he failed in business.

In 1832, at the age of 23, he ran for state legislature, but lost. I wanted to go to law school to study law, but I couldn't.

In 1833, at the age of 24, he borrowed money from a friend to start a business, and went bankrupt at the end of the year. It took the next 16 years to pay off the debt.

In 1834, at the age of 25, he ran for state legislature again and actually won.

In 1835, at the age of 26, when he was about to get married, his fiancée died, and his heart was broken.

In 1836, at the age of 27, he had a complete mental breakdown and was bedridden for 6 months.

In 1838, at the age of 29, he tried unsuccessfully to become a spokesman for the state legislature.

In 1840, at the age of 31, he tried to be elected and lost.

In 1843, at the age of 34, he participated in Congress** and lost again.

In 1846, at the age of 37, he again sat in Congress**, this time elected.

In 1848, at the age of 39, he sought re-election as a member of Congress, but failed.

In 1849, at the age of 40, he wanted to be the head of the land department in his own state, but was refused.

In 1854, at the age of 45, he ran for the Senate and was defeated.

In 1856, at the age of 47, he won less than 100 votes for the nomination of vice president at the Republican National Convention.

In 1858, at the age of 49, he ran for the Senate again and lost again.

In 1860, at the age of 51, he was elected to the United States.

Are you at home or in an internet café? Now that you're in the mood to go online to prove that your heart isn't broken, where are you now? You can work part-time for some money, give gifts to the boss, and believe that you will succeed!

The above is good, you just have to believe in yourself, give yourself some confidence!

I'm having exactly the same experience as you now.

Cry...

How to break through the key is in yourself. You have to cheer up and don't waste your future, you can now go to school while working, the future is good, only if you work hard, you will not regret it.

You should find a goal for yourself and complete it within the deadline, then there will be pressure in life, and there will be motivation when you have pressure!! Thank you!

Personally, I think there is no need to reconcile, since he went to Hainan to meet his ex-girlfriend, you should make up your mind, there is no need to recover. I think the tears he shed at that time were just that he felt very wronged and felt that he had been treated unfairly by his ex-girlfriend, and he didn't have to think about the good with self-righteousness.

The man who is in the morning and twilight is the most hateful and the most pathetic, what is the use of this hateful and pathetic man?! It is not cruel not to give him a chance, but to give him a chance to know what is the basis of being a real man; It is not cruel not to give him a chance, but to tell him what he can try and what he cannot cross in life.

You must guard the line of defense of your feelings, once there is a deviation, even the color of life may become bleak.

Finally, I wish you the happiness that truly belongs to you!!

...Don't care what happens to him, think about what you should do, relationship problems, meet and communicate well, find out their own problems, improve them, solve the fundamentals, as for whether this relationship can continue, it is up to you to decide, not necessarily if he returns to your heart, you have to accept it.

Then give him a chance! In fact, you yourself love him very much, otherwise you wouldn't be so troubled. Now that they know what is wrong and know how to cherish it, such a man will be more mature than before!!

First of all, why do you say that the other person doesn't believe you?

When you feel that the other person doesn't believe you, have you ever thought that this is also your distrust of him?

And since you came out to work, why not work in the same area?

Do you know? No matter how deep the relationship is, it can't stand the test of time and distance, if two people want to be together, then the distance between the two of you can't be close or too far apart.

Listen to me, if you really want to be together, you can take a few days off to see him. Make sure he still wants to be together, and if he really wants to spend time with you, then you quit your job and go to him, or let him work with you.

It is also very important to note that many couples who have been married for a lifetime when others ask them why they can last for a lifetime.

But the answer is strikingly similar, that is, "No matter how the husband and wife quarrel, one of them must give in and admit defeat." Whether he did it wrong or not, someone had to throw in the towel."

The mood is understandable. But that's it. Have you looked for the reason from yourself?

Why doesn't he believe you? Especially since you are in a different place, why are you arguing? None of us outsiders know your specific situation!

For example, if he wants to end a long-distance relationship, be together or get married, and you don't agree and there is no reason to convince him, can he believe you? Or maybe he has lost confidence in your long-distance relationship and really wants to break up.

I suggest you communicate well, talk about what you have in your heart, and ask him what he thinks. Eliminating the contradictions between you is not the way to go on like this, is it?

You said that a few days after the breakup, he hit you **? Did you say the breakup or did he say it?

The dust side straight way is painted on the time of the quiet pigeon.

The iron shield practiced singing Heng Fan and used it pretendically.

The earth is moving, time is flowing, and everything changes with change. Nothing can go back to the past, let the past pass! Losing or gaining is just a kind of learning experience in life, a test of life, and a lesson to each other.

Always remember not to repeat the mistakes of the past, know how to cherish, and know how to love hard-won.

It's impossible to be together again, it's hard to accept, and it's hard to solve the original problems together, which is why some people break up and get back together and finally break up! Some people know their own problems but don't want to change them, and some people don't know their own problems and they won't change them!

No, the broken mirror can't be reunited, even if everyone thinks it's okay for the time being, it will inevitably pull out the previous things in later life. It will be very sad by then.

Hey, the shortcomings found when they broke up, can they be reunited after reconciliation, this has to be understood and tolerated by two people. You can do that.

Yes, I cherish it more than ever. Lose once, won't lose again.

Definitely, what is lost will know how to cherish it more, and I wish you happiness.

Take the initiative to talk to the other person and open the knots in your heart as long as you work hard and be sincere, and the cracks can be repaired.

I can't, because there is a gap in my heart.

What is lost will not come back, and what is returned is no longer beautiful and precious.

No, there is always a crack in my heart.

It depends on the belly of both sides, yes. I'm a 10-year-old child.

No. Or nostalgia at night. Charming eyes with bad expressions.

No, there will be another breakup in the future.

Yes, but it's no longer true love.

Yes, but it depends on whether you hurt her.

Be sensible and explain the words to the other party.

To truly love someone is not to possess the other person, but to make the other person's life easy and happy, and everyone is sad all the time.

I don't think there are many people who can do that, and I suggest that if you can give up your family [of course, both parties] and still have the same happiness as you imagined, then why not [have to bear n pressure].

Don't say how I break up the family...

No one is right or wrong in a relationship, and people are selfish.

After all, a generation can only have so much time to be able to love the person they love until death I don't think it will be old There will be no regrets Maybe there is a little regret I think you will also smile and think back to the past Only we once loved vigorously...

I have a family, and I'm still so tired.

Maybe life is too dull.

You must know that there is a saying that only when you lose do you know how to cherish.

You lost the sweetness of your ambiguity with your lover, so you came to cherish it.

So if one day you lose the love and trust of your husband, do you want to run away and jump into the sea?

I don't want to help you solve this problem, what kind of moral sin is it to have a better ambiguity with a lover...

It's easier for you to be a human being when nothing happens.

Although you don't have a sense of guilt or shame, you have to be careful of retribution.

How is it possible to go back to the way things were?

It's you who can't control it, if you don't know what he thinks, it's a deception to yourself, once some boundaries are broken, they are irreparable, unhappy because there is a moral character in the bottom of your heart to blame yourself, love can have no reason, but it doesn't mean that there is no reason, true love is never selfish.

It's hard to be a good friend again, and it may be realistic to be a confidant, because you can't walk out on your own.

Confidants and lovers are very different, and if you understand this truth, you may have a better mentality.

I would like to ask you a few questions:

1.Do you still love your home and your husband?

2.Do you love this "colleague" of yours?

3.Which do you think is more important than your home, your husband, or your co-workers?

4.Can your colleagues entrust you to the future?

In the meantime, ask this "colleague" of yours with these questions

Actually, it's not surprising that you have such an idea! The key is to have such an idea, you have to use an objective and rational method to solve it! Don't ruin 2 families because of your impulsiveness.

Even if you could be together, there would be so much to endure.

It is easy for people to think like this, often things that are easy to get, cherish things that they don't understand, and things that they don't get often think are the best.

Make good use of your respective families! I hope you get out of this state as soon as possible, and I wish you happiness!

Since they are all people with families, let's put away the impulse, and what you want to say should be kept in your heart and slowly worn out. It may be difficult for you to go back to that feeling, but this is the way to avoid continuing to make mistakes.

I agree with you. Because I'm like that too.

When reading. We have a good relationship. They also like each other. But none of them took that step.

But. Alas. Now it's a virtual friend with no contact. I've been really sad for more than a year.

The mood has not been calm.

Excuse me. Landlord. I didn't give you any advice, but I had to give it here when I came here.