With a second married person, is it really like this?

Can I say that you are cheap, what do you love him because you lack love and you are hungry? You're only 20 years old, what are you stupid about, are you worthy of yourself and your parents? You should choose yourself again, come out, and redefine your future, your marriage.

1.One infidelity is not used for life, and since there is a first betrayal, there will be a second one.

2.People like him are very selfish people, who treat feelings completely as a kind of demand, and will talk sweetly when they need you, and try to get you away when they don't need you.

3.Even if you get back together, he will betray you when he has the opportunity to be with other women in the future.

Feelings are mutual, and since you have chosen, you should comply with the most basic requirements.

This man doesn't deserve your love a second time, scumbag, break up with him and continue to look for the next happy marriage.

I don't think you need to pay attention to such people anymore, it's better to find your own love, maybe this is not your real love.

If you can't accept the grievances, let go as soon as possible, he is unfair to you like this, and the days ahead are still very long, so there is no need to suffer yourself so much.

First I ask a very simple question.

Is he the only one of the opposite sex in this world?

I think the biggest problem is you.

It is not a question of who is right and who is wrong in the cases mentioned in your question.

It's the root cause of your relationship.

How can people not go over, it's okay for him to have an ex-wife, they are handled separately, and you think about it, that's fine.

But his ex-wife can get back together if she wants to, what are you? People want to come back to you, and you agree again? To put it mildly, are you really short of men?

Won't the earth turn without him? Why are you so casual and eating back grass again? This kind of problem has nothing to do with a sense of security.

So I'm going to repeat, the biggest problem is you.

Your question is not actually asking someone else to solve your problem.

Instead, let everyone analyze what they did wrong and help you accurately summarize what they were wrong. Maybe you are stupid, and when they accuse you, you can't hold back a word, and can only say a few words simply. You want to have a big outburst to refute them the next time they accuse you.

I saw that one of them was also accusing you, and his speech was just as ugly as mine. Everyone actually hates the mentality that iron does not become steel.

As people, we really want to solve problems for the questioner. And because you can't see this clearly or rationally as we do, I really think there's a problem, so I want you to get out of this state as soon as possible.

Is it possible to solve the problem by comforting you with a few words? I feel warm in my heart when I listen to others comforting me today, but I will continue to open it tomorrow.

Rely on yourself to digest the top ghost.

Let's be realistic.

Read your description carefully, very sympathetic to your experience, I feel that the man you know is erratic, and his feelings for you are also unstable, not true love for you, you are in this whirlpool, it is better to quit and find your true love, you are only 20 years old so young, you will find someone who really loves you, many of us are passers-by in our lives, don't care too much, go and find your true life, I wish you all the best!

This question is not absolute, and everyone's situation is different. However, some of the factors that can cause a second marriage to go unwell include:

1.Unresolved issues: If the problems in the previous marriage were not resolved, such as miscommunication, financial problems, personality incompatibility, etc., these problems may reappear in the second marriage.

3.Family and social pressures: Some people may experience pressure from family and society, such as opposition from relatives and friends, social prejudice against second marriage, etc., which can have a negative impact on marriage.

4.Psychological problems: Some people may have been hurt in their previous marriage, leading to psychological problems such as anxiety, depression, etc., which may affect how they behave and get along in their second marriage.

It is important to point out that the above factors are not absolute, and everyone's situation is different. If you can take marriage seriously, solve problems, and establish good communication and getting along with each other, you can be very happy in your second marriage.

Mainly because if they get married for the second time, they are affected by the first marriage, they tend to be timid and cautious, and there may be problems with stepsons and stepdaughters, and it is difficult to find a balance among them.

Because everyone has more ideas about the second marriage, they all have their own calculations in terms of economy, and they are very calculating, so it is very difficult to have a good time.

Because both parties to the second marriage will have their own plans, and they will not put all their thoughts on each other. They all want to be kind to themselves.

Summary. Just now you asked if two people who are married for the second time can be happy, but the teacher smiled and told you that whether you can be happy mainly depends on how the other party treats you, including whether he is a very responsible person.

Good afternoon, dear, your question teacher has seen it, please don't rush away, be patient for a while, thank you very much [Bixin].

My dear, two people who are married for the second time are together, and the teacher thinks that there are advantages and disadvantages.

Oh. The biggest advantage of two second-married people being able to come together is that because they have had a lot of failed experiences in their previous marriages, or have been hurt by a lot of Pi Qi, then when two people with very similar experiences come together again, they will know more how to understand, love, tolerate each other, and understand each other, and it may be easier to get along.

So what about the bad part? It may be that if both parties have had children before, then there are some drawbacks in this regard.

That's it, my dear, are you having a problem?

My dear, what about your question, the teacher has already heard.

Just now you asked where the two second-married people can be happy, but the teacher smiled and told you that the potato slow can be happy, the main reason is that the number of springs depends on how the other party treats you, including whether he is a very responsible person.

What kind of person do you think he is? Does he match the person you imagined?

The first marriage is more simple, the emotional attitude is more concerned, will put themselves in the other party's shoes, the second marriage they have their own thoughts, the interests are more important, never easy to deliver trust.

The biggest difference is that people who are married for the first time are full of yearning for love and are relatively simple, while people who are married for the second time become more realistic after experiencing the polishing of marriage.

I think there is a very big difference between the two, two people in the first marriage have one heart for the children, and the two people in the second marriage have selfish intentions.

I think it is very important to have a sincere heart for your partner, regardless of whether you are married for the first time or the second marriage, and the most fundamental difference between them is that they have been married before the second marriage.