My husband drank and then hit me at night and hurt me very badly, what should I do Divorce or forgiv

Updated on healthy 2024-06-05
24 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You can't forgive him easily, let him admit his mistakes, and don't make an example, don't drink again in the future, see how he reacts, and if he knows his mistakes, he can change them.

    It can be forgiven, but it cannot be forgiven if he does not recognize his mistakes.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If your husband is occasionally drinking and playing drunk, and he is still very good to you after he is sober, it means that your husband's character is not bad, but it is not good to be drunk, as long as he drinks less and does not overdose, similar things will not happen again, and the family is still happy, if your husband often drinks and finishes drinking, he beats you and beats you very hard, in this case, you have to consider your personal safety, because it is difficult for people who drink to restrain their behavior, who can guarantee that you have no life safety? So you have to think twice, there is also a situation where you are often beaten, then you must be hurt psychologically, there must be a sense of fear towards your husband, especially as soon as your husband goes out to drink, you will have a kind of nervousness, do you know what kind of treatment your husband will face when he comes back, live in fear all day, is this the life you want? You have to think about it, if the communication with your husband is fruitless, it is up to you to choose.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It all depends on your own thoughts, if you feel that you can still live with him, then choose to forgive, if it is completely unnecessary, there is only divorce.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you want to forgive, you have to react to him, look at his performance and actions, you can't say that you forgive him directly, then you will make such a mistake again in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There will be countless times of domestic violence, and you said that the injury is very serious. Wait until the second day to sober up and see what kind of attitude he has. However, domestic violence is such a thing, and I still advise you not to tolerate it.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If he kills you after drinking, and you are seriously injured, go directly to the hospital for a birth evaluation, and then sue him.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you hit it once, there will be a next time! You go for a check-up! Sue for divorce! It's not worth wishing for cool!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forgiveness will lay the foundation for the next domestic violence.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The divorce. Two people get married together to enjoy life, rather than endure the torture of one side and leave decisively.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Of course, you should get divorced, he doesn't respect your thoughts at all, doesn't consider your inner feelings, and makes you feel very painful, then you should divorce early.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If your husband tortures you every time you come back from drinking, then you should get a divorce, because such a marriage is meaningless.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't think it should be forgiven, and violence in the family should never be tolerated for whatever reason.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I feel that you should not forgive him, you should teach him a lesson, or he will not change next time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't think it's better not to let him go home, or not let him drink.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    can't forgive, go to the Civil Affairs Bureau Fu Ying to go through the divorce procedures. If the parties cannot divorce through negotiation, they can go to court to sue for divorce.

    The Ministry of Civil Affairs of the People's Republic of China is the leading department in charge of social administrative affairs. The predecessor was the "Ministry of the Interior" established in 1949, renamed the "Ministry of the Interior of the People's Republic of China" in 1954, abolished in 1969, and established the "Ministry of Civil Affairs of the People's Republic of China" in 1978, which continues to this day.

    The Ministry of Civil Affairs implements the guidelines, policies, and decision-making arrangements of the Civil Affairs Department for Hail, and adheres to and strengthens the Party's centralized and unified leadership over civil affairs work in the course of performing its duties. The main responsibilities are:

    1) Draft laws and regulations, policies, and plans for the development of civil affairs, formulate departmental rules and standards, and organize their implementation.

    2) Draft measures for the registration, supervision and management of social organizations such as social groups, associations, and social service organizations, and organize their implementation, and conduct management and law enforcement oversight of social organizations in accordance with law.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If it can be proved that domestic violence does exist and that the divorce was caused by domestic violence, the injured party can file a lawsuit in court for divorce.

    You can't indulge him like that, and if you don't compromise in the first place, he won't be what he is. You have cultivated him step by step into a generation of wife beaters, and he was originally a good seedling, so that you can cultivate him into such a dirty man. Don't you know the truth that people are good at being bullied and horses are good at being ridden?

    From now on, Zhang Zhang is angry, a little backbone, if he beats you again, you will never forgive him. Swear a poisonous oath, and if you hit it again, you will never accept any bullshit confession, you swear poison. Fix your spineless problem.

    With the increase of social pressure, the incidence of domestic violence is increasing year by year. The forms of domestic violence mainly include physical violence, cold violence, economic violence, sexual violence, etc., and usually occur between family members who are related by blood, marriage, or adoption. Women and children are the main victims of domestic violence, and some middle-aged and older people, men and people with disabilities also become victims of domestic violence.

    Domestic violence can result in death, serious injury, minor injury, physical pain or mental anguish.

    If there is violence in the marriage, you can divorce by agreement and go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to handle it. If the negotiation fails, the divorce will be sued. The Marriage Law establishes the general principle of resolving the issue of child support, which is determined by proceeding from the interests of the physical and mental health of the children and the protection of the legitimate rights and interests of the children, and taking into account the specific circumstances of the parents' ability to raise and the conditions for raising them.

    Children under the age of two generally live with the woman; If both men and women are not obviously at fault, and the conditions are equal in all aspects, if the woman's ideological quality is better and she has more time to take care of the child, she will be more likely to get custody of the child; Children over the age of 10 may choose to live with their mother or father and repay the debts incurred by the husband and wife who originally lived together with the husband and wife, and repay them with joint property. If the property is insufficient to be repaid, the two parties shall agree to settle the repayment; If the agreement is not reached, the people's court shall make a judgment. Debts incurred by a man and a woman alone shall be repaid by the man and woman.

    Specifically, a lawyer may be entrusted.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, you must divorce, if he really loves you, then he will quit drinking, instead of using drinking to abuse you, this kind of person is simply unforgivable, hurry up and stay away.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I am a partner lawyer of the platform and have received your questions. Please wait a moment while I take a look at your question.

    Does the other party often do things to you, right, and what is the reason for doing things in general? Did you go to the hospital after you were beaten? x0b In fact, if you have suffered domestic violence, you can ask for help from the nearest police station or the women's federation or village committee in the street, and if you report to the police directly, you can also apply to the police station for a personal safety protection order.

    If you haven't called the police or gone to the hospital before, I suggest that you must pay attention to protecting yourself in the future, if the other party does it to you again, you should remember to call the police in time, and leave evidence of your injury (hospital records or injured **), collect all the evidence of the other party's domestic violence against you, and then you can use these as evidence to sue for divorce if you want. According to the Anti-Domestic Violence Law, victims of domestic violence and their legally-designated persons and close relatives may make complaints, feedback, or seek assistance from the perpetrator or the victim's unit, residents' committee, villagers' committee, women's federation, and other units.

    I can understand your situation. After all, do you want a divorce or do you want to forgive the other party after talking about the situation? If you are ready to forgive the other person, I recommend that you talk to the other person here.

    If you want to get a divorce, based on the situation of the parties I have contacted here, I recommend that you calm down first, and then if there is evidence, take the evidence to talk to the other party. Talk to the other party and see if the other party agrees to divorce you by agreement. If the other party is unwilling to divorce and you still want to divorce, you can consider filing a lawsuit for divorce.

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  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think you should divorce him, because if you continue to live like this, sooner or later you will break down, get depressed, and even do extreme things.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The departure. The first reason is that there will be countless times of domestic violence, the second reason is that the drunk beater is extremely terrible, the third reason is that domestic violence is easy to endanger his life, the fourth reason is that he will never correct his mistakes, and the fifth reason is that domestic violence is extremely hurtful to the soul.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think you should get a divorce, don't be soft-hearted, because domestic violence has become a habit, and there will be countless times in the future, and you can't bear it at all.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There are two kinds of men: 1. Those who will never hit a woman; 2. If you hit it for the first time, there will be a second time. Therefore, whether it can be forgiven, I believe there is already an answer.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think you should forgive him. Because he'll hit you again after the next drink. It is advisable to divorce earlier and leave this kind of man.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Domestic violence is divided into 0 times and countless times, he now has the first time, and if you don't leave him, there will be a second time, so you have to leave him early.

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