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Anonymous users2024-02-12In the event of the death of someone in your boyfriend's family, whether you should see him or not depends on your relationship and local customs.
1.If you are not in a close relationship or you are in different places with different customs, then you can decide whether to meet your boyfriend or not based on the customs of your location. If, according to your local custom, you are not allowed to meet outsiders during this time, then you can keep your distance and wait until this time has passed before meeting him.
2.If you have a close relationship and you feel deep sympathy for his bereavement, you may choose to meet him. You can express your comfort to him and let him know that you are there for him and are willing to support him.
Whether you decide to meet your boyfriend or not, respect his emotional and psychological state at this time. At this moment, he may need your understanding and support more than external pressure or strange eyes.
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Anonymous users2024-02-11Hello! This is a feudal problem, different places are not the same, the customs are different, this I believe you should know, if your boyfriend is a relative, then you had better not go, after all, the impact is not good. If he asks you to go, then just tell you, try not to mess with your boyfriend, this is not good, if it is not a relative, it doesn't matter, you can meet how you want, but you must also be restrained, after all, someone has passed away, I hope you will understand, and filial piety is the first.
A person who is not filial is looked down upon by no one.
The above is purely personal opinion.
I wish you a speedy solution to your troubles.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Someone in my boyfriend's family has died, can I go see him when I come back? For this problem, I think there is no need not to meet, there is nothing taboo, those who say how much time you can't see people are superstitious, as a young person in the new era, you should not be entangled, if you love your boyfriend very much, you should give him comfort and care.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09The death of my boyfriend's grandmother is a normal birth, old age, sickness and death, as a girlfriend, I can comfort it, and I should meet and condolence when I come back.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08It's just a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, it's not a family, and there is no name when you salute, so it's okay not to go. Whether a person loves you or not, you should know it in your own heart, don't ask others.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07If your boyfriend's family dies, you don't need to be involved in the funeral.
But after a year or two of love, it is a real thing to get married in time.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06If your boyfriend's family dies and he doesn't take you home, is he sincere to you? I don't think he's sincere, he's keeping an eye on it.
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No, anyway, in our customs here in Guangxi, after this happens, you can't go to someone else's married home, but you can send gifts, or you can't send gifts, others won't blame you, because in the eyes of others, you can't rush red things within 100 white things.
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I don't think it has anything to do with it, this thing just happened by chance, why do you want to associate this accidental thing with reality?
You must tell him that the mourning is good, because of this. It will happen, after all, people are born, old, sick and die, so if something happens to their family, they must be comforted. Be sure to say things like empathy.