I have been dating my boyfriend for more than 1 month, and my father passed away suddenly, should my

First of all, allow me to express my regret for this sad event. The deceased is gone, and the mourning is changing.

Logically, there shouldn't be a need for your boyfriend who has just been dating for a month to be present, after all, the relationship between the two of you has not been fully confirmed, he is present as a friend, it is not appropriate, it is not appropriate to be present as a relative, and the relationship between the two of you is not close to that extent.

And your father just died, and you brought your boyfriend back home, and your mother is already in a bad mood, so there is a possibility that she will not agree with the relationship between the two of you, so my advice is that the boyfriend does not have to be there.

But it's best not to tell your boyfriend about this decision first, you should ask his opinion first. If he is willing to accompany you, it means that you have made a very close boyfriend, and I think you can get some comfort in your sad mood at this time.

Of course, if your boyfriend doesn't want to accompany you in the past, you can also take a good look at your mood and take advantage of the calmness when your father just died, and think about your future.

But even if your boyfriend is willing to accompany you to your father's funeral, don't bring him to your mother right away, but let him wait for you before the funeral is over. You will definitely be in a bad mood after attending the funeral, and he can comfort you at this time.

But advice is still advice after all, and I can't fully understand how you're feeling. If you're in a particularly bad mood and need someone to talk to, you can also tactfully remind your boyfriend to come along. But after all, this is not in accordance with etiquette, so properly considering the feelings of your mother and your recently deceased father will also help you make a choice.

Yes, he should respect you, respect your father, if he has you in his heart and wants to marry you, then he should go, it doesn't matter how long the relationship is, and now is also the time when you need him the most.

Yes! But you have to make it public about your boyfriend and girlfriend, and if you don't, just show up as a friend!

I think this should be combined with the actual situation, after all, you and your boyfriend are just starting to fall in love, and the relationship is not stable, and the understanding between each other may not be very good, so it is better to be cautious, but if you have determined that he wants to take him home to meet his parents in advance, then you can think again.

I think there is pure friendship between men and women. If it's not pure friendship, then why aren't two people together when they're single. It's just that many people deliberately engage in ambiguity and pretend to be friends, so there seems to be no pure friendship between men and women.

I think marriage is a matter of two people, but if his mother doesn't agree, I still have to find a way to convince him. If you insist on getting married, it will be difficult to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future.

Love, marriage, and family are a major event in life. It's not easy to meet someone who understands you and loves you.

Then at this time, it is time to let your boyfriend communicate well and convince his mother.

I think at this time you need to understand the reason, why not agree? Then ask your boyfriend to do psychological counseling for his mother.

If the other party's family has already recognized you, you go, if you don't know or acquiesce to your existence, then there is no need to show up.

Your relationship with your boyfriend has developed to the point where both parents approve of it. Of course you have to go when this boyfriend's father dies, and you are obliged. You have to put yourself in the position of a daughter-in-law, care for your boyfriend's mother, and his family, and comfort your boyfriend's grief.

If possible, you should also ask your parents to attend his funeral as well. In this way, there will be a better relationship between the two relatives. As the saying goes, there is an opportunity in a crisis, and this is a time for you to respect and understand and establish family affection.

In 2012, when the father of a colleague with whom we had a very good relationship passed away suddenly, we learned the news at 9 o'clock in the evening, and another colleague and I did not hesitate to ride a motorcycle that night and took my wife there. Eighty kilometers, we will be there in about two hours. The next day, the colleague's girlfriend also arrived early in the morning, as a prospective daughter-in-law, with a black veil wrapped around her arm, and her father also came.

It can be seen that educated families know what to do at such times!

I think at this time, in addition to accompanying my boyfriend to the funeral if possible, it is more important to comfort my boyfriend, he must be really sad now. I think so, when a boy is uncomfortable, he must think "the boy doesn't flick when he has tears", and he will try not to worry you. But at the same time, as a partner, I must prove it with my actions

In your toughest moments, I'm here. As for the self-esteem damage that might be considered, I think that if the partner is close enough, then it is natural to trust the other person not to hurt themselves. In ordinary life, you should also make him believe that in the face of great rights and wrongs, you will not slander him or abandon him, and that you are interdependent and mutually understanding.

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My boyfriend's father has passed away, but his parents haven't seen you yet, you should go back home and see, it's hard to say things like this, although you want to help her comfort her, it's better to have you by your side, but I think this kind of thing, you ask for your boyfriend's opinion, and your parents' hearts, if your boyfriend wants you to go, I actually since you have recognized him as your boyfriend, then you can also go, and then you must ask your parents, after all, it is your own parents, Don't let your children suffer and be fooled, look at things like this, can you go? So after asking for their opinions, you are making a decision, because you can't think too much about it, whether to give it or not? There has been a request for advice, and later, a decision will be made.

My boyfriend's dad died, they haven't seen me yet, should I go?

Hello dear! We're happy to answer for you! My boyfriend's father has died, but his parents haven't seen you yet, you should go back to the family to see it, it's hard to say things like this, although you want to help her comfort her, it's better to have you by your side, but I think this kind of thing, you ask for your boyfriend's opinion, and your parents' hearts, if your boyfriend wants you to go, I live in the nucleus Since you have recognized him as your boyfriend, then you can also dig it out, and then you must ask your parents, after all, it is your own parents, Don't let your children suffer and be fooled, look at things like this, can you go?

So after asking for their opinions, you are making a decision, because you can't think too much about it, whether to give it or not? There has been a request for advice, and later, a decision will be made.

I haven't passed through their house yet.

Dear, the most important thing about this is to look at the attitude of your boyfriend.

See if he minds if you go.

I haven't been to their house yet, this is the first time.

He wants me to accompany him back!

But wouldn't it be bad to meet his father when he first entered the door?

Dear, then you can let him communicate with his mother.

There is generally nothing wrong with this, and you still have to live on your own.