My boyfriend s father has passed away, and as a girlfriend, how can I comfort him?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
7 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You can tell him that his father is watching him in heaven um, and then say something to cheer him up.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    This is just a silent companionship, and you have to release it when you need to release it, don't comfort it too much.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The best way to comfort him is to be by his side and let him know that you are with him at all times and that no words are superfluous at this time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Persuade him more while he weeps.

    He should feel sad now, because I was sad when my grandfather died. I was raised by my grandmother and grandfather since I was a child, they have always loved me, when I was in my third year of high school, my lord died, I rushed home from school, I felt for the first time that time was so slow, the way home was so long, there is a custom in our family, that is, when the family died, it would be put on three days before being buried, you three days I have been kneeling next to my grandfather's coffin, but really not a single tear can not flow, this time I know that when you are really sad, It's supposed to be this feeling, my brother didn't see his grandfather for the last time, when he got home, kneeling there, the family said, you say something, your grandfather can't let go of you before leaving, where my brother kneeled and couldn't say a word, we all knew he was very sad, and finally everyone persuaded him to finally speak, saying: Master, I'm back.

    My grandfather didn't close his eyes when he left, just because he didn't see my brother.

    In fact, it was really sad, I still remember that my mother was already crying and really became a tearful person, I persuaded her, I said Mom, don't cry, my mother hugged me and said: Girl, your grandfather is gone, I can't call him dad when I go home in the future, I don't have a dad anymore, I left tears at that time. But she has already said all the sadness in her heart, as long as he wants to say it, you listen, because this is the best time to get in touch with his thoughts, no matter what he says, you don't have to refute it, he just wants to find someone to talk to.

    You can tell him: life is born in nature and returns to nature, just back to the world that originally belonged to him, he will silently guard you in another world, he doesn't want his departure, can make you so sad, you are like this, how can he be at ease, although Dad is gone, but there is still Mom, you have to be good, help Dad take care of Mom, and fulfill Dad's wishes, he must still be very uncomfortable in his heart, so no matter what, he must let him say it, People say that one happiness becomes two parts of happiness after sharing, and one part of pain becomes half part pain after sharing. The tears may really dry up in the end, but this wound will remain in my heart for a lifetime.

    But no matter what, life has to go on, and tomorrow will still come, so tell him that you have to cheer up. Even if it's not for yourself, for me, for your mother, you have to cheer up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Kiss, this time. You don't say something about people who die and can't be resurrected. Words of mourning.

    That's his real father. Not just one person. How can you say that if you are not sad, you will not be sad.

    You'd better not talk too much. Clockwork a message or leave a message. Just say.

    Your dad must want to see you strong right now. If he doesn't return. You don't want to send it.

    People don't want to talk much at this time. You talk a lot. It only makes him more annoyed.

    What he needs now is to be quiet. Take care of the things at home yourself. You can't say much.

    A word of comfort is enough. Don't hit ** all the time. Wait until this thing is over.

    I'm comforting her. Arguably. Your comfort now is to no avail.

    It's just a superficial action. Try to talk as little as possible at this time.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. The family will live well over there. I don't want to see people upset.

    2. The happiness of the living is the best comfort for the deceased, and you must work hard to make yourself happy for the hope of the elderly!

    3. Don't be too sad, he can look at us. When we are happy, he can feel at ease, this is his old man's greatest wish, isn't it?

    4. Birth, old age, sickness and death are the normal feelings of human beings. Birth, old age, sickness and death, the law of nature! Don't be too sad, he will feel your filial piety!

    5. Birth, old age, sickness and death, everything is a natural phenomenon; Since ancient times, no one has died, as long as he always lives in my heart.

    6. The dead rest in peace, and the living must muster up the courage to face life again, I will be by your side and support you! Condolences change!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    His loved ones passed away and he was grieving and sad, and as a girlfriend, you can say this:

    My dear, there is no resurrection from death! Take care!

    Do what you can, have no regrets in your heart, and give it another ride!

    We all have to live well, cherish every day, the impermanence of life, let us know that everyone will have a day away.

    My heart hurts to see you so sad, but my dear, I still have to advise you, don't be too painful, okay? I'll always be with you, hug!

    My boyfriend's loved one has passed away, how can I comfort myself as a girlfriend.

    Good evening, it is a pleasure to serve you [handshake] [handshake].

    His loved ones died, grieving and sad, as a girlfriend, you can say something like: Honey, people can't be resurrected after death! Take care!

    Do what you can, have no regrets in your heart, and give it another ride! We all have to live well, cherish every day, the impermanence of life, let us know that everyone will have a day away. My heart hurts to see you so sad, but my dear, I still have to advise you, don't be too painful, okay?

    I'll always be with you, hug!

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