What to do if the child does not follow discipline in school

I don't know how old your child is!

It's a parent's problem in general! The child was born, a glass of water, why is it turbid now!? I hope that parents can see their own problems through their children! When prenatal education, parents, especially mothers, have prenatal education! Don't use mahjong as a prenatal seed!

The following is a problem that a child does not like to study, for reference!!

Children don't like to learn, which means that parents themselves have problems! Let's see if your hearts are in a hurry, chaotic! I can't calm down!!

Having children is like a mirror that reflects the problems of parents! Don't force it.

The way to let children learn is actually very simple, and the steps are as follows:

1.The fundamental thing is that parents do their own duty, grow up their children's filial piety, kindness, humility, etc., parents do a good job in this aspect of the child will have absolute trust in the parents! Naturally, I will listen to my parents!!

2.Parents don't watch TV or computers and play with other things, etc., children think that their parents don't watch it, it must be boring! As long as parents hold a book to read every day, and find it interesting, children will naturally fall in love with reading.

3.Learning must be skillful and convenient, such as teaching him a good picture book first, it must be about virtue, and there will be no *** after reading it! Then teach him to read and write, etc.

4.Teach your children to be good people often, and your children will feel that their parents are great! Remember that the key to children's reading is stamina! Morality is stamina!

Children who are truly filial will not let their parents worry about it, and they are absolutely conscious of learning!!

Teaching students according to their aptitude, the specific situation has to be analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

First of all, children are not born to be disciplined, and it is taught by adults that children will be disciplined. When faced with children with poor classroom discipline, parents should reflect on whether their children are receiving too little or too much attention at home. Children who pay too little attention will be destructive in getting the attention of others.

Children who pay too much attention will want to extend this high-attention model to school. Therefore, we should spend more time with our children, give them attention, let them feel loved and cared for, and slowly help them get rid of bad habits.

What should parents do if their children have poor classroom discipline?

1. Parents should lead by example and set a positive example. The child's problems are more the result of family education. When children have problems, we parents should first reflect on ourselves and find our own problems, because children's problems are often the crux of family education and the shadow of parents.

2. Communicate with your child repeatedly to help them correct it. Teachers can only be the disseminators of knowledge, and parents are the most important leaders of children's behavior, and parents are the homeroom teachers of children's lives!

3. The concept of discipline should also be instilled in children in daily life, such as not making loud noises in public places, not running around in the library, so that children can learn to be disciplined from an early age.

4. Arbitrarily beating, scolding, and severely punishing, which will only backfire.

5. Cultivate and establish children's sense of rules at home, so that children know what to do in school. And tell the child why they should follow the rules. What kind of inconvenience will it cause to everyone if they do not comply.

Before your child goes to school, make an agreement with your child about what he will do during class. For example, when the teacher is lecturing, you can't talk, you can't eat, you can't make small movements, and you should listen carefully to the teacher's lecture.

6. Do not overindulge the child, and when the child makes a mistake, it is necessary to criticize and educate in a timely manner. Most of the children's behaviors are over-spoiled by their parents, making them feel that they are the only ones in the sky and on the earth, and slowly develop a situation where there is no one in their eyes. Parents should stop their children's behavior in time, correct their children's wrong behaviors and words in a timely manner, and give a certain degree of criticism and education.

7. Cooperate with the teacher, the family and the school together, and don't put the hope of strict discipline on the teacher completely. I have seen many parents think like this, and they all hope that teachers are strict with their children, but while they ask teachers to be strict with their children, they are spoiled and pampered with their children, and the teacher's strictness is useless for children.

8. Parents should be patient. Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, children's poor discipline is not formed overnight, and if you want to change, you must train slowly. For example, every day when I get home, let him sit quietly for ten minutes; You can also let your child practice calligraphy, write in a quiet state for ten minutes.

The time can be extended slowly until the child slowly learns to be disciplined.

If the classroom discipline is poor, parents should communicate more with their children, and parents should educate their children more and tell them to listen carefully during class, which will be more conducive to their children's academic performance.

You should teach your child well, tell him that it is wrong to do so, or set up some reward and punishment system for your child, and encourage your child more.

Parents should tell their children to listen carefully in class, respect the teacher, don't be naughty, if you want to play, you can play after class, and you must abide by classroom discipline, otherwise it will make your child think about it.

1. Lack of concentration and small movements.

Children who are inattentive are most likely to be distracted, make small gestures on their own, talk to their tablemates, or even leave their seats.

In the eyes of the teacher, this is obviously a manifestation of the child's failure to abide by classroom discipline, but the children with attention deficit are often involuntarily in a daze. For example, a parent once said to Xiao Jing: "I found that my child often makes some small movements when he writes homework, picks erasers with his fingernails, frequently touches his nose and eyes and ears, I ask him what he does, and he says, 'I haven't done anything'."

It's not that the child is lying, it's that when he makes small movements unconsciously, it's an unconscious distraction, not deliberate. For such children, whether it is parents or teachers, they cannot blindly rely on reminders, scolding or even corporal punishment to teach children, which often does not achieve the desired effect, but will hit children's interest and self-confidence in learning.

2. Emotional instability and poor self-control.

Children who are emotionally unstable are often in negative states such as sensitivity, imitation of nervousness, and anger, and are also more likely to have poor discipline.

For example, a parent said: "Our child has to rely on coaxing to do things, and when she is in a good mood, she will obediently cooperate, and when she is angry, she will be noisy and noisy, and she can't do anything." ”

Such children are completely dominated by emotions to rule the rules, rather than acting according to the pre-agreed rules, at home can rely on their parents and elders to patiently comfort and coax, once in the collective environment outside the family, it is easy to appear unsociable, difficult to get along and guide.