Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, do you agree with such a statement?

In today's society, most of us live in residential communities.

There are about two to three households on each floor. So the word neighbor is not new to us. In the world, how can we not encounter something, at this time, if the family is not only themselves, and need to ask for help, neighbors are our only choice.

As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and this sentence is very good and very true. Neighbors help each other and treat each other in a friendly way to create a good atmosphere. Behaviors and incidents that harm oneself and those that harm one's neighbors should be stopped, and only by doing a good job in the relationship between neighbors can our lives be better.

1. Help each other.

In life, we will always encounter some small difficulties, such as forgetting to bring the door key when we go out one day, and then we want to go to the toilet again. We can ask for help from our neighbors and borrow a bathroom. Well, if the relationship with your neighbors is not bad, it is quite harmonious.

Then the neighbor will definitely help you and borrow you the bathroom. If there is a conflict between you and your neighbor, then, at this time, the neighbor may not borrow your bathroom. At this time, won't you suffer?

Therefore, neighbors should be friendly with each other and help each other.

2. Civilization and harmony.

In life, there are often quarrels and fights between neighbors. Some people will unplug their neighbors' electricity if they are serious, leaving them without electricity. These are very negative news.

Civilization and harmony are the good moral standards that every citizen should have. Neighbors, helping each other, respecting and loving each other, are all things we should do. Only when neighbors live in harmony can we bring convenience and friendship to our lives.

Only when there is harmony between neighbors can we respect and help each other and live together under the same sky. With more understanding and less selfishness, our lives will be better, and getting along with each other will be more beautiful.

If it was a previous era, I would still agree with this statement. After all, everyone lives relatively close, and if you have a good relationship with your neighbors, you can naturally help each other. But in this day and age, I am not very in favor.

Especially for those who live in the community, many people basically don't know each other, let alone help.

Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors because this neighbor is closer, and when you encounter difficulties, he can be the first to arrive. But whether this neighbor can help you depends on your relationship. In the past, many neighbors, especially in the countryside, if one side was more domineering and encountered a little thing, there might be conflicts between the two sides.

One of my dad's cousins and my dad is a lingju, but their relationship is very bad. The reason for the incident is this, when the older generation built the house, they shared a wall, and then my parents started to build a new house, so they were ready to remove the wall, but the other party refused, and the two families began to quarrel. In fact, the people of the previous generation clearly wrote in black and white, that is, this wall belongs to my father, but people are just cheating, and then they will find you something to do when you build a house.

The two families didn't interact with each other after the quarrel, let alone help, and when they saw each other, they were like enemies. There are still many cases like them, and many brothers completely disregard family affection in order to compete for some small interests.

Of course, there are good relationships, everyone's circle is about the same, and you don't see you when you look up. So there are a lot of contacts, when the other party needs help, no need to squeak, they will take the initiative to help, especially some red and white ceremonies. But now the neighbors are different, everyone lives behind closed doors, and many people in the community don't know each other.

When doing some red and white ceremonies, I also directly hire some people to do it, so I don't have to owe favors, so the human touch is getting weaker and weaker, and basically it can't help much.

Distant relatives are lost in a long distance, and it is not very convenient to come and go, even if the relationship is close, once there is something urgent, it is impossible for people to fly over to help immediately. For example, some girls choose to marry far away for love, and once they are bullied by their husband's family, it is impossible for your mother's family to come over immediately. So even if there are any difficulties and grievances, you have to bear them yourself.

The path is chosen by oneself, and even if you kneel, you have to go down. Fortunately, the way of communication is becoming more and more convenient, and everyone can often see their relatives online through WeChat or QQ**. Despite this, many parents still don't want their daughters to marry far away and don't want their babies to be wronged.

I agree with this statement, because we don't have many relatives around us now, so the relationship between neighbors is very important.

In favor, relatives are far away many times can not help each other, neighbors are close to each other every day, you send me a meal and I will help you take the child, you help me get a courier and I will send you some fruit, and it is better to get along for a long time than relatives.

I agree with this statement, because no matter how close the relatives are, if they don't have contact for a long time, the relationship will gradually drift apart, but the neighbors will reach out and help if they can in many cases.

I agree with this statement, because the relationship between neighbors is very important, and in ordinary life, you can help yourself very well, and distant relatives cannot help you in time.

Of course, I am very much in favor of such a statement, because when I need help the most and I am helpless, my neighbor will help me very much, and having a very distant relative will not play a big role.

I am very much in favor of it, so it is important to maintain a good relationship with your neighbors in your daily life, so that it can play a certain role in times of crisis.

When he needs help, although his relatives will help, his relatives are too far away from him, and it is too late for him to wait for them to help him, just like distant water can't save a near fire. Neighbors are close to you, just around there, you can hear them just by shouting, and when you need help, it's convenient to call them... Of course, the premise is that you meet a good neighbor...

As the saying goes: Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. I have had a profound experience of this sentence.

That was more than ten years ago, when my family lived in the old neighborhood - Happiness. My family lives on the first floor, and across the street is a hard-working, vegetable seller couple with a boy of the same age as my child.

We don't usually have any contact, just meet and say hello, and the daily life of the couple is busy, so I chat with them about family life, and usually go to her vegetable stall to buy vegetables, so I can say a few words by the way. Living across the door, there is not much intersection, but there is no conflict, and there is a hidden harmony in silence.

Upstairs, on the second floor, there is a colleague's sister who is two years older than me, and her son is one year older than my child.

It was about the winter of 2008, and one night, it was already past nine o'clock, and I was about to wash up and go to bed. Suddenly, the doorbell rang, and I heard my sister upstairs calling my name eagerly and saying, "Come up to my house and see what is wrong with your brother-in-law?"

He lay on the ground. As soon as I heard that the situation was urgent, I didn't say a word, so I followed her and ran upstairs.

I saw my brother-in-law prostrate on the ground, and when he saw us coming, he stretched out his arm, as if he wanted to grab something to rely on, but he was physically exhausted, and he couldn't stand up, and he said something slurred. I said let's go to the hospital immediately, and my sister said, "It's just that her son just took a bath, and then, your brother-in-law was smoking there, and he collapsed after a while."

She said that her house had a shower powered by liquefied gas, and I immediately guessed if it was gas poisoning!

I said no, we have to go to the hospital! But the tall brother-in-law, we couldn't get him at all, so I hurriedly called the male owner on the opposite side of my house and the male owner on the third floor, so we carried my brother-in-law to the van that I usually used to pull vegetables at the door of my house. I hurried home, put on my coat, told my son, and went with him to the hospital.

In this way, as three neighbors of my sister's family, one of us came to accompany my brother-in-law to the hospital. After a series of examinations in the emergency department, the doctor diagnosed my brother-in-law with carbon monoxide poisoning and needed to be hospitalized**. A few of our neighbors followed until almost one o'clock in the middle of the night before returning.

Because my brother-in-law was sent to the hospital in time, he was discharged after a week in the hospital. During this time, we also visited my brother-in-law in the hospital.

It seems that there is no ordinary contact, but at a critical moment, a shout is coming, this is a good neighbor. Like the two people on the other side of my house, they get up at three o'clock in the morning to go to the wholesale market to get vegetables, and they don't even watch TV at night, so they have developed the habit of resting early and getting up early. On the night of the gas-fired brother-in-law upstairs, they had already rested, but I was urgently called up, and I couldn't help but say something, so I went upstairs to help.

There is also the upstairs of his sister's house, that is, the neighbor on the third floor, who accompanied his sister in the hospital until the second half of the night, and everything was safe before going home. What a warm-hearted neighbor when you see the truth in times of crisis.

Summary. That's right, as the saying goes:"It is difficult to save the fire from far water"For example, if an accident occurs and you are not at home, fire, flood, electricity or family accident, etc., the first prophetic announcement of the neighbor tells us that some accidents can be avoided or the loss can be reduced, such as brothers and sisters.

You can't do it from a distance, so there's a saying"Distant relatives are not as low as neighbors"。

Is it true that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors?

That's right, as the saying goes:"It is difficult to save the fire from far water"For example, once an accident happens, and you are not at home, fire, flood, Lingqing electricity or family accidents, etc., the first prophetic announcement of the neighbor tells us that some accidents can be avoided or reduce losses, such as brothers and sisters and relatives are far away from each other, so the ruler has such a saying"Distant relatives are not as low as neighbors"。

Dear, is there a conflict with your relatives?

Hello dear! That's right.

Summary. Dear, hello, it is really like this in real life, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, which means that when there is an emergency and need help, distant relatives are not as good as nearby neighbors can help in time. At the same time, this sentence also refers to the fact that there are more interactions between neighbors than distant relatives, so that there is a feeling between neighbors that is more than that of distant relatives.

It is a common phrase that makes people feel warm, and it indicates that neighbors have a good relationship.

Dear, hello, it is really like this in real life, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, which means that when there is an emergency and need help, distant relatives are not as good as nearby neighbors can help in time. At the same time, this sentence also refers to the fact that there are more interactions between neighbors than distant relatives, so that there is a feeling between neighbors that is more than that of distant relatives. It is a common phrase that makes people feel warm, and it indicates that neighbors have a good relationship.

Yes, there is such a saying.

As the saying goes, distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. You and your neighbors often see each other, and the harmony of their relationship has a great impact on improving their quality of life. If you can meet your good neighbors, you will have a very happy life.

In my own experience, I have met several good neighbors. The help they give them is reflected in three aspects: communicating with them passionately, answering their questions, actively helping themselves solve problems in their daily lives, and setting a good example for themselves in their unique ways.

1. Your good neighbors often communicate with you enthusiastically and answer your questions.

My good neighbor is a very welcoming person. After he became a neighbor with himself, he often communicated warmly with him, and his relationship with each other was very good. ......In the process of communicating with each other, he often answered his own questions, and many of the problems he encountered were suddenly clarified under his explanation.

For such a good neighbor, I cherish it very much.

2. In daily life, good neighbors often help themselves and solve problems for themselves.

The most concrete manifestation of the fact that distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors is that they can get help from their neighbors when they encounter difficulties. ......His good neighbor is very helpful, and he is always willing to help if there are big or small things between neighbors. Many of the difficulties he encountered in Tanchang's life were properly solved with his help.

Because of this, I am very grateful to this good neighbor.

3. The good neighbor Sulu is fierce and has strong quality and ability, and has a unique way of dealing with people, setting a good example for himself.

Learning good things from others for your own use is very beneficial to your own improvement. ......One of my good neighbors is very high-quality, very capable in all aspects, and is an outstanding figure in his work. Although I didn't learn anything from him in my career because of different majors, I still gave myself a lot of inspiration from his state of life and the way he faced problems and solved them, and I learned a lot from him, so that I could improve.

This good neighbor is an example for me to follow, and I am glad to have such a good neighbor.