I never thought that such an ending would be a flash in the pan for college love

If you really love each other, you must work hard to fight for it, and the more difficult it is, the more tenacious you must fight against life; If each other's feelings are not like before, each other's hearts are tired, you should think carefully about it, or let it go, I believe that fate is such a thing, and you can't force it.

Let's go apart! Otherwise, the future will be very hard. And lovers who break up are already prone to resentment, and time will wear everything down. If you're struggling here, when you're older, it's going to be even harder, and it's not easy to get a new relationship.

Hello, this is not the first time I've seen the situation you're facing.

Something similar happened to my friends. Suffice it to say that there is really no happiness in continuing like this.

For him, it is also impossible to be happy, you have a job but he doesn't, you can make money, he has no economy. Since ancient times, China has been "male outside, female inside", I believe that he will not feel good in the face of this situation. Even if he doesn't say anything on the surface, he will definitely avoid your hopeful gaze or kind help.

He will easily be mistaken for looking down on him for helping him.

The two of you seem to live together, but in fact, your mentality is changing, sharing a bed with different dreams, and breaking up is actually better for each other. The scariest thing I've ever seen is that the boy was carrying a girl who worked hard to support his family, and he found another one on the Internet. Alas......

If he loves you, he will recognize himself and work hard. If he doesn't love you, it's better for you as a girl to separate early.

After all, years are fleeting, and women can't afford to wait.

I think it's that I'm studying at the university and I've seen a lot, but there are also people who really love each other, depending on how you treat them.

To be honest, college love is a flash in the pan, and it is rarely successful, but the love between middle school and high school is very indestructible. I also think that you are working very hard now, and I can understand you very well, and I think if it were me, I would have the same psychological thoughts as you, which is not to blame you, this is more difficult for a woman. Well, if your boyfriend can be active and can take on the responsibilities that a man should bear, you can still be with him, escaping is not what a man should do, a man must be responsible, so that he will be a good husband when he organizes a family in the future.

As a man, you should take on the responsibility of the family, at least most of it, although you are not married, but he also has a sense of responsibility, as you said, he shirks and evades, and still relies on you to live, is that too ......Don't feel too guilty, it's because he doesn't have the ability or heart to manage your love, let it go, why not be bad.

Well, I understand your mood right now. Because I'm a little bit similar to you. Hehe......Sometimes I really want to give an ultimatum, and if I don't face the reality and take on the responsibilities of a man, I will separate.

But I am reluctant, after all, it is so emotional. But do you count on him for the rest of your life? You have thought that he will hate you when you leave, have you ever thought that if you follow him you will always be so tired, and you will always live like this in numbers and complaints, will you forgive yourself?

Do you hate yourself for not walking away when you can make a decision? I'm not teaching you to cheat, but just think about it calmly, if his incompetence and his lack of motivation caused us to leave, then what right does he have to hate us? Wishing you happiness!

No, we went from college to work, and I believe in college love.

I think love is perhaps the saddest fairy tale, maybe college love is a sad fairy tale, only its distance and truth, only its untouchability and lack can make it brilliant and sacred, perhaps, only when it is rare and farthest can we see the days that have passed most truly, the most clearly. Some love appears in an instant and can be maintained until old Some love tests each other for a long time, but it is often difficult to continue too far Some love is so humble, but it makes a lot of ** tears sigh, some love looks magnificent, but it is actually vulnerable What do you think? Oh, bless you.

Some will, some won't, it depends on how you want to deal with it, whether you are sincere, there are several couples in our class who got married and had children after graduating from college.

No, it won't! College is just a small society, there will be a partner to accompany you, when you graduate, you will enter a big society, there will be your lifelong partner, that is to neutralize your status, worth, parental background, etc., this is your life, you can do anything in college, only seek true love, this is the best memory of your life, he can only be remembered, not owned.

This is when I answered ... It's so infuriating.

I'm still too young... Now I feel so much more peaceful, no matter where I am, there is always true love in love, especially in college. Don't think too much about it.

Regardless of whether there is a result or not, cherish the moment, strive to love, and leave no regrets.

It usually ends in nothing.

Some also have fruit --- give birth to a fat boy.

In my experience, if two people can't solve the problem of working in the same place, they are basically yellow.

It is very common for college students to fall in love. Believe in yourself, I've seen a couple of couples who started college, and they all have kids now. When two people are together, they have to face a lot of things, so have faith in yourself!

In my opinion.

It depends on what kind of mentality the person is together.

If someone instructs you to have the mentality of disbanding after graduation, it will definitely not work.

Also, the distance is very important.

Look at the creation of the individual.

There will be, there will be, depending on whether you and he are truly in love.

It's up to you, and some of you have a job and the relationship doesn't work out.

As long as you work together, there will be results.

There is no affirmation or denial, in fact, falling in love with college is similar to coming out to work, depending on whether the other party is in love.

Not necessarily, it depends on many factors, but there are still many successful examples, so you have to be confident.

Without a certain toughness, it will definitely be yellow. (in the case where both are off-site).

There are very few results, and almost most of them are graduates and say they broke up.

There may be results, as long as both sides have the same goal and have a plan.

If it's just a playful mentality, it will never come to fruition, and if two people really want to be together again, they will definitely work hard for it. Although this society is very realistic now, true love still exists. When the time is right, meet with both parents so that they can get along well in the future.

There are a lot of college talks around me, and now they are married and have children. Cherish it!

It's normal for college students to break up after graduation. It depends on whether the two of you are sincere about each other. You have to be more observant to see if your boyfriend will go to your side to find a job for you.

That's the most practical. After all, long-distance relationships are the most testing thing. Many people can't test it and break up.

If you really don't want to break up, it is recommended that you let him go to work with you, or you go to work with him.

Let it be, if you can, you can also work in a city, or you leave your hometown for him (he is for you), as long as you have a deep relationship, no matter how big the difficulty is, you can't stop you from being together.

Study harder and earn money, and you won't be fruitless.

You may be able to ask your parents and others for their opinions, and if the man thinks it is not possible, then you will not get your wish.

Since we are talking about college life, we must talk about love. It is the adolescent boys and girls who gather in the university, and love inevitably happens here. But I don't know when college students' feelings are overflowing.

Nowadays, the emotions of college students are mixed with too much utilitarianism, desire and indulgence. Every year at graduation, couples have one last meal, one last hug, one last kiss, and then turn away and embark on their own journeys, forgetting the relationship as if it never happened. Love is just treated as a need.

There are many people in college who want to catch love or be caught by love. But I want your love to be sincere, serious, pure, and authentic. If you think he's handsome and want to fall in love with him, think twice; If you think she is beautiful and want to fall in love with her, think again; If you feel lonely and want to find someone to fall in love with, think again; If you're going to fall in love with someone just because you've heard a few words from a friend, give up.

The word "love" actually makes it clear who it is for: the word "friend" below indicates that you should know him (her) very well, and he (she) should be your friend; Explain that you are to choose carefully among these friends; It means that you can only choose one of the carefully selected ones as your lover, and the others can only be your friends. Please cherish your emotions or it will become cheap.

What is love? You should know this in your hearts. I think:

Being attracted because of excellence, being loved because of attraction, and learning to love because of being loved, this is the process of love.

What does it mean to have results? If you want to have results, you must have them.

I can't say that there is no such thing as nothing, but the odds are really not high.

But if you want to have it, you still have to treat it carefully.

Yes Yes Yes, there will be, but if you see that the other party is not interested at all, or if you pass the time, pay attention to whether you can advance or retreat,

It varies from person to person, if it is true love, there will be results if you manage it with your heart, but if you just have a playful mentality and feel that it is dispensable, then what is the result! There is no result in your own heart

No. Love will not be a flash in the pan when it blooms, and if you find that it is a flash in the pan, it is not love.

I don't know. But most are not.

Because people in college are more mature and realistic.

For some, yes.

For some, no.

I think it's more appropriate to use the meteor metaphor.

So beautiful, so ephemeral, so simple......

You already know the answer, so don't come back to seek psychological comfort.

If you can't talk about it, don't talk about it, I'm the victim, I will cherish it if I have already talked about it, and my fate is in my own hands.

University is counted as a journey, we can smell the fragrance of flowers and watch the changes of clouds on the road, and we can also reach our destination. Learning is a must, participating in some activities, and having a relationship is not a loss for you! Whether there is a result or not depends on how much you love each other, good luck.

OK. But love is an elective.

And not compulsory.

The time at the university is very free.

Self-study is the mainstay.

You think about it yourself, think about it

There are too many results in college love.,I have a lot of good friends' parents who fell in love in college.,Even if there is no result, you have to talk about it.,Not every love has a result.,Because I don't know what kind of person I'm suitable for.,Only after a few times in love,Will you gradually mature.,Talk about it once and the result is the best.。。。

Participate in more activities in college and have more contact with people, boldly express what you like, learn more things if you don't meet, and don't have to talk to people very deliberately... Just grab it when love comes.

Hehe: That's an interesting question.

In general, results are hard to come by.

But it's up to you, it's a lot more difficult to study and fall in love. But the result is to look at fate, work hard, reality is the greatest power.

Yes, there are generally no results.

I think true love will have to have faith.

No, they have no material basis and it is impossible for them to be together.

There is generally no result, but the most important thing is the person.

There are a lot of people who are classmates.

After getting married. There are advantages and disadvantages of falling in love in college, the advantage is that if the two feelings are good, they can make progress together, if there is a relationship crisis and fall out of love, it will affect the academic performance, so it is not good, love in college is an adjustment to the boring life of the university, it depends on how to deal with it.

90% are fruitless, and 10% have results, but they break up within a few years of marriage A friend of mine said that I personally think that I actually have everything in my heart, and what I talk about is that feeling If I am not looking for my own side, I am sorry for my parents if I marry so far away I can only say that I am in love, and I can only talk about love and love Sometimes it is also a kind of stress release College life is really boring Don't promise each other when you talk.

Remember to adopt it.

Everyone is on the same page. Willing to work hard for each other's future. There will be results. It depends on people.