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It's not easy to deal with, it's not easy to deal with, I haven't been with my mother-in-law before, there is much less contact, I can't see each other a few times a year, the relationship is very good, in fact, I am also very filial to her, buy things, give money for the New Year's holidays, are much more than for my mother, but she thinks that I still give less, or her daughter gives more, and usually picks my reason, I am wronged, and now I have been separated, or less contact, less things.
Besides, the days have to go by slowly, but as a son and husband caught in the middle of the uncomfortable, just say good things at both ends, just praise the wife for doing a lot of good, mother-in-law is satisfied and praised, on my mother's side, just say how grateful the daughter-in-law is for her mother-in-law's hard work, etc., don't remember one thing, that is, they say bad things about each other, don't reveal a word even if they are killed, my husband lacks this, so I will know that my mother-in-law is not satisfied with me, in fact, this is the beginning of the misunderstanding.
Good luck.
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I'm worried about it, too!
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Hehe. Peace.
But there has to be a way.
It's all a peaceful relationship honed by time.
It's visible.
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Because everyone's personality and growth environment affect his behavior, the most difficult thing to do is the male host in the family outfit, he is like a sandwich cookie sandwiched between two people.
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Summary. How should the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and husband and wife be handled?
I'm still a little confused, can you be more detailed?
Here are some tips to help you better manage your mother-in-law relationship after marriage. 1. United Front with Your Spouse It is critical for you and your spouse to have a united front, support each other and maintain smooth communication. Husband and wife must confide in each other and decide together the position of the mother-in-law in the marital relationship.
Even if nothing has changed in the mother-in-law, the above is mine.
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Summary. In general, it is advantageous to empathize with both relationships. Mother-in-law is a daughter-in-law for many years, so it is understandable to have more love and spoiling for her son, and the daughter-in-law has the same love and affection for her own children, so she understands the expression of her mother-in-law's feelings, and her mother-in-law should also respect her daughter-in-law, after all, after her son gets married, their family of three is a small family, let go more and don't interfere, the relationship is better.
Husbands and wives should also put themselves in each other's shoes, don't rely too strongly, and give each other free space, so that it is easier to have intimacy.
How should the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and husband and wife be handled?
In general, it is advantageous to empathize with both relationships. Mother-in-law is a daughter-in-law for many years, so it is understandable to have more love and spoiling for her son, and the daughter-in-law has the same love and affection for her own children, so she understands the expression of her mother-in-law's feelings, and her mother-in-law should also respect her daughter-in-law, after all, after her son gets married, their family of three is a small family, let go more and don't interfere, the relationship is better. Husbands and wives should also put themselves in each other's shoes, don't rely too strongly, and give each other free space, so that it is easier to have intimacy.
Can you add, I don't quite understand it.
It is to respect each other and keep a certain distance, so that it is easier to produce beauty.
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To deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and husband and wife, we must first establish good communication, and both parties should strive to establish a harmonious relationship. Both sides should respect each other, respect each other's opinions, respect each other's values, and not easily slander each other, nor can they easily accuse each other of singing cherry blossoms, and respect and respect. The two sides should communicate more, communicate more, talk more, reconcile more, accept more, be more considerate, understand more, respect more, care more, care more, care more, pay more attention, respect more, support more, trust more, be friendly, understand more, support more, care more, love more, support more, love more, care more, love more, care more, care more, love more, understand more, understand more, be considerate, be friendly, respect more, love more, More support, more care, more love, more support, more care, more love, more support, more trust, more care, more understanding, more understanding, more kindness, more respect.
Both sides should respect each other, respect each other's ideas, and not let temporary differences affect long-term relationships.
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