talked about getting married, but my boyfriend said that I needed to borrow money to get married!!

are about to get married, and suddenly there is such a thing, which makes you really embarrassed, their family's attitude is disrespectful to your family, even if you borrow money, why bother to tell you, if the general quality of the family will not say, how much pressure is caused to your family, marry a daughter is still like this, in the future, it will definitely not be **, if you feel uncomfortable, forget it! His mother likes rich people, in the future, you will definitely not feel comfortable marrying into his family, or after thinking clearly, talk to him, if not, forget it! There are so many things related to money before you get married, and you will suffer in the future.

It depends on what kind of life you choose, if you love him, bear with it! I wish you a happy day. I hope you are happy.

I feel like his family is like **, I didn't cheat before I got it, and it was nothing after I got it, it seems that the landlord really can't get along with him, although this thing has something to do with money, but it's not just a matter of money, his house is too good.

You said that you don't care about money, but you feel that his family doesn't respect you, why do you think that his family doesn't respect you, or because of money, so it depends on the degree of your relationship, and feelings are not measured by money, and after marriage, you are mainly with your husband, and your in-laws are not in harmony, so you can be separated The key depends on whether your husband treats you well.

The bride price is only 40,000 If the law doesn't let me do it like you, I'll take seven or eight of it, and change it for one a day. Haha, what my family has is money.

You're so cheap, I want you. Follow me in the future.

How do you feel? Are you going to follow me or follow him.

Are you in love? If you love each other, what's not to do? If you have a home of your own now, with more money and less money, two people can struggle after marriage, if you don't have feelings, just get married through a blind date, then you have to think about it carefully. The most important thing is to see your own ......

The landlord doesn't say whether it's money or not, but the theme around the whole article is: money.

It's like this before it started, so how can we live together after that? Deception, pure deception.

It's not always easy to be a man.

In the future, if you have money, you should be filial to your parents.

To be honest, I'm afraid of getting married.

The key is your recognition of him as a person, you can simply get married if you don't have money!

Make do with it Goose Goose T

Xiaoling and Ah Xi have been arguing about an incident recently, but the reason is because of money.

When the two were together for more than a year, Ah Xi borrowed money from Xiaoling because of the difficulty of capital turnover, saying that he would borrow 30,000 yuan to maintain his life and repay debts, and said that he would repay it in 2 months. But Xiaoling didn't have any money at that time, and then Xiaoling opened up with her parents, and her parents also lent money to Ah Xi for the sake of Xiaoling's face.

2 months later, Ah Xi had no money to pay back, so he never mentioned this matter, and Xiaoling's parents saw that the relationship between the two was not bad, so they didn't mention it, thinking that they would wait for the two young people to run for their careers.

However, Xiaoling became pregnant, and the two families naturally began to talk about marriage. When the two families talked about the bride price, they were originally harmonious, but Xiaoling's mother suddenly remembered that Ah Xi still had 30,000 yuan to repay, so she wanted Ah Xi to return the money first, and let Xiaoling's mother buy a dowry.

When Axi's parents heard this, their faces were a little unsightly, how do they feel that they can marry a daughter-in-law and spend 30,000 yuan to add a dowry?

Later, the two families let the young couple discuss it themselves, no. Because of this, the two quarreled for a few days. Ah Xi felt that since they were all a family, they should not worry about the money anymore, and those who did not pay it back were not all rude to their own families.

But Xiaoling just felt that the money belonged to her parents, not that she said from the beginning that it was used to buy a dowry, and after such a long time, Ah Xiyan should pay it back first, and then marry herself.

The two have been arguing about this matter, but there has been no result.

The above story is purely made up and should not be taken seriously.

I can understand your anxiety and hesitation. A happy life does need material support, sometimes love is nothing in the face of reality, but there must be love in marriage, so that you can be happy. If you really love him, why not give him motivation!

If he loves you too, he will definitely change for you. Slowly encourage him, it doesn't matter if you don't have money, but you have to work hard and have a self-motivated heart. Everything will be fine.

In fact, this may be fate and fate, what you are not satisfied with is really in front of you, and this dissatisfaction requires your efforts to change, this is the imperfection of the world.

Let's work hard with him! I believe that your life will be prosperous! Wishing you all happiness!

Does he work hard? Is he motivated?

As you say, he's very old.

My boyfriend doesn't earn much land, but he can spend money, and his monthly salary is not enough for him to spend, and sometimes he is overdrawn. As far as you say, your life will be very miserable in the future.

And it will become the pillar of your family in the future!

There will be a lot of conflicts in your family in the future.

To add: my dad and my uncle.

Born in a rural area, my grandfather made people laugh because he was illiterate since he was a child, so he must let his two sons go to school.

As a result, my uncle didn't work hard, didn't study, and worked as a farmer at home.

My dad worked hard and got into town in his 20s.

And I don't mean how good my dad is.

My grandparents have always been in poor health, my father's salary was only a few dozen yuan a month in that era, he supported the elderly, raised us young, and we were 5 sisters and brothers.

But my dad has always been very planned, how to spend the money, how to spend it, to spend it, to save it.

I don't know, I just hope you understand.

Your boyfriend has no money at home, so what he earns, he has to learn to save and manage, the main thing is that he has just come out of society, you said, he is much older than you, and he is going to get married, all like that, and he spends it indiscriminately, and he doesn't think about himself? For the sake of your future, too. If you don't have money, what can you take care of!

In the future, you will have to pay off his debts with your monthly salary! Moreover, if you are so unmotivated, you will be very hard-working in the future, not all at once, but for a lifetime.

Motivated people may endure hardships for a few years, but not for a lifetime.

As far as you say, I don't know spiritually, at least materially, you have to suffer for the rest of your life!

Because we don't know your boyfriend very well, you have to seriously analyze it yourself, he belongs to the potential stocks, after all, marriage is a major event in life, I hope you can think twice!

Nowadays, it is common to borrow money to get married.

Summary. Good afternoon, dear, you said that your boyfriend borrowed money to get engaged. It should be that the boyfriend's current money is really limited, and his hand is relatively tight. But I don't want to be wronged that you didn't borrow money to get engaged to you.

My boyfriend kept crying to me that he was poor, saying that he had no money.

Good afternoon or Lu, dear, you said that your boyfriend borrowed money to get engaged. It should be that the money in the boyfriend's hand before the return of the type is really limited, and the hand is relatively tight. But I don't want to be wronged that you didn't borrow money to take you to the world.

But he has the money to renovate the house.

Do you not believe him? Do you think he lied to you when he said he didn't have money? Then did you ask him if the money for the renovation came from?

The money he paid to renovate the house came from his parents.

His family has two apartments, two cars, and a few fields.

In this case, there may be two possibilities: first, most of his family's money has been invested in the decoration of Jutong, so now he does not have much money in his hands to handle the engagement. Second, he hid his family's financial situation, and he felt that the engagement did not need to be too extravagant.

He renovated only one floor, the third floor.

According to what you said, Sakura's family's financial conditions should be pretty good. Maybe there is another possibility, something happened to his family recently, it may be in his career, or it may be that Ran Song is a relative, and he took out all the money to save the skin.

Decoration is indeed a lot of money to return to Hu, maybe his parents' consideration is that the first leak is not to decorate all, leave some money and then keep it in hand, after all, after getting married or something, there are many places to spend money.

After I was with him, he began to cry to me about poverty, saying that he had no money to stop him, and said that if there was nothing to do in the future, he would not go out on a date, go shopping and fight or something, and have fun, and he would not look for him.

This situation is indeed strange, such as the fight is not really poor, and generally at least the date will not be saved. So how to enhance the relationship, how to fall in love? We mainly have to analyze two situations, the first is that he is indeed in trouble at home now, and he is very nervous at hand.

If this is the case, then we can understand him more, and we can also pay for some places that spend a little money, such as eating or something. Second, he pretended. But it's hard to say the reason for pretending, it depends on his actual situation, if it's pretending, it means that he doesn't trust you enough to tell you everything.

In this case, it is recommended to talk to him and solve the problem.

Summary. My boyfriend who is rushing to get married has borrowed money many times, and for some reason, he doesn't pay it back on time, so I won't borrow!

Men should be like men, and men are women's backers, so no matter what happens, men must take responsibility and try to solve things by themselves. If you don't get married now, you start to trouble your girlfriend, and when you get married in the future, when will your girlfriend be a head? For a lifetime?

A girlfriend can do everything, what's the use of you?

Women need men to bring happiness to themselves and not to cause trouble for themselves. Be sure to find a boyfriend with better conditions than yourself!

In a woman's life, marriage is an opportunity to change her fate. Therefore, you must pay attention to finding a boyfriend with good conditions, such as taking shortcuts in life, will save you decades of struggle.

This world is very realistic, and people must also be realistic, otherwise it is themselves who are hurt, and they will have to suffer their own happiness and sin. So looking for friends is looking for backers, not trouble!

Because people's worldview is different, their values are also different, and people's cognition is even more different. Everyone has one thing in mind, but one thing is the same, they all want to be blessed and not to suffer!

Having said all that, the choice is personal! I can only give you advice, the key is up to you!

I'm getting married, and my boyfriend borrowed money from me.

Hello, I have seen your question and am sorting out the answer, please wait a while

My boyfriend who is rushing to get married has borrowed money many times, and for some reason, he doesn't pay it back on time, so I won't borrow! Men should be like men, and men are women's backers, so no matter what happens, men must take responsibility and try to solve things by themselves. If you don't get married now, you start to trouble your girlfriend, and when you get married in the future, when will your girlfriend be a head?

Is it boring for a lifetime? A girlfriend can do everything, what's the use of you? Women need men to bring happiness to themselves and not to cause trouble for themselves.

Be sure to find a boyfriend with better conditions than yourself! In a woman's life, marriage is an opportunity to change her fate. Therefore, you must pay attention to finding a boyfriend with good conditions, such as taking shortcuts in life, will save you decades of struggle.

This world is very realistic, and people must also be realistic, otherwise it is themselves who are hurt, and they will have to suffer their own happiness and sin. So looking for friends is looking for backers, not trouble! Because people's worldview is different, their values are also different, and people's cognition is even more different.

Every potato burns refers to an individual who has a thought for everyone, but there is a number of things that are the same, they are all willing to be happy, and they are not willing to suffer! Having said all that, the choice is personal! I can only give you advice, the key is up to you!

Hello! Do you know what he borrowed money for?

I'm getting married, and my boyfriend borrowed money from me.

Hello! Do you know what he borrowed money for?

It is said that it is an investment to do business.

That's not right!

Don't be in a hurry to borrow just yet.

I'm getting married, and my boyfriend borrowed money from me.

Neighbors can get credit.

Hello, he asked how much you borrowed? It's definitely not good to get married and borrow money.

Qu Hanlei 01J

8 to 100,000 like that.

Neighbors can get credit.

If you know where the money is going to be used, if you don't know what he wants to do with it, you should think about it before deciding whether to lend it to him.

Qu Hanlei 01J

Say investment to do business.

Neighbors can get credit.

Any investment and financial management is risky, and it is likely that there will be no return to it.

Neighbors can get credit.

I think you can borrow it if you trust him, but it depends on what you think.

Qu Hanlei 01J

Here's the thing, we are about to get engaged, he suddenly told me that after the engagement, the gift money is being lent back to him to do business, and then the interest will be calculated to my father, and I said twice, I said that I can't open my mouth, and then he asked me how much money I have left, I said I have no money, and then he said that I can't help him, I said you can find someone who can help you, I won't hinder you, I really have no money and my family is relatively poor, and then I told him whether to consider the engagement and postpone it later, and if you want to do business, you can talk about business, it doesn't matter, I said twice to postpone and then say, and then he said he thought about it, and one day he asked me to meet and talk, he said that it was still engagement, not postponed, and then I said that the engagement was okay, but in the future I couldn't always say that I couldn't help you, and I didn't have any money and no ability, not that I couldn't help you now, and I might not be able to do it in the future, and we women had no way to make money during the period when they got married and had children, and then he said he would take care of it himself and find a way, and then he said ask me a few questions, can you take care of his family and run a good family, There is also the relationship between brothers and sisters, whether they can be filial to his parents.

Qu Hanlei 01J

I don't know what he thinks, and I don't know how to do it.

Don't lend him money, let's talk to your family first.

I decided to part ways with him uh-huh.