What does the engaged man need to prepare, and what does the man need to prepare when engaged?

Usually before the engagement, the man prepares three gold or hardware, which generally includes gold necklaces, gold earrings, gold rings, and hardware bracelets and anklets on the basis of three gold. And no matter how you buy the three gold and hardware, the weight should not be too light.

The matchmaker's marriage ceremony generally needs to be presided over by the matchmaker, so the man should prepare a gift money to the matchmaker. The matchmaker introduced the man and the woman to each other, which is a very important existence.

Engagement, also known as marriage contract, according to Chinese folk customs, usually precedes marriage with engagement ceremonies: making a marriage book, exchanging gifts, or setting up a matchmaker, etc. However, according to the current Marriage Law of the People's Republic of China, engagement is not a necessary procedure before marriage, and a marriage without engagement does not lose the validity of the marriage.

The husband generally needs to prepare as follows:

1. Four-color ceremony: cigarettes, wine, tea, and sugar, all four of which must be double-served.

2. The bride price for the woman to buy clothes, which depends on each family, and the customs of different regions are also different. Some families have diamond rings, and jewelry is all included in this money.

3. First teasing sock wheel ornaments: diamond rings, three gold, jade bracelets, ruby rings, pair rings, watches.

4. Cakes, some are particularly particular about two cakes, one dragon and one phoenix.

5. Flowers, order a bouquet of 99 red roses, preferably packaged in black paper, with a low-key sense of luxury.

Items prepared by the woman at the time of engagement

1. First of all, the woman's family in most areas will prepare some decent items for their daughter at the engagement banquet. However, for the bride, only by knowing what her parents will prepare for Zishan Shinji, can she know in her heart and shine more brilliantly at the engagement banquet.

2. Then, generally speaking, the engagement gifts prepared by the woman's parents for their daughter include: one or two sets of clothes, a pair of shoes, watches, or rings, etc. If the woman's family is financially average, the engagement gift for the daughter will generally be less.

If the woman's family is financially strong, then the engagement gifts for the daughter are far more than that.

3. Finally, there are some differences in the return gifts given to their daughters by the woman's parents in each place. Therefore, for the most accurate engagement return items, you can decide according to your local engagement customs. In addition, you can consult the elders of the family or the older people in the village, and the engagement items that come out of their mouths will definitely be the most authentic.

Marriage is a big deal, and engagement is just as sloppy. Naturally, there are many things to pay attention to about the various processes of engagement.

1. Preparation for the man's engagement.

1.Bride price: The bride price is divided into large and small appointments, which need to be even numbers, and need to be wrapped in red envelope paper 2

Dowry: The man should prepare a simple six gifts or a grand twelve gifts and send them to the woman's home3Banquet Ceremony:

According to the approximate value of the banquet prepared by the woman when entertaining the man, it will be paid to the woman in the form of cash in a gift bag.

4.Matchmaker's gift: The man should give more than the woman's family.

5.Departure: The number of men going to the woman's house should be 6, 10, or 12Reserves, incense, candles, and cannons are required in two copies each.

Second, the woman's engagement preparation.

1.A number of gift red envelopes.

2.Sweet tea, glutinous rice balls, and dim sum are prepared.

3.The engagement banquet is generally invited by the woman's family, and the number of people attending the man's family must be even, so the woman's family should prepare a banquet.

4.6 or 12 pieces to be given back to the groom's family.

5.Matchmaker's gift.

6. Prepare a ring for the man.

The above is a list of what you need for an engagement and a list of items for men and women to prepare for engagement, hoping to provide some help for couples who want to get married.

1. Preparation of the bride price.

What should the engaged man prepare? First of all, the engagement gift is the most important, and the bride price should be wrapped in a red envelope and given to the woman's parents at the time of engagement. When you are engaged, like when you get married, you will inevitably give out red envelopes, no matter how many packets you have, they must be even numbers.

2. Preparation of the dowry.

In addition to preparing the bride price, the engagement should also prepare sufficient dowry, which is generally divided into six pieces and twelve pieces, and the man chooses according to his own conditions, and sends it to the woman's home on the day of the engagement.

3. Preparation of the banquet ceremony.

The engagement banquet is usually hosted by the woman's family and the man is invited to the banquet, and the man wants to calculate the approximate consumption of the woman's family banquet, and then discount the red envelope to the woman's family.

Fourth, the preparation of jewelry.

On the day of the engagement, the man should take the ring and propose to the woman, and bring the engagement ring for the woman, of course, on the day of the engagement, the mother-in-law will also give a meeting gift to the future daughter-in-law, so the engagement ring and the mother-in-law to give the daughter-in-law a variety of jewelry are indispensable.

Engagement money, dowry, hardware, matchmaker gifts, banquet gifts, these are some of the things that the man should prepare for the engagement.

You should prepare the gift money, prepare the three gold for marriage, prepare the matchmaking ceremony, prepare the location of the engagement, and arrange the venue in advance.

Bride price, all kinds of gold jewelry, matchmaker gifts, engagement gifts, relatives and friends, these are all things that the man has to prepare.

The things that the man needs to prepare for the engagement are as follows:

1. Dowry. The dowry in most places in our country is a bride price and three gold or hardware. The amount of bride price varies according to local customs. The three gold generally include gold necklaces, gold earrings, gold rings, and hardware bracelets and anklets on the basis of the three golds.

2. Banquet ceremony. Because the engagement banquet is generally held by the woman, and the banquet is all the man's guests, the man will calculate the woman's money for the banquet, and then discount it to the woman in the form of red envelopes.

3. Retainer. The rewry is mainly divided into large and small hires. The big hire is usually a cheque used to purchase a dowry, and the small hire is usually cash to buy the bride's wedding dress. The bride price is generally given in the form of a red envelope, and the amount is generally an even number.

4. If the matchmaker is to help introduce the two parties to each other, then you need to give the matchmaker a red envelope at the engagement banquet.

5. Engagement rings are required for engagement ceremonies, so the man needs to take the woman to buy an engagement ring before engagement.

1. The engaged man should prepare 6 gifts.

1. Preparation of dowry.

The bride price for engagement and marriage should be wrapped in red envelopes, and the engagement is the same as when getting married, and red envelopes are indispensable, so it is necessary to prepare enough for the bride price, and the bride price is divided into large and small appointments, no matter how much each package is, it must be a double number.

2. Preparation of the dowry.

The dowry is generally divided into six pieces and twelve pieces, and the man chooses according to his own conditions, and sends it to the woman's home on the day of engagement.

3. Preparation of banquet ceremony.

The engagement banquet is usually hosted by the woman's family and the man is entertained. The man wants to calculate the approximate ** of the banquet held by the woman's family, and then discount the red envelope to the woman's family.

4. Preparation of matchmaking ceremony.

The gift to the matchmaker is indispensable, and the specific amount is agreed with the woman, as long as it is more than the woman's.

5. Preparation of the man's relatives and friends.

On the day of the engagement, the man should have 6, 10 or 12 relatives and friends to the woman's house.

6. Preparation of jewelry.

On the day of the engagement, the man should give the engagement ring to the woman, and the mother-in-law should also give a meeting gift to the future daughter-in-law, so the preparation of the engagement ring and various jewelry given by the mother-in-law to the daughter-in-law is indispensable.

Second, the process of engagement.

1. Discuss with both parents.

Engagement is a major matter of opinion before marriage, and it is also an important moment for both parents to meet officially, so the various matters of engagement are related to the establishment of the relationship between the parents of both parties, and it is also an important foundation for two people before marriage.

2. The next Kaisong dowry.

Now the dowry basically includes four gold and gift money, but these are all decided according to the man's family economic situation of Dazheng. However, when it comes to the dowry, you must not forget to prepare gifts for the parents of both parties. It should also be noted that the two parties need to exchange engagement rings when the dowry is placed, so you must not forget to buy an engagement ring for her who you love the most as a token of your love.

3. Engagement place.

The place of engagement can be at home or in a hotel, but the environment must be suitable for both parents to negotiate. The engagement banquet is generally based on the woman's family.

The betrothed man needs to prepare the following:

1. Hire a fierce gold. When engaged, the man should give the woman a certain amount of dowry, and the dowry does not need to be too much when engaged, but it must be an even number, in order to ask for an auspicious one, it also represents the blessing of the newlyweds' engagement;

2. Dowry. The dowry is divided into six kinds of gifts, eight kinds of gifts or twelve kinds of gifts, most of which refer to items such as chicken, duck and fish, tobacco, wine, tea, desserts, snacks, dragon and phoenix candles, salutes and other items. The specific dowry to give at the time of engagement depends on local customs.

It should be noted that when preparing the dowry, the number of gifts must be even, with the beautiful implication of pairs;

3. Clothes and jewelry. When engaged, the man needs to give the woman gold and silver jewelry and clothes, which generally include the traditional three gold (gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings) or hardware (gold rings, gold necklaces, gold earrings, gold bracelets with pats, gold pendants), etc., of course, they can also be converted into cash and given to the woman;

4. Matchmaker ceremony. If both men and women are introduced to each other through a matchmaker, then a matchmaker ceremony should also be prepared. The matchmaker gift is generally to wrap a red envelope, thank the matchmaker for the introduction, so that each other can understand each other, and will work together for a lifetime;

5. Banquet ceremony. When getting engaged, the man needs to go to the woman's home or the hotel booked by the woman to attend the wedding banquet, although the woman prepares the banquet, but the custom in most regions is that the man needs to discount the banquet money to the woman, which is the banquet ceremony.

Both parents prepare:

1. Meet and decide when the ceremony will take place. First of all, the parents of both parties should be arranged to meet, and then choose a suitable auspicious day on the old calendar, and communicate in advance is conducive to increasing the familiarity of both parties and facilitating future relationships;

2. The amount of bride price proposed by the woman's parents. Then discuss how much bride price to give, the woman's parents have generally determined an amount before this, and the man's parents can prepare according to this amount, if they feel that the bride price is not appropriate, they can talk to Zhixian for further discussion and communication;

3. Prepare for the formal attire of the ceremony. Engagement is not as serious as marriage, don't be negligent, it's best for both parents to prepare a suitable dress for formal occasions, cheongsam for women, and Tang costume for men.

To sum up, engagement, also known as marriage contract, according to Chinese folk customs, usually precedes marriage with an engagement ceremony: making a marriage letter, exchanging gifts, or setting up a matchmaker, etc. Betrothal is not a necessary procedure before marriage, and a marriage without engagement does not lose the validity of the marriage.

Legal basis]:

Article 1049 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

A man and a woman who wish to marry must register their marriage in person at the marriage registration office. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued. Obtaining a marriage certificate establishes the relationship between husband and wife. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.