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Because for some people with no background, 600,000 is indeed very expensive and can't afford it at all. With the opening up of society, now we may not know what it means to be three wives and four concubines, three from four virtues, etc., and many of us in the post-80s and post-90s do not know what it means, on the contrary, we are no strangers to what flash marriage, splitting legs and the like, and even many friends can be said to know too well, perhaps because of the pressure of life and the openness of society, the divorce rate in China is increasing year by year, and it can be said that it is completely able to make a ranking for the divorce phenomenon. So what is the reason why our modern feelings are becoming more and more fragile?

What kind of relationship can last forever?

In fact, in daily life, we can find that because the bride price is too high, if it is an ordinary bride price, it is still acceptable. For example, I am a programmer, I have a friend who needs to build **, the first thing that comes to mind is me, or the number of times I meet him and he knows more about me than another programmer, even if my skills really don't have that programmer, he will still choose me,This is the common multi-look effect in our lives, and it is also the real reason why many of our corporate executives run around the clock in various fields in order to obtain resources.

It has exceeded the normal bride price several timesIt is easy for us to find out about the multi-look effect in life, especially in school, there will always be a few students in the class who are especially good at communicating, whether it is classmates or classmates in other classes or even students from other schools, he can get together, so such a student has a wide range of network resources, there are many people who like him, and there are naturally more opportunities than other students, and the way this student uses is our multi-view effect.

So back to the relationship, the same is the truth, but there is another term to see the effect in the relationship, that is, the long-term love, in daily life we can find a phenomenon, from the relationship of friends to the relationship of lovers generally do not break up, and flash marriage and other feelings once there is a little friction is incompatible, through this manifestation we are not difficult to find,The relationship that has been together for a long time has more tacit understanding, and such feelings are tolerant, and feelings such as flash marriages will not know how to cherish them at all because they have no feelings at all. So if we want a real relationship, it's best to have enough time to get to know each other and agree with each other before talking about marriage.

Because this bride price is too much, it has exceeded the normal bride price by several times.

It's possible that he thinks this woman is taking it as an ATM wife, so he doesn't want to.

I think this woman is indeed a bit excessive, and she will make a random price there without combining the man's economic conditions.

Because although the bride price should be given, it still needs to be based on the man's family situation.

Because this bride price is too high, if it is an ordinary bride price, it is still acceptable.

The main thing is that the bride price is really too high. It's not something that ordinary people can accept.

Sometimes the bride price can also show whether a person is truly sincere.

I think it may be because the woman asks for too much bride price, so it scares the south.

The Fujian court heard a case of a dispute over marital property, because a man paid a bride price of 10,000 yuan to a woman after he was engaged. The two of them gathered all the things that were going to cost in the wedding, and they definitely wanted to get it all back after they broke up. After the number of bride prices appeared, it can be described as stunning.

Netizens don't understand what kind of regulations will make the man pay such a high fee. The two of them didn't even get their papers, and they didn't buy any houses and cars. Although the man attaches great importance to the arrival of the woman, he cannot exchange the sky-high bride price for the happiness of his life.

Parents always think that their daughters must ask for a large sum of money from each other when they get married, but they don't know that it is a wrong idea. Because love is not a transaction, the other party must be free to love. Two people have no feelings, and they will often quarrel after being together.

Parents should not sell their children like goods, let alone ask each other for a lot of money. The bride price is a beautiful implication of the marriage of two people, and it must not be used as one's own private state. <>

The woman thinks that she has spent a year of her youth and is unwilling to return all the bride price to the man. The man thinks that he has nothing to do with the woman, and the two people who have not obtained a certificate cannot be considered a marriage relationship at all. Faced with such a situation, you can only choose to endure in silence.

In fact, all the problems of the two people are premeditated, and without feelings, life will eventually become chickens and dogs. It is necessary to advocate the new fashion of the society properly, and it must be allowed by two people. <>

In general, the advice given to men and women through this matter is that two people must live a down-to-earth life. As long as two people have feelings, no matter how much money the other party spends, they can express their attention and sincerity. After getting married, both parties must have a sense of tolerance and responsibility, and the two people must have a common goal.

You can't think about sitting back and enjoying it, otherwise you will be the one who suffers. Even if you have a high bride price at that time, it will only be a waste of feelings and time in the end.

This has to do with interests. The bride price can benefit some people, and of course it will not be given up easily.

I think the first is because the daughter is empty "out of marriage", because the word "out" is said to be spilled out of the water, and the natural bride price is to give back to the parenting grace of the parents, and secondly, I don't know what others think, I personally feel that it is also prevention, marriage is not smooth sailing, if once it is divorced, it can also be returned to his own family to support himself.

Because the bride price is a custom, the bride price is to prove that the boy values the girl, and it is also a support for the small family.

If you get into a stiff situation, you can't get married. Then return the bride price to the man.

Have you ever had a disagreement with your partner over the bride price, and how did you solve it in the end? When we got married at that time, the bride price was still very simple, and the money was not much, and the woman would bring it back, so there was basically no disagreement at that time.

First, as a man, don't misunderstand the woman's parents.

Because when you look at the people in the woman's family with a contemptuous attitude, you will bury the bad family relationship.

If you really can't afford it, you need to explain your difficulties, be more sincere and considerate in the relationship, and let the woman's parents feel at ease that they will hand over their daughter to you.

Second, the woman insisted that the bride price should not have a frontal conflict.

Because this is the moment to test true love, the woman should wait. Men should actively coordinate, and when parents see that they truly love each other, but they can't bear to go against their elders, they will gradually relent.

Third, obtain the consent and support of both parents.

The marriage of a man and a woman is not only a matter of the two of you, but also of the two families. If you do not have the support and consent of both parents, you may embarrass the other party in the bride price.

Fourth, contact each other's parents more before marriage.

Visit each other's homes more often during holidays, so that they have some understanding and trust in you, and the probability of offering a sky-high bride price will be relatively reduced.

Fifth, the woman's communication with her family is very important.

As a daughter, on the one hand, we should communicate with our parents gently, explain our relationship with the man, and on the other hand, we should also negotiate with the man how to deal with it better, rather than giving the man an order to accept it.

This question of yours is really a problem, because you have already taken 60,008, and it has risen to 80,008, which means that this woman is really a bit excessive, you want us to give you a way not to pay, this method will definitely not have, because you have already paid the money, do you have to go back to the 60,000 8 that has been given, if you can come back, it will be okay if you can come back to this marriage or not, maybe you want us to give you a way not to pay 20,000, to tell you clearly, we can't come out of this way, such as you go to the market to buy something, This thing is in very tight time, so the seller began to increase the price, can you tell him not to rise, now your marriage has been the same as the market, it has become a marriage of buying and selling, otherwise you won't buy it, but it doesn't seem to work, if you don't buy this 60,000 8 It seems that you can't get it back, so you have to grit your teeth and give another 20,000, because you have come to this point, and there seems to be no way back.

However, if you really can't take out the money anymore, you can only lower your figure as much as possible to beg hard, to explain the reason to the woman, it is estimated that you can still get through the trick, it is estimated that the woman also wants to squeeze as much money as possible, but it is impossible to squeeze out, and they will not be able to withdraw from the marriage, so in the end, I wish you to enter the palace of marriage as soon as possible.

Marriage hall.

OK.

1. Provisions of the Marriage Tobacco Law on the return of bride price.

According to the provisions of China's marriage law, whether the bride price can be refunded is still judged according to the marital relationship between the man and the woman.

If the bride price is given but the man and the woman do not enter into a marriage relationship, the woman is required to return the bride price to the man. If the wedding is only held in accordance with custom but the marriage certificate has not been obtained, the bride price will not be refunded in principle. If you are married, the bride price is non-refundable except in special circumstances.

2. Is the bride price refunded for divorce after one year of marriage?

If the man gives the bride price before the marriage, and the divorce after one year of marriage, it is still necessary to make a decision on whether to support the request for the return of the bride price according to the actual situation and nature of the man and the woman, and the court will make a judgment and handle the specific situation.

Generally, the divorce bride price after marriage is not returned, unless the husband's family has difficulties in life due to the payment of the bride price, and the return is considered as appropriate, which is also a special case of the return of the bride price.

3. The issue of the statute of limitations for the return of the bride price.

The statute of limitations is also applicable to the return of the bride price, i.e. two years.

According to the provisions of China's Marriage Tobacco Law, when a man and a woman get married, the man pays a certain wedding bride price to the woman, and only then can there be a basis for requesting the return of the bride price, but it does not depend on how long the man and woman divorce after marriage, but to combine the actual situation of the man and woman.

1. Legally, it is possible to ask for it back. But not all of them.

1. Article 10 of the Judicial Interpretation (II) of the Marriage Law stipulates that: Where a party requests the return of the bride price paid in accordance with custom, the people's court shall support it if it is ascertained to fall under the following circumstances:

1) The parties have not gone through the marriage registration formalities;

2) The parties have gone through marriage registration formalities but do not live together;

3) Payments made before marriage that cause hardship to the payor.

The application of the provisions of items (2) and (3) of the preceding paragraph shall be conditional on the divorce of both parties.

2. The amount of the bride price shall be returned in whole or in part according to the request of the parties, taking into account the length of time both parties have lived together, the economic situation of the payer, the liability for fault and other factors, and in accordance with the principle of fairness. Banquet expenses cannot be refunded if they are not actually obtained. Small amounts of property given to the other party during the relationship to express their feelings are in a gift relationship, and are not included in the bride price, and must not be returned.

The determination of small amounts may be comprehensively judged on the basis of local economic conditions, the parties' economic capacity, and other conditions.

2. Logically, it is the woman's unilateral repentance, and the woman's unilateral breach of the agreement, so it should be returned.

Should.

Counter-insults shall take the initiative to return the bride price to show their sincerity in withdrawing from the marriage. Otherwise, there is no basis for the words, and the bride price is proof.

At the time of engagement, 50,000 bride price was given, and then the woman repented, and the bride price should be returned.

Of course you should, and don't owe them, if you don't give it, it's a cheating marriage, I suggest asking them to come back, if you don't give it, then 110 call the police for mediation, and if it's useless, go to the people's court to sue them. After all, 50,000 yuan is a lot to buy a lot of things.

Should. What is given through the matchmaker is evidence, which can be resolved through negotiation, otherwise it can be resolved by suing the local people's court.

Legally, as long as the parties have not yet received their marriage certificate, the bride price should be refunded in full.

The engagement money was also given 50,000 yuan, and the woman repented, and the bride price should be returned, and there may be compensation for the losses caused.

If it is a simple engagement bride price, the woman's repentance is to unsubscribe, and the bride price should be actively returned to the man. If you don't take the initiative to retreat, the man should go and ask for it.

It depends on whether you are passive or active, if you are active, people will not give it, and if you are passive, the bride price can be returned, but there is no way to ask for a gift given during the relationship, unless she is willing to give it to you. The woman should be able to return the bride price.

Hello! Since the engaged woman repents, the bride price can also be returned, and she should also return the money to you. Nowadays, there are also women who cheat on marriage, but it is not common, and you are reminded to consider this aspect more.

Then I want to come back decisively, and I regret it when I get engaged, obviously I don't take you to heart! Such a woman is not worth your sacrifice for her. To come back, support you....