Please judge with a mature mindset who is wrong

It's clear that she doesn't care about you, at least not anymore after the breakup. The girl who really cares about you won't feel sorry for you when you're uncomfortable, and she shows your text messages to others, she's showing off that you still love her. As for her current boyfriend, you don't have to think about it, the important thing is whether she has feelings for you, if she doesn't feel it, even if she is single now, it will be difficult for you to recover.

In fact, some emotional problems cannot be said who is right and who is wrong, there is no right or wrong. I think if you still like what your ex-girlfriend wants to get back, then follow your own ideas, and don't worry about anything else, at least you can have no regrets in the future. If you feel that this relationship or such a girl does not need to be nostalgic, then let go freely, find your next her, and prepare for your her.

She doesn't respect you, after all, she was once the only one on the other side, and she didn't have the intimacy of her predecessors, but she must respect you.

You also think about her, not necessarily your current boyfriend is not good to him, you just come out, which is not good for both of them.

She's not right, she can't deal with her relationship problems maturely, and she shows her boyfriend, which also means that she doesn't love you anymore, and she doesn't have any love.

Isn't maturity sophisticated?

Maturity is to look at things deeply, think more comprehensively.

Don't be frizzy when you encounter small setbacks, and don't slump when you encounter big setbacks. Don't be surprised, don't be lazy and idle, believe in yourself, and have a tolerant heart.

Mature boys will have these characteristics.

Age, experience, behavior.

This requires you to observe carefully, and mature people are cautious.

There are a lot of people in our society who are strong and strong, and there are many people who are even gray-haired, and there is no doubt that they are physiologically ripe, but if you look closely, what he says and does is an innocent child, who does not have complete self-knowledge, who does not know how to take self-control, who does not know how to take responsibility, who is cowardly and selfish.

Maturity, in fact, is mostly a psychological reaction to love each other. You should look beyond the appearance to see the substance and understand the true meaning of what your boyfriend said to you. It can be understood that your boyfriend says that you are "naughty".

This proves that he really likes you. When you ask this question, I guess there's a good chance you're just a little girl and really immature, and that's okay. What is Maturity?

Maturity is a more appropriate way of thinking and coping with things and human feelings that have been tempered by the accumulation of time and the countless twists and turns of life. Maturity is not rushed, you have to think more.

How old are you People are not absolutely mature.

In fact, people are improving themselves every day and becoming mature For example, one day you think, "Hey, I used to be naïve like that" that is maturity I think don't expect the so-called real maturity, to give yourself room to grow, once people stop growing, life is meaningless Do you encounter any setbacks or feel that you have dealt with something immature Every time you encounter a difficulty, you will take the initiative to seek solutions Growing up in difficulties is the fastest maturity

Being able to see things rationally, being able to control your emotions, and being able to know what you want.

Thirty and stand, forty is not confused.

Not confused is really mature, understanding what you want, calling other people's eyes, but not changing yourself with other people's opinions.

By the time you don't need to ask this question, you're basically mature!!

It's no longer childish, and when girls are mature, they won't play with boys. When a boy is mature, he won't care.

Maturity is not based on how old you are, but on how many responsibilities you can take on your shoulders.

In short, now that the career is becoming again, having a wife room is a sign of a mature man! ~

I also want to know that it is a sign of immaturity for a 10-year-old to make a mistake, a 20-year-old is also a sign of immaturity, and a 30-year-old or 100-year-old is also a sign of immaturity; There have never been saints, and people always make different mistakes at different times, which is a sign of immaturity;

Many people believe that when a person can have a certain degree of self-control in his actions, words, thoughts, and behaviors, it is a manifestation of maturity;

It's hard enough to be an artist, and the pressure they are under and the things they can't make public are unimaginable. Besides, he is a particularly popular artist, he is very busy every day, even if he has free time, he has to be stared at by those boring paparazzi all day long, if it were you, what would you do, lose your temper? Or scold them?

He can't do any of these because he's a public figure. Still, the **s are nitpicking on him. He came out late because of filming, and they said he wasn't serious about **; He spent 100 million to make a "Panda Man" to realize his ideals, and they said he made it badly; He insisted on his dream of challenging the host, and they said he was not that material.

What do you want him to do? Could it be that he is Superman?! Do you have to be perfect in everything to get a little encouragement, a little applause?!

But he didn't give up, because he still had his great ideals and the people who loved him. [This is the meaning of "I admit that a person is tired enough"] fell in love with someone, and it hasn't happened yet, so they ask again and again. If you admit it, you will be in good spirits and make this news the headlines of major information.

After that, as long as you get in touch with a friend of the opposite sex, they will say that he is unfaithful to the relationship, and then PS a few hot **, which will greatly affect the relationship between the two people. ["Many people understand it, you don't have to admit it! If there is really a crisis in the relationship between two people, but they are still reporting and hyping their feelings, what should they do?

Besides, the names of the two were not connected again. Once it is reported, if you want to stop or continue, it seems that you have to worry about the outside world"] Besides, feelings are originally a matter of men and women, why do you want the public to let others judge equally?! [It's not the love of two people] If there are still fans, it's even more complicated.

Some fans support it, and some fans oppose and criticize it, which will have an impact on their acting career. No matter how good the relationship is, it can't withstand such a toss, it will make the two people physically and mentally exhausted, and they have no energy to save their feelings. ["If you add that both sides have their own fans, it will be more tired"].

Go and ask Jackie Chan and Andy Lau why they don't admit it all the time!

I admit that a person is tired enough--- he is a star, every bit of it has to be noticed by many people, the one he admitted before means that his private life is exposed to the public, he is indeed very tired, how can he admit the other? It is enough to have the experience of admitting one, it is enough to torture, and he does not admit that he also wants to protect his private life and protect the woman. If there is a change in the relationship, the woman will be affected and will be talked about by the public!

["Many people understand it, you don't have to admit it! --If someone has already guessed and understood, it is fine, there is no need to admit it through his mouth, this is to add a burden to him. Feelings are a matter of two people, so why do you have to let the public know?

This is two people in love, not the public in love together, everyone else is a third party. Besides, what if the relationship changes, if the public doesn't know that their feelings have changed, and then they fly solo, they will say who betrayed and whatever, what good is this for them?

Besides, the names of the two are not connected again--- if the relationship has changed, ** is still being hyped, what would you think? If you break up and still hear each other's names all the time, do you cry, laugh or be speechless?

Once it is reported, whether you want to stop or continue, it seems that you have to take into account the eyes of the outside world, it is not the love of two people--- are you catering to the taste of the public or according to your own wishes? It's the love of two people, it's good that two people know, and it's their own business to stop and continue.

In addition, the two sides are even more tired when they have their own fans--- there are a lot of Jay Chou fans, and it is terrible for the woman to have fans. Fans are outsiders, and fans will talk about their idols, fighting, belittling each other, and who is not good. These words show the two how much they will be affected.

Feelings are their own business, and they don't understand who is to whom and what fans. Fans are talking about it at this time, which is completely distraction.

Do you think he doesn't dare to take responsibility?

The artist admits that feelings are to be blurred, focused, and discussed by the public.

There are also some fans who will lose --- and some fans don't want to see their idols fall in love.

Some fans don't like the object of his love.

does not admit it, he is protecting his private life and protecting the woman.

After all, the relationship is a matter of two people, the public knows it, and there are many gossips, you have to understand his secret that can't be said!! ~

Let them develop on their own, maybe there will be surprises. **Fans are often stirred up!!

After enduring the challenges and pressures of different aspects, it is also completed psychological plastic surgery, and the process is the result Hehe, if the technology is a little more developed, maybe you can really take out the heart and carve it and then put it back? It's just that, in that case, it's really not interesting to live

I think so! It's a matter of your personal open-mindedness! Be generous!

Be open-minded, think more about everything, don't be so rigid! There is a way that the prime minister can hold the boat in his belly. Immaturity is not manifested by this!

A person's maturity or immaturity is not one-sided. You have to stand in your position as a friend, and think that he or she can't be by your side all the time, after all, he or she still has his or her own private life circle! Do you have any other friends besides you?

Isn't it? Learn to be tolerant of others, to be considerate of others, to understand others, and you will be happy, really! If you want to become mature, this is not something that can be done all at once, be calm in trouble, be decisive in everything, think more about others, learn to empathize, keep silent, don't talk too much, do more things, talk less, learn to be tactful in life, don't be straight, be forgiving and forgiving, and give people steps.

A little kid is naturally possessive, it's an instinct.

A one-year-old child sees anything he wants, and takes it, whether it's his or not, because he only knows one truth: "I want", and at this time, he is the only one in the world, and the world is his.

I = the world. The 2-year-old child slowly understands that there is a lot of me in this world, and he himself is just one of them, but he still thinks that my "me" is greater than his "me", and even if it is not his thing, even if he knows that it should not be, he still does not hesitate to "grab" what he wants from others.

I" others. As a three-year-old, I understand that there are a lot of things that I can't handle, and that I'm the same size in the world.

I" others. This is the experience of a person's growth, and it is also the beginning of a person's self-understanding, which is gained from the loss of the self little by little, and the small and small size of the self.

This is a normal process of a person's growth, but because of family factors, often many children are incorrectly met by adults to meet the needs of children, no matter how unreasonable, then at this time, children's hearts are still stuck in the second stage, even if I am others.

The terrible thing is that people are born on a piece of paper, and now they have a mark on that paper, and the more they are young, the harder they are to erase them, and they tend to stay with them for the rest of their lives, unless they are properly recognized or guided as adults.

In your opinion, your friends belong to you, can it be understood in this way 1

You have fewer friends, and you're generally good, and you're more loyal to your friends, and you're more considerate of each other, and if that's not the case, then I'm sorry to think that you were spoiled by extremes as a child.

If that's the case, then you have a premise in mind, which is, "I'm loyal to my friend, then my friend must be just as good to me," and that's based on a principle of reciprocity, and the question is, you're just thinking about yourself, and your friend thinks the same way.

And last but not least, from an emotional friendship point of view, you're more emotionally dependent on your friends, you like to talk, I don't know if I'm right, but if that's the case, then you need to understand that there is a distance between adults, and it's not like a child's natural intimacy with their parents, and you need to be more emotionally independent.

And then let's go back to where we said at the beginning, You're still in the stage of me, you want to take possession of your friends' feelings and friendships, but in fact, people are equal, parallel, distanced, and they are independent subjects, not a mixture of sticking to each other, and if you can collect the excessive amount of feelings, you can be more mature, and emotional independence is what you really want to do.